ARE WE EVER READY?

We’re living in terrifying times.  Fear grasps our throats and we choke on it.  We’re slowly and cleverly being devoured by evil.  It’s a problem old as time. In my lifetime alone, I’ve experienced the fear of invasion from foreign governments created by the surprise attack on Pearl Harbor.  Again, as I attended elementary school, I remember practice air raid drills, where we’d be ushered to the basement and told to sit and cover our heads.  As time went by, there was the Korean War, Bay of Pigs invasion, the Cold War, Viet Nam, Persian Gulf, Afghanistan. We’ll never escape evil on this planet. However, if fear rules our hearts, our enemies have already achieved their goal.  Thus it was when Pearl Harbor was attacked on this day in 1941.  No one expected it.  No one was prepared.   No one forgot.  It was a day that continues to haunt us as a nation.

My parents were thinking about the child that would be born in six months.  I was safely nestled in my mother’s womb.  The United States had resisted entering World War II, but the events of that day, meant we could no longer be uninvolved.  Japan sent waves and waves of planes across the Islands of Hawaii, bombed the American ships in Pearl Harbor and Kamikaze pilots plunged into the sea, destroying themselves along with unsuspecting sailors. Because information couldn’t be transmitted with speed – no CNN – no internet – difficult communication on all levels; it took  a while before all the details were sorted out and the news reached President Roosevelt.  Our nation was devastated.  Our navy  crushed.  2,403 dead and 1,176 wounded.  Our resolve was to “Remember Pearl Harbor” as involvement in this war was inevitable.

The next day was my mother’s 20th birthday, but there was no celebration.  The same kind of fear penetrated the souls across our land.  My parents continued their lives as usual, but this interruption in their journey would forever live in their hearts and minds. My dad was unable to serve, but because he didn’t want to. Young men across our country immediately enlisted to fight against this horrific event. Unprepared – unsuspecting – thinking we’re beyond something like this ever happening again, our country was attacked 60 years later.  Why weren’t we prepared?  Being unprepared leaves us wide open for vulnerability.  We can never be ready enough.  The same is true on a spiritual level. This is the season of preparation and repentance – a time to lay all our sins on the table and turn them over to the Savior.  We must be watchful, diligent and prepared in all areas of our lives – especially when it comes to eternity.  Our souls are at stake.

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LUKE SIX – BLESSED WORDS

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READ LUKE SIX
This chapter is filled with so much meat. It begins by discussing the Pharisees insistence on not working on the Sabbath. Such things as eating some gathered corn from the field or healing the sick from their infirmity were considered labor by the elders of the church. Jesus quickly set them straight by stating that He was the Lord of the Sabbath. Those words must’ve stung deeply, as they were seen as a threat to the church itself.

By this time, Jesus had chosen all twelve of His disciples. They indeed were helpful to His ministry, as many of our own church elders can be of help to our officiating pastors. Jesus was a man and because of that He got tired and hungry. He needed time to pray, to rest and take nourishment just like we do. On the other hand, He is also God and could’ve easily provided for those needs, but it wasn’t part of His mission on earth.

We see in this chapter that Jesus prayed a lot. As our example, we can glean much from this. God is available to hear our prayers at a moment’s notice. We don’t always take advantage of that.

Jesus and his band of disciples covered a lot of territory. The crowds were growing. People came to be healed, out of curiosity and because the message was one they had longed to hear.

The Beatitudes are listed in this chapter. “Blessed are you who weep now, for you shall laugh,” was one of them. These were akin to the proverbs of old, but they carried an entirely new meaning. He said things like, “Love your enemies. Do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.”  These words were foreign to them, but they certainly held their attention.

Jesus must’ve been an exemplary speaker. His voice would have to carry to great lengths to reach the many in His audience. Imagine the voice of God speaking directly to them and us. He was nothing extraordinary to look at, yet he commanded the crowds. When He told them not to judge others, but to forgive them as we will be forgiven. He told them to be good fruit and to build their lives on the foundation of God. By doing so they would not be shaken.

Jesus was bringing that foundation back to the people. He came to establish His kingdom in our hearts. Let us continually stay rooted in His Word so we continue to flourish and spread the Good News of salvation to all people.

We are definitely living in troubled times.  The church is being attacked on a daily basis.  The devil is using every tool in his toolbox to take advantage of us.  Don’t let Him in.

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BIG GIRLS DO CRY

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The feminist movement did great things for women.  It allowed them to leave the ties of housekeeping behind and venture into a whole new world.  It was a world which challenged their abilities, their brain power, their industriousness, their ingenuity, their organizational skills, their talent and their compassion.

