HAVE YOU EVER BEEN HOMELESS?

I have never been homeless, have you?  I came close a couple times.  When I was just a child, I threatened to run away a number of times, but that doesn’t really count, because I always came home.  I was fortunate.  The National Conference of State Legislatures has this to say about youth homelessness in the United States.

“Each year, an estimated 4.2 million youth and young adults experience homelessness, of which 700,000 are unaccompanied minors, meaning they are not part of a family or accompanied by a parent or guardian. On any given night, approximately 41,000 unaccompanied youth ages 13-25 experience homelessness.”

These statistics are more than staggering for a country that is supposed to provide for the needs of the poor with many social programs available for them.  It used to be that the church would look after those suffering from poverty.  Being poor is not something we plan to be.  Yet so many of our fellow Americans are sleeping on park benches, being devoured by health issues, addiction and so much more.  They’re overlooked or looked down upon by the rich and seem to be too much to handle for the church.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this whole situation lately, because I live in a communty that has a swelling number of homeless and destitute, who are doing whatever they need to in order to stay alive.  Most often those things include using and selling drugs, selling their bodies for sex and taking any \job just to get a meal. 

Most of us have nice warm beds to tumble into each night.  We don’t lack for a hot meal.  Our bellies are usually adequately filled.  There was a time in my life when I wondered if I might be one of those homeless millions, living out of dumpsters and hiding under bridges to keep the elements from killing me.  We were living the good life.  We had more than enough.  My husband had built a successful business and several employees were partaking in the benefits.  We purchased a newly built home on the advice of our accountant.  He told us it would be a wise write off for tax purposes. For about two years everything continuued to prosper and then it all fell apart.  Within only a few months, the economy fell apart.  There was no need for my husband’s business anymore.  We were forced into bankruptcy court and our  new home went into foreclosure.  For a short time there, we had no idea what we were going to do.  Visions of panhandling on the side of the road became plausible.  Being at the height of his career, my husband was now over qualified for every job he applied for.  Until the right job came along, he drove a delivery truck and I cleaned toilets.

Those jobs provided just enough income for us to get by.  Finding housing was another thing all together.  Because of our past history, buying a house was impossible and we would have to scrape just to get by if we rented.  Still we didn’t give up.  Our prayers have always been a result of our relationship with God.  He was the only One who could help us.  Sometimes we have to hit the pits before we can rise out of them.  This could’ve been the end for us, but we remained hopeful in the Lord and as usual He came through for us.  

We all need to become aware of the needs of those struggling to survive the pangs of poverty in our communities.  I’m not sure what we can do, but just reaching out to someone is probably a good first step.  Letting them know that God loves them, even though they feel unloved.  Giving them a purpose for living and helping in even the smallest ways can begin the healing.  Leading them to find employment or offering a meal.  What may seem meaningless to us, can mean everything to them.  Our Savior, Jesus had a lot to say about the poor and our obligation to help them.  He was Himself without a permanent residence during His ministry.  It all begins with us and our willingness to care for others as we would want to be cared for in like circumstances. 

 

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IF I ONLY KNEW THEN, WHAT I KNOW NOW

 

It’s too bad raising kids doesn’t come with a set of instructions.  Many books have been written on the subject and most think they have all the answers, but each case is different and so is every child.  There’s no” one size fits all” when it comes to being a parent.  You almost have to take each moment as it comes and simply do the best you can.

If I knew then all the things I know now, I’m sure I would’ve done a better job of parenting.  Unfortunately years of experience often come with the cost of an aging body and a lack of energy, so I’m sure this is why the female body is designed to have children when they’re younger, if for nothing else than to be able to keep up with them. Can you imagine Sarah’s first thoughts when she finally became pregnant at the age of 90?

Learning through experience can often be best.  We learn through our mistakes – take things as they come – sometimes give up and feel like total failures – blame ourselves – make more mistakes – are way too hard on ourselves – did I mention giving up?

Like anything we experience in life, placing it in God’s hands will make the road less difficult.  The Bible is filled with great information on how to love as God loves us.   Pray every day for your children.  Enjoy the ride – there is joy in the little things – even the oatmeal on the ceiling,  your spray painted dog and gum in the hair.  Trust that God is with you in the journey.  The end result will amaze you.  Not only will you wind up with a great kid, but you’ll discover you didn’t do such a bad job after all.