Yes, I said compassion.  Now where in the world does that word fit into the world of commerce?  Up until then, compassion was woven into the fabric of nursing or caring for others.  The corporate world was and still is, filled with money driven men who were trying to change the world.  Not a lot of compassion was necessary  When women became part of that world, things changed a lot.

In the beginning men said women’s place was in the home, raising a family, tending to the chores of the day and caring for her husband.  The game was on.  Women started attending colleges for things other than secretarial or medical skills.  They proved that they could work under pressure and handle the stress of corporate life.  It wasn’t an easy road, because these same women still had the responsibilities of running a home, but they managed to do both.

Today women are deeply imbedded into politics.  They hold positions of power in the medical field, the corporate world, high finance and industry.  They have proven to be equal to men, but still fight the battle of equal pay. I’m sure that day isn’t far off

In the process, families have become accustomed to both parents working.   The material things that were put on the back burner until they could be paid for are now staples in most homes.  The home fires still burn, but most of the management of that place is being carried out by hired workers.

In the meantime, women have become equal with men.  In my opinion, they always were in God’s eyes.  Woman was created to be a partner for man.  I’m sure there are statistics that prove that men are the hunter/gatherers and women, the caregivers, simply because of the way they are made up physically.  Women are sensitive, intuitive and have the ability to listen.  The tenderness of their hearts is something that continues to exist, even though they try to put on an armor of toughness.  Women cry.  Yes, so do men, but women seem to do it more often.

As women take on some of the roles of their counterparts, they’re expected to be tough,  put their emotions aside and act like a man.  However, even in a society that wishes to determine their own gender, men are men and women are women.  The differences were designed to compliment each other.

Women do have a softer side.  Our emotions are often worn on our sleeves.  Our compassion is evident in the way we work with others and live with them and should be considered a medal of honor.  It’s not an attack on your character to say you can cry if you need to.  There will be days when the pressure of work gets in the way of family – when the demands of travel take you from those you love – when the extra hours of work keep you from kissing your children goodnight.  It’s OK to feel bad about those things.

God made tears for a purpose.  They come out when we grieve, when we’re frustrated or angry and even when we’re happy. The silent tears you pour into your pillow each night do not go unnoticed.

There’s someone who understands those feelings.  Jesus wept.  He knows all about sorrow.  He understands our pain.  He is also our comforter.  He hears our prayers and dries our tears, but He allows us to  bring all our burdens to Him, so he can carry them for us.

 

 

 

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HE HAD A DREAM . . .

Today we honor the man, Martin Luther King, Jr. and the work he accomplished in the 1960’s.   I remember viewing his “I have a dream” speech on television as a young woman. I especially recall his words about looking forward rather than back.  To be truly free, we must put the past behind us, yet our past gives us lessons for the future.

The world has changed tremendously since Dr. King gave this address to a divided nation.  However some things have remained the same.  There still is injustice within our country.  Prejudice still remains and new divisions have occurred in the last 50 years.  Terrorism has reared its ugly head. New cells are breaking out everywhere.  Because of that we’ve all lost part of the freedom that our nation has shed so much blood to preserve.

We have to be careful what we say – how we respond to other cultures, ideas and beliefs – being so politically correct that our own faith is often placed on the line.  Have we really stopped looking back?  I think not.  We are probably now more afraid than ever that we might offend someone – that we no longer have the freedom to stand up for what we believe is right.

I think Dr. King would have been deeply offended at the change that has occurred in our country.  His words of tolerance and peace have been tarnished to include tolerance of any kind of behavior.  To be truly free, we need to look forward.  Our destiny is not going to be determined by anything we do.  It has already been set by the Creator of the universe.  God is in control and the death and resurrection of His Son has set the entire world free from the sting of sin and death.  We are ALL free at last.  

To soar with the eagles no matter how high,
To reach all my goals or at least I can try,
To try and to fail but never give up,
to turn to my God to fill my cup,
To speak what I feel without fear of dissension,
To believe what I choose without intervention,
To live without fear and to follow my dreams,
To love and be loved with a peace that redeems.
The only thing needful for freedom that’s true
Is to love one another as Jesus loved you.

POETRY “FREEDOM RINGS,” by Kathy Boecher

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IN THE DARKNESS . . .

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER

I came across another box of watercolor paintings recently – surprise, surprise! Paul’s many years of creating art seem to pop up just when I think I’ve seen them all. What a special gift he’s left for me and others.