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LIKE SANDS THROUGH THE HOUR GLASS

Deja vous all over again. As I happened to be scrolling through the smart TV to find some interesting entertainment to fill my empty mind, I happened upon an old favorite of mine. It was the continuing soap opera I watched as a young mom, more than fifty years ago. It’s still on the tube! There are even some of the same characters I remember. Don’t these actors ever die? Oh yes, I remember, they do, but the return eventually as a new character or a ghost from the past. Anyway those days of raising a family, yet finding a half hour a day to tune into “Days of Our Lives,” was almost a necessary escape for me. I didn’t bother to tune in to the current version, because I was afraid they were still on the same storyline, but it did get me thinking about the sands of time and how quickly they pass.

An old hour glass collects dust on the mantle piece. Occasionally a curious child will decide to turn it over and watch the sand slowly sift from one area to another. Each grain takes its place in familiar surroundings, yet never knowing where it will end up. We start each day with those sands set in place. We plan for how the day will progress. We get interrupted along the way, with various nuisances or change of plans, but we continue to pour ourselves into the day – grain by grain – slowly yet effortlessly falling into place – only to be returned from where we came, and do it all over again the next day. We try to fill the spaces that were interfered with the day before. We go through the motions. We don’t always stop to think that we’re making any kind of profound impact on the world, yet each of our movements has been mapped out by God in advance. Our purpose is His. Our will gets in the way of that purpose many times. We think we can force our opinions on others. We believe we must do something to obtain our salvation. We try to manage the unmanageable ourselves. We go outside our boundaries and fall away from the path that was positioned for us before our conception.

Unlike the old soap opera, which depended on repeat viewers, there doesn’t have to be drama in every moment we live. Sometimes we can gain contentment just by enjoying a sunrise or sunset. We might take a few moments in quiet conversation with our Creator. We can plan our days, but almost always count on interruptions. The interruptions might be life changing, or simply going through the motions, but each of those moments is valuable. As we start a new week, we’re faced with all kinds of options. For many right now, the options aren’t great. We still face a pandemic. Our leadership and economy are in question. Crime is rising and getting closer and closer to home. Homelessness and addiction is up. Suicide is becoming much too commonplace. The next episode doesn’t look promising, if we continue to bury our heads in the sand. The ups and downs of living can quickly turn mundane and hopeless if we allow them to.

Today is a new beginning. Get rid of the baggage that’s clouding your thinking and your optimism. Look at this day as the start of a new adventure – a new opportunity – a blessing from God. As we go through each hour, remember that you have the King of Creation looking out for you. His love is unconditional – everlasting – perfect. He loves us beyond comprehension even though we don’t deserve it. With that thought in mind, every day can be a fresh start – a new story – an optimistic outlook – freedom and peace of mind, because He has numbered all the days of our lives.

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THINGS ARE LOOKING UP

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

 

Sunlight trickles through slightly skeletal branches,

Giving way to glistening dew drops,,

Like a scattering of diamonds across the open expanse,

As the sun rises to full height, it dispenses all its light and beauty for our pleasure,

Each night grows a little longer, removing the dirt of yesterday,

Each hour is packed with promise of new life,

Each minute fills our hearts with hope,

Each second we’re restored,

Renewed,

Revived,

Redeemed,

As the Son rose from the dead, we are assured the same things,

Cleansing from our sins,

Promise of eternal life,

Even in the darkness of night,

There is hope in Christ, Jesus.

IN HIS MERCY, HE HEARS OUR PRAYERS!

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CARRY ON

It was the time of the European Renaissance.  King Henry VIII would distance himself from the Catholic church in order to divorce his first wife and marry his mistress.  The church was in the throes of corruption and was selling indulgences to bulk up their treasury.  Unsuspecting people paid the price to buy their way into heaven. New inventions were created, including the printing press.  Minds were being changed as well,

With change we almost always see an increase in fraudulence and deceit.  Philosophies, progress, pride,  knowledge and growth will likely lead to dishonesty, anger, hatred, false teaching and lies.  It’s like that today as we see corruption all around us.  When someone stirs the pot and tries to root out the evil, they face a lot of controversy.  Martin Luther was a man like that.

When he was old enough to attend college, his father insisted that he study law.  Less than six weeks into his studies, Martin decided to become a monk.  It is said that he was in a serious thunderstorm and feared for his life. It was that storm that convinced him to follow a different path.  He became a monk in the Order of the Hermits of St. Augustine.  The order was strict and he lived in a cell without heat and a mundane life which allowed for no interaction.  He was devoted to his daily work.  He began each day at 2 AM with prayer and repentance.  One of his priests often complained about Luther and his endless confessions. It seemed he felt completely unworthy of Christ’s love and salvation.

When he posted the 95 theses on the door of the church at Wittenburg, he had no intention of stirring things up.  His ideas were in response to the selling of indulgences and the corrupt philosophies being sold along with them.  This man of God’s Word struggled constantly with his inability to rid himself of sin.  He felt his works were never enough to appease a jealous God.  No amount of self-abuse, deprivation, or good works would take away his guilt.

Today we’re faced with similar problems. Only this time the truth has been corrupted in order to conform to the desires and lifestyles of a divided populace. Anything goes and the minute you speak against it, you’re accused of being intolerant.  When Martin stumbled across the following Bible verse, he could no longer be silent.

Ephesians 2:8 “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God”(ESV)

Today something new gnaws away at our churches in America. When we remain silent, we’re accepting the lies as truth. When our church is being attacked from all sides and seen as purveyors of gloom and doom, rather than a place of sanctuary – we need to hold to God’s truths.  When the devil is allowed to invade God’s house, we need to speak up.  We must be fearlessly vocal when defending the Bible.. When we remain silent, we’re as much as saying we accept the lies as truth. Holding to God’s Word takes courage. Some call it being stubborn –  others believe in following God and His plans for us.

Luther defended the pure teachings of the Bible and a reformation began. When we stand up for the truth of God, we cannot do otherwise.

“Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.” Plato

 

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WHEN THERE ARE NO WORDS

COVID has captured another of our friends and he is now in the presence of God.  As we try to make sense of the darkness of this disease, it’s hard to imagine how it affects so many of us.  Words seem pointless for they can’t begin to bring healing in the time of grief.  Even the confidence we have in life after death for those who believe in God, there is and will always be an empty place at the dinner table – not having that special person to travel with through life – the joys and memories to be shared of years of committment to each other.  For the Christian, there’s the ocnfidence and hope of a new and perfect life beyond the grave.  We long for that place as we trudge through the darkness of this one, but the sting of death is still very real.

Time may take away the pain that we experience at first, but the loss of someone dear never really goes away.  It has been branded into our heart,  Eventually the good memories will take the place of reality, but in the meantime, we’re often left alone in our mourning.  Those who grieve with the bereaved may not have the words of comfort they need at the moment.  Nothing seems to console or give peace, unless you know that this ending leads to a whole new beginning.

God’s Word is filled with words of comfort.  They sustain us when well intentioned words from friends and family fail.  

JOB 19:25-27 

“For I know that my Redeemer lives,
    and at the last he will stand upon the earth
 And after my skin has been thus destroyed,
    yet in my flesh I shall see God,
whom I shall see for myself,
    and my eyes shall behold, and not another.
    My heart faints within me!”

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WORDS OF TRUTH

 

Aslan says,

“though the Witch knew the Deep Magic, there is a magic deeper still which she did not know.  Her knowledge goes back only to the dawn of time.  But if she could have looked a little further back…she would have read…a different incantation.  She would have known that when a willing victim who had committed no treachery was killed in a traitor’s stead, the Table would crack and Death itself would start working backwards …“

The Lion, The Witch & The Wardrobe, by C.S. Lewis was written as a child’s tale of redemption.  Even though it was filled with fantastical characters and mythology, Lewis managed to interweave his faith into the story.  Of course this is simply a story.  The one that it’s derived from is true.

A willing victim did lay down His life for humanity.  He took the place of all of us when He was sacrificed on the cross.  Jesus conquered death – even a brutal death without cause, without blame, without protest.  He did it because it was the only way.

Today we can rest in the afterglow of Easter.  The sacrificial days of Lent are done .  The difficult days of the Passion are over.  The tomb has been found empty and the Savior has risen indeed.  The battle is over.  The victory has been won.  End of story?  Not yet.

Now what do we do with this wonderful gift?  God has blessed us with eternal life.  The worse thing we can do is hide it within our own sheltered little lives.  It’s too great a gift not to share.  When Jesus made that final sacrifice, He wasn’t doing so for just a select few. He came for all sinners – the Hitlers, the Charles Mansons, the Judases, the most sinful of all – YOU and ME.  His death would have meant nothing otherwise.