A city of blazing lights may cover all the ugliness of a darkened world,

The world that lies beneath the bridge of deception, hate, fear and addiction,

Under the hidden territory where sin abounds,

There, shrouded in the shadows, the real world dwells,

The cloak of evil captures those who would go there,

There is no light, no hope, no promises,

Only loneliness,

When sin overtakes the light, nothing can hide the darkness,

Nothing,

Yet, there is one light that never dies,

A light that lives in the hearts of those who believe,

The true Light of the world,

This light can extinguish the darkness,

Only this One dominating light,

Can swallow up eternal obfuscation,

Through which we can find our way,

Becoming light itself,

Just as a small ember grows and ignites everything in its path,

Don’t hide in the shadows,

Follow God’s Light.

With all that’s going on in the world today, I can’t help but think that darkness is on a fast track to covering the goodness that will eventually prevail. God is the light that created the world. He alone can fix it, but we have to be part of the solution. We can voice our opinions through peaceful protests. We can rethink the way we interact with people. We must be willing to start over. We can make a difference in little ways which will eventually turn into real change. We can turn off the anger and hate which seems to be part of the current dialogue. We can listen to each other. We can be slow to speak and when we do, the words we choose can make it matter. We can wait patiently for truth to come. We can rely on the One who wants only the best for us. We can learn to trust again through example. We can pray. We can stir the luminosity of patriotism and allow the light to grow. Even when it seems hard to endure, we can believe that God has this.

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY! HELP ME TO SEE YOUR LIGHT AND BE A REFLECTION OF YOUR LOVE.

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A DIFFERENT TIME & PLACE . . .

ART & POETRY & PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

Taking a trip back in time has been in the back of minds for many years. The thought of erasing all the ugliness and evil of current events is naturally appealing. This watercolor pencil sketch crafted by Paul shows in detail the way things might have been a hundred and fifty years ago. There were churches on just about every street corner, along with a bar or two peppered in between. Cities were constructed by manpower rather than through the Industrial Revolution. They lasted longer than most current buildings do. People weren’t afraid to leave their homes unlocked when they went outside. Neighbors took the time to chat for a while and sincerely ask how you were doing, without running away before you told them. Community was strong and people cared about each other. I’m not saying that doesn’t exist today, but we seem to have drifted further apart during those intermittent years.

Jesus told his followers that they should love one another as they loved themselves. This was in practice and called the “golden rule” a hundred years ago. What happened? Life became more complex, even though many of the tasks were taken over by machines, and free-time became available. That should’ve brought people together, but instead they retreated into bigger homes, which required larger incomes from two parents bringing home the bacon. More expensive homes followed with amenities that would’ve been reserved for the rich. A second, third and fourth car might be required. Fancy vacations with high price tags came next. Even with all those luxuries, families drifted apart. Friendships took a hit too. When people did converse, they might become argumentative. I see many of those churches now empty. Some are being sold because of lack of attendance. People opt for the “feel good – no mention of sin churches” or watc live streams on their mega TV screens in the comfort of their own homes. They also miss the fellowship which comes with attending church regularly – not to mention the truth of God’s Word which heals broken souls.

It might be awesome to retreat to better times, but times haven’t changed much – people have. We’ve grown suspicious of each other. We lack trust in our friends and neighbors. We feel safe in our homes because they’re protected by security systems. We lock are doors anyway. We’re surrounded by those who steal from the taxpayers to line their own pockets. There are those who enter our country illegally and take advantage of government programs. Maybe we should look forward instead of back and see what we can learn from past mistakes. God gives each of us a second chance. Many times, it’s more like a third and fourth chance. If we ask for forgiveness with repentance in our hearts, His love endures forever. We all have ideas on how to solve the problems of the world, but only God has the answers we need.

A simple time when days were filled with elementary things,

Like gathering wood and breathing air and songs that nature brings,

Enjoying all the scenes of life within our earthly pale,

And leaving all the cares behind when life starts growing stale,

To start each day with wonderment, instead of fear and care,

To feel the hand of God near you, His closeness there to share,

To contemplate the quiet things and not be self absorbed,

To turn your troubles to the Lord, you’ll surely be restored,

That simple place is in your heart, a place where Jesus dwells,

A place of calm and comfort too, where all our fear dispels.

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY!

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SKIPPING STONES . . .

As I sit here by my side window, looking at an expanse of dirty snow and a cloudy sky, I can’t help but think about warmer days, enjoying a swim at the lake and skipping stones as a child. I never got very good at skipping stones. Most of the time, I’d throw and kerplunk! The stone immediately descended to the bottom of the lake never to be seen again. It’s easy to sit back and dream of the olden days when you’re old. I’m learning (even in my old age) that keeping my mind busy is as necessary as taking care of the physical self. That part of me has been quite inactive lately, so I better keep looking out my window to keep my mental state in good working order.