His resurrection assures us that we will reap the benefits of His holy kingdom when we pass from this earth into heaven.  He’s made that possible because of His great love for His creation.  Now that this wonderful news has been given to us, our hearts should be so filled with joy, that we cannot contain it.  Spread the Gospel!  Share it with everyone.  We all need it.  It is our life – our connection to our loving God – our salvation – our freedom.

Today we can be sure that heaven is real – that God is real – that He died once for all and that salvation is truth and it’s ours.  

CHRIST IS RISEN – HE IS RISEN INDEED!

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WHAT’S INSIDE?

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

 

The Twin Cities of Minnesota was again attacked this weekend with unnecessary crime, killing one and injuring many.  The darkness that is beginning to encase our once lovely pair of cities on the river is turning faster than ever.  We need good leadershilp.  We need compassion.  We need to stop the hate.  We need GOD!

Shades of grey, crimson and yellow dot the cityscape with a magical mist,

Covering a multitude of sins,

I wonder if this is how we look to God?

Covered with a veil of repentance and grief over past sins,

Shrouded in a haze of uncertainty,

No!

God looks at us and sees

Only His Son and what He has accomplished,

We no longer carry the undistinguishable,

The hidden,

The burden,

It has all been washed away in the blood of the lamb,

No longer are we seeped in darkness,

No longer in fear,

God has forgiven us all through His own Son, Jesus,

Let His love shine through us and bring that light to others.

 

 

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JEWELS OF DE NIAL MARATHON WEEK

As you know, I’ve spent the entire pandemic in a creative frenzy.  My over 55 acting class fizzled out, but something wonderful sprang forth from it.  The three women in the front row of these two photos  (R to L,) me, Christine and June set out to create a series of episodes relating to issues that we encounter as we age.  We added Todd and Gail as time went on, and will probably continue to include more actors or substitute some as necessary.  I mean, we’re not going to live forever – at least not in this world.   In the meantime, were hoping to reach  senior centers, assisted living and memory care facilities, along with the theatre where it all started.

Our stories are taken from real life experiences.  The main characters range in age from 60s to 80s.  Each of us are experienced in education, the arts, performance and we all love to write.  This started as an experiment.  It morphed into a radio show – which we recorded – and is now in its current state of reaching out to the community in live performance.  This week we’re performing for a local senior center.  From Thursday through Saturday, we’ll be at our home base performing.  

We started this process just prior to the pandemic and shutdown almost two years ago.  When things closed down, we continued to meed via Zoom.  Even in those meetings, we couldn’t contain our laughter nor the relationships we were building along the way.  In any collaboration, there will be differences of opinion, but they seem to be working out and causing more ideas to take root. 

This week’s shows are “The Auction,” which deals with downsizing and getting rid of our stuff so that we can remodel the rest rooms at our theatre.  It was originally designed for children and the toilets are all short.  The auction will help us raise money to raise the toilets. The second show, is called, “Technical Difficulties,” which includes password problems, dealing with technology while using a rotary phone and opening a new computer that displays only the word, “Dell.”  Having grown up without all this technology creates a great deal of comedy.  The cool thing is that it’s relateable to all ages as the youngers get frustrated while teaching their elders how to use it.  During the holiday season, the Jewels’ usual plans are interrupted and we decide to take a cruise together.  There is definitely more to come.  

So why is this so important?  The program began as a means to get those 55+  folks back into the community and doing something useful and fun while creating new friendships and sharpening our minds.  You’re only as young as you allow yourself to be.  As far as aging is concerned, I’ve tried it and it’s really overrated.  My friends and I have used the pandemic for our own enjoyment and sanity. It has opened the doors to a whole new enterprise.  Stay tuned for our next episode.

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LIFE & DEATH

 


 

When we’re born, we come into the world screaming our little lungs out. When we leave it, many of us will do the same. Neither birth nor death is easy. We spend nine months safely tucked away in our mother’s womb; in a cozy environment where all our needs are taken care of.  The birthing process pushes those tiny bodies into an entirely different world; one filled with uncertainty.
 
At death, man has experienced life and feels comfortable with it, so that leaving it isn’t so easy either.We’ve established lifetime relationships that we want to hang onto.  We fear what will happen to those we love when we’re gone. We worry that our lives didn’t have any impact.  We don’t know for sure what lies ahead. 
 