When I choose a subject for my blog, I sometimes have to dig down into the recesses of my brain. For some reason, the thought of skipping stones came to mind. As I recall, my expertise left a lot to be desired, but it was such fun watching others spin those rocks right across the surface of the water leaving a trail of ripples where the rock had been. As I usually like to research what I’m talking about, I did so this morning and found some interesting facts about this phenomenon. This has become a national pastime for some folks. In fact, there are contests that test the participants’ skills. The Guiness World Record tallies the results of these competitions. In 2013, Kurt Steiner broke the record by skipping a stone for 88 bounces.

There is naturally a lot of science behind this. Since it includes physics, I don’t have a clue as to the reason behind it. Some relate this anomaly to the force that allows a person to get up on water skis. I was never very good at that either. I do know that it’s best to use flat rocks. If you’re lucky you can make it happen on the first try, but most of those who are really serious about it, practice for hours to be good at it.

All of this led me to thinking about how this can be applied to our witnessing to others about the One who created us. He loves it when we talk to others about eternal life and sins forgiven. I wonder if Jesus ever skipped stones across the water. Anyway, when we work together our voices are eventually heard. Each tossing of that truth begins a ripple effect which spreads quickly. Just a thought, but how do you send out ripples when it comes to sharing the amazing truth of the Gospel? It doesn’t happen by watching the day pass by your window. We need to be active in our witnessing, especially in a world that is screaming for change.

“But God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through Him.” John 3:17 ESV

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POWER OF PRAYER . . .

“Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.” Matthew 6:10 ESV

As our world continues to grow and the sense of community is lost to the busyness of every day, we may forget to pray for others. There are times we don’t even know that our friends or family need our prayers.  There are a number of reasons for that. We might be afraid to open up our lives to others.  We may feel ashamed or embarrassed by the things that we’re concerned about.  We may not want people to know we’re suffering with an illness or loss, because we think it’s a sign of weakness.  We may think we don’t need the prayers of others, because our relationship with God is a private thing between us and God.  We may want to handle things ourselves.

When Jesus taught His followers how to pray in His Sermon on the Mount, He made it clear what our prayers should include.  Our words should be from the heart – not just words that outwardly make a show of ourselves. Prayers should be done in private – with the doors closed – in a closet, no less. So, what about the image I’ve chosen for today’s post? It shows a number of people praying together – for each other. Have we forgotten how to do that? Each one of us is facing some kind of problem, illness, loss, anxiety, depression, fear, etc. When we pray together, we’re amplifying our voices to the One True God. Not that He doesn’t hear the most silent of our prayers. In doing this, we are joining together our belief in God’s providence and provision. Not only are we praying for each other, but also for ourselves.

In the words of His very own prayer, He tells us to honor and praise God, the Father – to forgive others – ask for our own forgiveness – have our daily needs provided – to be kept safe from temptation. He wants those words to spill onto all those around us.  We really need to get back to a community of people who care about each other.  This is part of the reason people go to church – to be encouraged by the Word, to praise God, to give thanks to Him and to be in fellowship with other Christians.

Don’t be afraid to share your prayer requests with others.  God loves it when we pray together with sincere hearts.  Jesus also said that where two or three are gathered in His name, He will be there with them.

THANK YOU JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY TO OPEN OUR HEARTS IN CORPORATE PRAYER. YOU ARE THE SOURCE OF ALL UNDERSTANDING, JUSTICE AND HOPE FOR THE FUTURE.

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peek-a-boo . . .

ART BY PAUL T. BOECHER

This is in response to Heavenly Raindrops Wednesday Challenge. A watercolor sketch done by Paul Boecher of a beautiful buck hiding and camouflaged by its surroundings.

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AGING IS NOT FOR THE FAINT OF HEART . . .

The secret to a long life is growing old. Most of us cringe at that option, but for those who have made it through the process, I say “Congratulations. Now what?” By the time we reach our 80s, our bodies have given way to gravity. I used to be 5’3″. Now I’m pushing 5′. I truly believe that those three inches slipped down to my hips and at times to my ankles. This has resulted in a pear-shaped body known as “Jabba the Hutt syndrome.” Everything sags, even my eyelids. My face is wrinkled, largely due to the many children I’ve taught over the years. My skin is dry and even a large can of motor oil would quickly be absorbed in seconds, making no impact. I’m fortunate to have the ability to think. My memory is in pretty good shape. My hearing is shot. My teeth come out at night. Should I really go on. I’m getting depressed here.

The true secret to a long life has less to do with the condition of your physical self, and mor with your mental and spiritual health. I grew up in the “Silent Generation,” a time when you kept your mouth shut. If you had opinions, you simply didn’t express them. Self-esteem wasn’t in the vocabulary. Self-worth was determined by what you did to make a living, and extras were something you didn’t think about because they were unnecessary. Because of that, we raised our children to feel good about themselves – gave them positive feedback – rewarded them with participation awards and overcompensated for our own lack of those things. The mistakes we made in parenting were passed down to the next generations and I’d be considered an old fuddy duddy if I expounded on that. Well, if the shoe fits, right?

As we age, our minds also grow old. All the information stored in that grey matter has overloaded and much of it has disappeared. Keeping our minds active is essential to aging gracefully. Simple things like playing solitaire, doing puzzles or taking up a hobby are ways to stay sharp. My mind kind of resembles my laptop. Most of the keys are illegible. The memory has been updated so many times that it’s practically extinct. I refuse to buy a new one, because I’m too cheap to invest in one. As human beings we become out of date as well. At times we become invisible to others. Our opinions don’t always matter. Our ideas are antiquated and so on.

That’s why it’s so important to keep our spiritual life healthy. Attend church services, weather permitting, or watch online streaming. Participate in a Bible study group. Join the choir (if you can still sing.) Share your life experiences with others and how you got through them. With gray hairs comes wisdom which is priceless to those struggling in today’s world. Stay in the Word of God, the Bible. You can get it online – in large print editions – and a variety of translations. We don’t stop learning about our Heavenly Father as we grow older. We simply realize how very much we need Him to get through this whole aging thing.

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY, ANOTHER YEAR, ANOTHER MOMENT TO SHARE YOUR LOVE WITH THOSE WHO NEED TO HEAR IT. THANKS FOR ALL THE BLESSINGS YOU’VE GIVEN ME DURING THIS LONG AGING PROCESS. YOUR PROMISE OF ETERNAL LIFE IN HEAVEN IS YOUR GREATEST GIFT. I CAN HARDLY WAIT!

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A CENTURY OF CHANGE . . .

Looking back over the last century might be a real eye opener. Especially for those born in the 21st century. In the 1920s the automobile industry was getting underway with the Model T Ford. A crank was used to get it started, and tires were not made for rustic roads that still existed. Today, we have cars that practically drive themselves which receive their power from an electrical plug. Radio was becoming the entertainment of the day with situation comedies and shows like “Inner Sanctum,” which scared us to pieces. Now we get our entertainment on a handheld screen which offers more than we need to see or hear in a lifetime.

In the 1920s the subject in the newspapers was prohibition and gangsters like Al Capone and John Dillinger. Violence was the fare of the day. The criminals held a certain popularity in this time of anything goes and the roaring ’20s. There were the suffragettes who protested for prohibition and the Irish and German immigrants who liked their beer and protested against it. There was an increase in labor unions, which looked out for problems in the workplace and those employed there.

Fashions were changing too. Ladies turned in their corsets for more comfortable undergarments. The dresses were much shorter, exposing legs that had been hidden for years. They cut their hair short in what today is called a “bob.” Makeup became part of their fashion statement and freedom of movement made life a lot easier for many of them. Women were making themselves known during this time.

The United States had just finished their participation in a world war, so women were doing jobs that men left behind. Protests became popular. Farmers and ranchers had their issues. Women were demanding more rights. The government was filled with corruption as police, judges, lawyers and juries were bribed.

People remained patriotic. Love of the United States of America was still a popular notion along with the promise of fulfillment of the American dream. It was the age of invention – the telephone, television, rocket experiments, and many appliances that made housework a lot easier. The washing machine, electric iron, toasters, the first air conditioning units and refrigerators were all invented during the 1920s.

So here we are, 100 years later. I wasn’t around for the 1920’s, but during my 83 years I’ve seen an abundance of inventions that have altered the way we live. Technology is the biggest factor. Instant everything has become a way of life. So much so that we demand answers immediately. Another thing I’ve noticed in my lifetime is that God is the same today as He was yesterday and will be tomorrow. If we place our hope and trust in Him, we can count on promises fulfilled.

“The past isn’t gone; it’s just waiting to happen again.” Maya Angelou

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A NEW DAY, A NEW WEEK, A NEW YOU . . .

The afterglow of the holiday season might have let you a little down in the dumps. January starts out with the bang of fireworks, resolutions to do better and then what? The month lacks celebrations, mostly because it’s too cold to do anything but snuggle under a thick quilt and drink hot chocolate. It also happens to be Monday. The first day of the workweek, which doesn’t really allow for such a luxury. It seems like every other month is filled with something to celebrate. January suddenly breaks the thread.