What happens after death? As I get closer to the end of my existence, I often think about that and still am fearful, even though I know I am assured a wonderful life in heaven. The other side of life is just as unknown as what we faced when we entered this world, but because of God’s love for us, we can be confident that what lies ahead will be better than we ever expected and so much better than what we left behind.  The thought of separation from them can be daunting though.  We’d like to think we can live forever when in truth we can.  We will live for eternity if we follow our Lord, Jesus.  He will be at the gate of heaven, waiting for us.  He will lead us in and give us the fulfillment of His promise in heaven.  We may be leaving what was familiar and comfortable behind, but the adventure is just about to begin.
 

Lord, help me to keep a child like faith even in my old age and trust that you will keep your promise of an eternal life with you.  You created me before I was born.  You guided me through a life filled with ups and downs, sickness and health, success and loss.  I know you will be with me even in eternity.  Thank you for the blessing of eternal life.  Amen!

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I DON’T NEED INFLATION

During most of my 79 years, I have been fighting inflation. I dont need it anymore, nor do I want it. Begone with thee, inflation!. I’ve seen my body mass go up and down more than the economy and in today’s world, that might be hard to believe. Has anyone been grocery shopping lately? This is also something I’m really getting close to being done with. When one of your only ventures into the outside world includes going to the store for rations, it’s time to take stock of what’s important. We don’t eat out very often, so my weekly shopping needs have skyrocketed recently.

Not to mention the paper products. We pay almost $2 for a roll of toilet paper that’s going to wind up in the toilet anyway. It might just be time to get out some of those old magazines we’ve been saving because we might want to read them again. The rolls are becoming bigger and bigger it seems. However when you use only four squares of the roll, you’ve eliminated half the roll.

Everything at the supermarket is on the rise, including the tempers of the shoppers and cashiers. Road rage with a shopping cart is more prevalent. The required, “did you find everything you were looking for?” question by the cashiers is like a second thought and not really bearing any concern whatever. People push and shove their way through the aisles as if they were on a mission to get out of there as quickly as possible. In most cases it is. If you’ve been vaccinated and can’t breathe with a mask, you receive the offer of one by a clerk waiting at the door to dispense one. The shaming has begun.

Meat prices are through the roof. I wonder how much of that money is going to the farmers who bred, raised and sold those animals for human consumption. Soon we will all be vegan and that will make everyone happy, except for those of us who still enjoy our meat and potatoes.

There was a time when you could buy a can of peas for 50 cents. Today you’re lucky if you get one pea in the can you just paid almost two dollars for. I know this is all part of the trickle down effect we heard of from many past presidents. If the government is going to meet its budget, they must tax the rich, which includes the corporations and suppliers that brings us the food, which they in turn must overcharge the consumer with. Does anyone get that? Maybe the solution would be to go back to living off the earth. Oh but then, we’d be messing with the environment.

Inflation used to mean putting air into something or making it bigger. Today our dollar isn’t worth the paper it’s printed on, our needs excede our dollars, our bellys are still inflated and there’s little hope of change anywhere, except in the coffers of the US government. Maybe I should get a government job. Maybe I could be an activist. I hear they make almost $15/hour. Whatever I choose to do, my income will never catch up to my outgo.

So, I’ll continue to watch my social security check run out faster each month.  I’ll resort to eating dogfood and dumbster diving if necessary.  I’ve never had to go hungry and my belt size can attest to that.  Maybe I can live off my fat for a few months.

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STOP THE WORLD, I WANT TO GET OFF!

The artist/author, Don Freeman was best known for his children’s literature. Most youngsters and their parents have heard of “Corduroy,” the little red bear.  He died in 1978, so had no clue about what the United States would become in the next fifty years.  Gerald Ford was president at that time.  The nation had been through internal turmoil for a while, including the resignation of Richard Nixon and the entire Watergate Scandal which set that into motion.

I too have seen a huge change in our country since that time. I have seen a slow erosion of morality along with a topsy turvy society that can’t even begin to compare to the early years of my life.  Today as I write anything, I must be cognizant of not hurting anyone’s feelings or offending anyone in even the slightest way.  There is no rule book for this, other than the popular opinion that says we must not step on any toes.  Does that mean we must not correct, admonish, educate, assist, guide, set rules or voice our thoughts?  I hope not, because as soon as free thinking is abolished, so will the freedoms we share in our country.