Every day can be a fresh start if we put our minds to it. It’s like writing a new page in the journal of your life or turning that page and filling it with something different. We are currently enjoying some pretty decent temperatures here in Lake Woebegone. A January thaw is a welcome relief, so take advantage of these warmer days to get out of the house and move. This month is often designated as a huge do-over month, because we have so much time on our hands to think about it. On the other hand, who wants to think about doing something over when we can do something different.

Having just recovered from a long bout of pneumonia, I am eager to get back to living. That includes starting a project. I have a bunch of possible options. I could finish the novel I’ve been working on for over ten years. I could start writing a series of mysteries (like Agatha Christie,) I could get out my paints and start a masterpiece. I might bake something special and then eat the whole thing. Perhaps I could tackle a walk outside. Well, I may not do that this week, but I can look forward to it in the next few months.

My point today is that we look at each day – each hour and minute – as an opportunity to do something that will make a difference in our own lives or those of others. Now if you’ll excuse me, my quilt and hot chocolate await.

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY. HELP ME TO FOLLOW YOUR LEAD THROUGH OUT THE COMING WEEK.

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HE CREATED TEARS . . .

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

Mountainous clouds entwine in a sky of black,
Filling with tears from the Lord of all.
He sees and He knows our tribulation.
The depth of our sorrow is in His hands.
There is nothing we can do to take away our sadness.
We cannot change the course of our lives,
But He has turned His tears to cleansing waters
Through the death of His beloved Son.
Washed – forgiven for sin’s deadly pain,
We can dance in His refreshing rain.

The painting today was commissioned several years ago by a woman who wanted to donate a memory of her husband to the church. It reminds me of a place of comfort and peace – a habitat in which to get away from the ugliness of the world. I believe that God must cry over the condition of our planet, our country, our cities, our homes and even our churches. Since we have been created in His image, tears are part of who we are. We cry when we’re happy, sad, angry, outraged. We cry when we’re in pain. We cry when we realize that our lives are in a state of change which we have no control over. Jesus wept. Even though He could end the pain He felt, He suffered through it. He wept.

Tears can be our exit strategy when we simply cannot cope any longer. They release the suffering of a broken heart. They can comfort one who mourns. They can show feelings of pride for a job well done. Tears can come when miracles occur – when a newborn opens his eyes or a man sees his future wife walking down the aisle. The painting also shows God’s compassion through the dominant cross that appears in the sky. That symbol is more than comforting to those who weep. It gives us hope for a future in a perfect world, where there will be no more tears.

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY. FILL OUR HEARTS WITH HOPE FOR A FUTURE WITH YOU IN HEAVEN. YOU GAVE YOUR SON TO TAKE AWAY OUR SIN. LEAD US OUT OF THE TRIBULATION THAT COVERS THIS EARTH AND HELP US TO CRY TEARS OF JOY!

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FROM GOD’S VANTAGE POINT . . .

“In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. The earth was without form and void, and darkness was over the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God was hovering over the face of the waters.” Genesis 1:1 (ESV)

Before the world would come to be, the only thing that God would see,

Was darkness deep, no light, no glow. An emptiness that cried below,

What it became was His clear choice – holy and pure through His own voice,

His strength turned darkness into light, the days would also turn to night.

Amazing order of His plan He’d etch into the soul of man.

Six days, the number that it took to craft it all and take a look,

Proclaiming that it was so good, His love expounded as it should,

He rested on the seventh day – a quiet respite He would pay.

What happened to this world after God created it? As God looks down on the world today, what does He see? Once again there is a darkness that seems to have infected all of it. The light that was drawn from His own breath, seems to have fizzled into oblivion. Is there any hope for us? We need to remember that God is in control – He has a plan, which originated during creation – He will never leave us – He loves us beyond our capacity to love – He is the ember that will reignite the perfect light again. We must return to Him. He is our only hope in a world that seems so hopeless. He brought light into darkness. He can do anything.

We will search for answers today, Lord, teach us how we ought to pray,

Asking for the guidance you give, showing us the way we should live,

Loving others as you loved all, should be our daily victory call,

To walk the way that you have led – Until in heav’n we make our bed.

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JUMPING TO CONCLUSIONS . . .

“Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God. Therefore put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls.” James 1:19-21 (ESV)

We’re living in amazing times. Technology has made news available to us within seconds after it occurs. We have become so accustomed to this that we form opinions regarding it just as fast. As I look at what’s happening in my state this week, I have thoughts about events where folks have overreacted, formed early opinions and jumped to conclusions. Not long ago, a mass shooter was arrested after taking lives, found guilty, tried and convicted before he ever appeared before the legal system. A drug deal went bad, a death occurred, we reacted to the system rather than the criminals who supplied the drug. People came to our country for refuge. They enter illegally and supposedly become model citizens while they rip off the taxpayers by setting up fraudulent businesses. With the instant news we have, we blame law enforcement.

Our thought process is based on what information we’re being fed. We don’t truly investigate for ourselves before making a statement of outrage. Our opinions cause a rush to judgement that is truly unfair. I bite my tongue every time I write about the state of our nation. I have tried very hard to ignore this problem, but I see it every day. Why are we so quick to judge without having the full picture?

I pray that America is doing the right thing to prohibit the needless hatred, fear and death that occur on a daily basis. I pray for our law enforcement and their safety. They’re putting their lives on the line each time they leave their homes. I pray for our government officials – instituted by God – that they will look at the corruption that has infiltrated our cities, country and minds of the people who live there. I pray that we all take a deep breath and look for ways to bring God’s love and truth back into our everyday living. As James states in the above Bible passages, we should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to anger. This is a simple solution, but we have gone far beyond that by choosing to believe that all things coming from the media are true.

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY. HELP ME TO MAKE THE MOST OF THIS EXTENDED PERIOD OF TIME TO THINK BEFORE SPEAKING – TO THINK AND RESEARCH BEFORE WRITING – AND TO SERVE YOU AND YOUR HOLY WORD BY LIVING FOR YOU.

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YOU CAN’T HIDE FROM GOD . . .

You’re born into a family of little means. You’ve barely gotten to know your mother’s face when she’s forced to give you up to protect you from certain death. You’re adopted into a wealthy family and your life changes drastically. You grow up in luxury learning things you never would have been afforded otherwise. You grow into a strong individual with power you never dreamed of.  As you mature you see the injustices around you. They tug at your heart. You feel helpless. You witness a young man being unjustly beaten and intercede. By defending the underdog, you become the victim. Your rage puts you in an ugly situation and you take a life to save one.

What you do next makes you appear a coward. You run away. You hide for many years without apprehension. You change your identity – try to fit in – find a new life. You try to forget your past, but it soon catches up with you. Days progress and you’ve almost forgotten the weaknesses of your youth, but now those secrets resurface in your dreams.  The devil presses guilt into your heart like a hot branding iron claiming victory over your soul. You show signs of aging.  You fear that you’re destined to a future in hell. You feel that you will never realize a true purpose in your life. God has something else in mind. He still has work for you to do – work that involves facing into your darkest fears.

You reluctantly return to the place of your youth. You feel unqualified, haunted, unworthy. Your reluctance turns to fear and cripples you, but then you realize there’s a reason for all of this. You return only to be met with more adversity. They haven’t forgotten you.  They recognize you.  Your true identity has been revealed to those in high places.  You have a price on your head, but you’re determined to face your fears. When dealing with past sins you must admit your failings.  Then ask for forgiveness.  You may suffer the consequences of your actions, or you may run again.

People aren’t nearly as gracious as God.  Old garbage is dragged from the dump to be revealed to a waiting world.  The ugliness of your misdeeds is paraded before everyone and you’re judged by your past.  Now the truth is out.  There is no escaping – no hiding – no redemption.  Thankfully your future doesn’t depend on others or yourself for salvation.  God has wiped the slate clean with the perfect life of His own Son, releasing everyone from the guilt of sin and allowing great things to be done through Him.

Moses realized his sin but tried to hide it. When he faced his past mistakes and asked for forgiveness, he was allowed to do what he was born for. We certainly can’t hide from God.  He’s promised to be with us always. Don’t be afraid of Him. His love has no strings attached.

Run to God and with Him – He will set mountains on fire and use you for His purpose.

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY OF GRACE. REMIND ME TO RUN TO YOU IN TIMES OF TROUBLE AND WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL. YOU ARE MY SAVIOR, MY REDEEMER, MY COMFORTER, MY REFUGE, MY GOD. I CANNOT HIDE FROM YOU.

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MID-WEEK CRISIS (AKA) HUMP DAY . . .

For me, getting through the battle scars of living, seems to be pretty uneventful. I get out of bed about the same time each morning. I go through the motions of preparing for the day. I might eat breakfast. I’ll throw a load of wash in the washer and sit down to write my blog. The rest of the day would seem boring to most. At times I actually feel I’m going through the motions of living.