We’re in the middle of a crisis, in my opinion.  We’ ve endured a year and a half of a plague that doesn’t show any signs of giving up.  People are tired of being cooped up so the extreme opposite is now happening.  The fact that schools are open and the usual fall allergies and germs from gathering have taken on the guise of  COVID19, doesn’t seem to bother some folks.  The grocery stores, restaurants, retail, entertainment and sporting venues have gone back to normal numbers and people wonder why the virus is spiking.  We tend to look to our leadership to make sense of all of it, but that just intensifies the anxiety.  Some choose to numb the effects of all this by indulging in drugs and alcohol.  Some become slaves to technology.  Others feel that they can overcome these difficulties by looking inward and meditating on their navels.  We may even become involved in special interest groups and think we can fix things by ourselves.  I’m not saying that becoming active in the outcome of our society is a bad thing. What I’m trying to convey it that I think we’ve turned away from the One who can help us through any circumstance.  

Being a solid Christian is certainly not going to guarantee a life of ease.   In fact it can lead to a life of persecution and hatred towards us.  Maybe that’s why folks don’t find hope in the church anymore.  We’re all pretty tired of fighting a losing battle – right?

“Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account.  Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” Matthew 5:11-12

Those words of Jesus should give us consolation, but who wants to be at war with the world all the time? Sure, we know that a better place is on the other side of death, but can’t we enjoy our lives as well? The darkness of our world is not going to get better until Jesus returns to us. That’s the truth. We will endure all of it, if we have something to look forward to and God has provided that as well. When Jesus first came to us, He gave us the promise of eternal life. He told us how to live – even when we’re in an upside down world. He promised to give us the strength to fight the evil one. He gives us confidence, endurance, perserverance, power and His Holy Word as the armor we need to fight the enemy. He also promises to be with us every step of the way. We are more than conquerers, because He always keeps His promises.

It would be nice to just press a button and stop the world so we could get off, but where would we go?

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THE DEVIL’S TOOLBOX

I know that my Redeemer lives and that I will inherit His kingdom some day.  I believe that His resurrection from death is in truth what will happen to me when I die, but for some reason, that nasty old enemy tries to convince me that I still must do something to forgive myself.  The doubts usually happen in my dreams. All the evil things I’ve done in my life resurface and condemn me all over again.

I’m sure I’m not alone in these feelings.  We’re especially when we have self doubt of any kind – when our world is upside down and we can’t make any sense of it – when Satan has been allowed to roam the earth and feed us the falsest of information, making us doubt what God has so graciously done for us.  I know that Jesus paid the price.  I know that I’m forgiven, even though I don’t deserve it.  I know that those things are true.  I also know that our nature to be sinners is still within us and will remain until we die, so we are fair game in a way.

My dreams will continue.  My faith will too.  I pray that God would strengthen me day by day so that I can rest in that assurance and know that I have been forgiven once for every sin.  We can’t do that by ourselves.  God’s example of true forgiveness should be a goal for us too.  We need to forgive others when we’ve been hurt by words or deeds. We need to look beyond the fears of this world and reach out to the One who puts everything back together again.  He made us.  He loves us.  He will continue to do so forever.  Our lifeline to Him is through His Holy Word. Time to ransack the scriptures again.  Oh for the ability to be more like Him every day.

Dear, Father, God,

You have forgiven me of all my sins..  Your mercy is far beyond human comprehension.  Help me to forgive others as you have forgiven me.  Lead me always to you.  You are my rock and salvation.  Keep the devil at bay, for I know that you have already defeated him and your power is far greater.  Thank you for loving me and the whole world so much that you made the ultimate sacrifice to save us.  Amen!

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KEEP ON KEEPING ON

Martin Luther spent the greater part of his young life trying to live up to his father’s expectations of him, his peers’ opinions of him and the church’s requirements of him.  He thought that if only He was a better person, lived a pious life, said more prayers, beat himself up both mentally and physically he just might measure up.  When the scriptures were finally revealed to Him, he realized that everything had already been done.  His sin had been paid for – his place in heaven was guaranteed – his eternal life assured.  Nothing that he could do would ever match that.

So often we go through life trying to meet the “standard” of perfection.  We dress the right way, we go to church, we help others, we take care of our families.  Our lives seem perfect – or are they?  Do we feel defeated when we don’t fit the mold for success?  Do we give up when we just can’t take the everyday stresses of life?  Do we belittle ourselves until people finally agree with us? 

God doesn’t want us to live that way.  He is the One who made us.  If we give up on ourselves, we are in fact giving up on Him too.  His hands formed us.  He breathed the breath of life into us.  He walks with us every day.  He has a plan for our lives.  He has also prepared perfection for our lives after death.  Because of that amazing gift, we give thanks through our deeds.  Our works are done not to buy our salvation, but because of our gratitude for what has been done for us.

“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. ”  Ephesians 2:10

Lord, because of Your love for me, I have been made perfect in Your sight.  When I start getting down on myself, remind me of Your constant presence in my life.   Help me to remember how much You gave to buy me back.  In Jesus name, I pray. Amen!

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AUTUMN PURGE

Actually I’m crazy about this time of year.  At least I can breathe again for a week or two.  The air is crisp and fresh and mold spores haven’t yet taken hold.  Unlike Maxine, I enjoy a blanket of leaves on my lawn.  We have an old Black Walnut tree in the center of the yard, that rolls out a lovely carpet of gold and gives a whole new definition to beauty.

There are other things to do this week beside raking.  First and foremost is putting away bulbs which will bloom again next year if stored away.  Then there are all our lawn ornaments and the porcelain  wren houses and bird baths that must be stored inside.  I’ll be doing some trim painting and plan to do a little Tom Sawyer action on our little patio fence.  There are plenty of things to dispose of at this time of year.

On the inside, I’ll be adjusting my closet and moving summer clothes into crates for storage and winter flannels will replace them.  Deep cleaning on the inside – like cleaning the oven, refrigerator and getting into the corners of cabinets and neglected spaces – can all be done during our long winter expanse.  Although I  probably will procrastinate on some of those jobs this year.  It seems with age, most of those tasks seem less important. Now I’m a lot more concerned about my inner shell – the heart and soul of me.  I know that I have a new life ahead when this one ends.  It will be free from the dismal duties we place on ourselves.  It will be full of blessing, no tears, with peace and joy abundant.  I look forward to that, but I still have some time left to enjoy the beauty that God has created for the right now too.

So I’ll do what I can this week.  Next week begins a time filled with extra rehearsals and performance venues.  Then all will be quiet on the western front for a little while.  Enjoy the moments God has given you.  Be blessed by them and hold them tightly in your heart.  The little treasures are the greatest blessings.

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ALL FOGGED UP

 
ART & INSPIRATION FROM PAUL & KATHY BOECHER

The opaque murkiness of an impenetrable sky surrounds you. Your mind swirls with empty thoughts. You feel alone, lost, unapproachable, frightened. There is nothing but an enclosing haze that makes your mind swim.

A somberness encumbers you – shrouds you, yet causes you to shout out for just a glimmer of light.  Your heart pounds within your chest – beating like the sound of a dusty old grandfather clock. Your ears listen attentively to each and every sound with anticipation, fear, helplessness.

Your eyes plead for just a tiny glimpse of light and then it happens. A small star in the distant sky slowly moves towards you. The light that shines from it, bounces to other heavenly bodies and they too come to life. This one bit of light now encompasses the entire sky and it’s as if someone turned on the switch.

Your eyes open wide. You breathe it all in. You feel safe. Every sense is enlivened by the glory of it. You are released from the mantle of uncertainty. The pall has been lifted. God is in the heavens and He has drawn you closer to Him.fear

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IT’S CHURCH DAY

Going to church has always been a part of my week.  It’s a time to refresh from the burdens of the past week and to look forward to the next one with hope and regeneration.   Te church we attend is small in comparison to our last one, but the love of God fills its walls, just like our old one did.

We greet each other each Sunday with concern about health issues.  We hear about treatments being done, loss of loved ones, hurting hearts, but we also see smiling faces of reassurance and thoughts of hope for an end to suffering some day.  We pray for our family and friends.  We pray for our government.  We depend on God to direct our path.

Little children with inquiring, hungry minds sit at the altar to hear God’s message to them.  We share the Sacrament of the Lord’s supper.  We sing hymns of praise and thanksgiving and hear God’s Word preached in truth and purity.

The joy of attending church each Sunday comes from so many things.  It can be the comforting words from the pulpit or the compassion for a friend in need.  It can be a firm handshake or hug from someone you haven’t seen for a while.  It can be a time of reflection, repentance and forgiveness.  Most of all, it’s time well spent, with the King of Creation.

God’s home is open to all who seek sanctuary in His loving arms.  Try it.  You’ll like it!

 

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TIME TO WASH THE WINDOWS

Having two very creative minds living under one roof isn’t always a good thing. We also have way too much time on our hands, because we’re “retired” I do all my writing on the dining room table which looks out through four tall windows to view almost the entire neighborhood. We spend a lot of time talking at that same table and often are witness to some strange goings on. Because we have such vivid imaginations, we tend to create some very interesting stories throughout the day as we look out those windows. Think of the movie, “Rear Window.” Maybe I’ll write my own version of that story and call it “Side Windows.”

Since I’m not cleaning my house like I did when I was in my sixties, windows tend to cloud up, even without a dog adding his two cents worth. I try to clean them at least twice a year, but that doesn’t always do the trick. Windows can be kind of like our eyes. They need to be cared for from time to time.

Helen Keller had quite a story. Born without her ability to see along with beaing deaf were challenges she overcame because of her strong will and a very determined teacher. She once said, “The only thing worse than being blind is having sight but no vision.” I believe that being blessed with sight is often overlooked or taken for granted, just like any of our senses, but sight and vision are really two different things. We see with our eyes, but our vision includes more than the act of looking. It causes us to search our own minds and add our own thinking or imagination to the mix.

Our vision can be clouded by outside influences.  Those influences can darken our minds and turn us into naysayers, skeptics, conspiracy theorists and more.When we forget to clean up the mess from within, it becomes even more so.  Thankfully we have a Savior that has perfect sight and He should really be our only source of vision..

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MAKING ADJUSTMENTS

As we age, we need to constantly make adjustments to the way we used to do things.  For example: the stairs in the house.  Our last house had a second level, which required climbing stairs up and down.  We were young when we bought that house, so steps were easy.  With the passage of time, it became more and more difficult to bend those overworked knees.  So we made an effort to take our time, look down at our feet to make sure they were affixed to the step and plan on a longer trip than before.  When juggling art supplies, laundry, sheets and pillow cases and crates of costumes were part of our daily routine, steps were just a way to get from one place to another.  By the time we were ready to downsize, we determined that we would buy a house without steps.  We also decided that we wanted to be away from the city in a rural setting, with a nice, natural environment yet easy access to the places we frequented.  Not too much to ask for.

After looking at hundreds of houses, we thought we’d never find the ideal one  The last house we viewed was perfect  It was a house built in 1875, recently restored, quaint and adorable.  It’s reminiscent of the farm homes that used to pepper the landscape during those long years ago.  Only problem is, it’s a two story home.  There are steps.  There’s no basement, except for a cistern which is accessible via a narrow series of stairs.  We were willing to make adjustments, because we loved everything else it had to offer.  It was close to our church, our family, our places  of business and it was convenient.  Did I mention the steps? Paul continues to inhabit the upstairs.  He sleeps in the bedroom up there.  He also has one of his studios in that space.  He has made adjustments, especially when he must carry loads of paintings and supplies used for teaching or painting up and down.  He considers this his Stair Master. He has also conceived of a brilliant plan to alert me when he is coming down the stairs.  It’s easier for him to come down backwards, so he “beeps” when he’s on his way down.  That way I don’t bump into him as I pass the staircase.

I can make it up the stairs, but I doxn’t venture up too often, because I have to crawl rather than walk.  It’s interesting how many ways a person can go up and down.

There are other adjustments for the aging body.  I’ve mentioned this before, but we have several little sitting areas we’ve designed so that you can rest for a while if you’re doing some outside chores, like mowing the lawn or gardening.  Paul even conceived of a new form of croquet. He sets the hoops strategically so that they are near one of the sitting areas.  That way you can sit and rest before proceeding to the next one.

We may be getting older, but we still have the capacity to think things through.  Making adjustments is just a means of using common sense and years of experimentation.  I thank God for that ability as we journey through these special years of growing old together.

 

 

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NO MAN IS AN ISLAND

ART &  POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER

Looking at the beauty which inhabits this planet,

Observing the complexity of it all,

Seeing life come forth from nothing but dead earth and rotting soil,

Watching as all of it is provided and cared for, in spite of our neglect,

How can anyone deny the existence of an Almighty Creator,

How can beautiful hues of purple, red and blue come together in such harmony,

How can the trees be placed in such perfect order as to provide protecting shade,

How can the waters rise to lick the land and give the vegetation nourishment,

How can life develop from a tiny seed and become a future Einstein or Mozart,

How can mighty nations come to be,

How can intelligence develop in one species and not another,

How can we look at this and say it all happened by chance,

The scientists look for evidence, but it’s right in front of their eyes,

God alone created this,  He created us, He joined us to Himself,

We can’t survive alone, even though our minds tell us otherwise,

We need Him, our Creator, our Comforter, Our Savior,

Not only for this life, but for eternity.

We cannot do this.  Only God can.

 

 

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