When I was part of the work force and raising a family, my list of tasks was much longer. I never seemed to have enough hours in the day to get everything done. I remember getting three kids ready for school, making lunches (unless I forgot,) planning my own workday and encouraging my husband. I don’t recall such a thing as “hump day.” There wasn’t time to muddle through the disadvantages of working. It was simply something we did.

I do agree that time has changed the way we function today. There are almost always two bread winners in the family. If you’re getting close to retirement, you may even have your own children living with you. If they’re working, they might contribute to the family treasury. The age of active employment has come under a great deal of change as well. Many have home offices and try to manage their workspace, their household duties and family all at the same time. The stresses by midweek are huge, not to mention the lack of communication, family interaction and counseling one another.

Instead of making Wednesday a day that gets us down, we should think of some things that will get us through the week without those negative thoughts. Make the day something to look forward to. Plan a special meal that will involve everyone sitting down at a table to eat – preferably at home. Carve out time for a board game or two. During that family time, share your problems, your conflicts, your goals and dreams and put away the phones. You might want to make Wednesday a date night with your spouse. You don’t need to spend a fortune. Just getting away from the mundane will keep your marriage alive. When we have something to look forward to, life can be so much more fun.

Even when you have fulfilled your years in the workplace, you can set time aside for getting over the hump of daily living. I’m not much for to-do lists anymore, but it’s a good idea to schedule activities that give us something to challenge both mentally and physically. Life is too short to worry about getting through it. God gives us time just as He gives us a purpose for being here. Make the most of the talents He’s given you and share them with others.

“Commit your work to the Lord, and your plans will be established.” Proverbs 16:3 ESV

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DAY 6 OF JANUARY, 2026

Five years ago (January 6, 2021) as the COVID19 Pandemic continued to rage, we were witness to the storming of the U.S. Capitol building by protestors who had been attending a rally. Five years later, the shock of that day continues on. It could’ve been construed as an act of free speech. Perhaps some would call it treason against the United States, while others would condemn the outgoing president for causing it. That same president would be re-elected four years later in spite of it. I prefer not to express my opinions on politics. I feel it futile in the light of the current climate in our country. Division is probably the deepest scar we’ve received from scandalous news such as this along with a pandemic that pulled us all into our shells. The fact is, life continues and our hope is still in the LORD.

Our daily worries and cares, however, can seem much greater than those going on in government. The thought of losing a job – the worry that we won’t be able to provide for our family – the possibility of a life-threatening disease- all lead us to feelings of depression, hopelessness and despair. We’re reminded that God is in control and that thought may bring little encouragement when we go through those difficult times.

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10 ESV

Tuesday is just another day on the calendar. In my part of the country the streets are filled with ice which will melt as the day goes on. I will stay home, as I have for the past week. As we grow older, we take more precautions when venturing out into Minnesota winters. Each day brings challenges to all of us no matter what our age. If your Tuesday isn’t measuring up to your expectations, it’s time to start something new. Today I promise myself to get back to my unfinished novel. As long as I’m temporarily homebound, this is the perfect opportunity. It may sit for another ten years before it actually gets published, but for the time being, it’s keeping my mind awake and my body – well, we’ll talk about that another day.

Live each day as if it were the most important gift you’ve ever received. Whether it is a day of progress, one of disappointment, filled with trials or one peppered with happy thoughts and positive motivation. God is with us through every moment of every day.

THANK YOU, JESUS FOR ANOTHER DAY!

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NATIONAL WHIPPED CREAM DAY . . .

January 2 was National Cream Puff Day and today, January 5, we celebrate National Whipped Cream Day. These days are only three days apart. I wonder if that might be a clue for me to share a story that includes both of those events. Since I’m a native of the dairy state, Wisconsin, it would seem logical that I have a fondness for anything to do with cream. I just finished off the last bit of homemade whipped cream yesterday. It was a sad farewell. The whole thing about these holidays is that they remind me of some funny stuff that happened in the past. Nothing like a funny story to start of the week.

We had just moved to the state of Minnesota. We owned a modest home, but adequate for the five of us and whichever dog we had at the time. We were making it paycheck to paycheck, but special luxuries like cream puffs weren’t really in my daily meal planning. I was grocery shopping at the local Piggly Wiggly store when my eyes were drawn to the refrigerator section of the bakery. CREAM PUFFS. The thought of Wisconsin State Fairs and the most amazing of these delicacies stirred my memory and tempted me into buying five of them. I managed to scrape enough out of the grocery budget. I could hardly wait to offer these to the family for dessert that night. I served them on a silver tray, complete with a paper doily. I could see by the reaction of my family, that everyone was excited to bite into one. We raised our cream puffs and took a huge bite. I could tell by my taste buds and the looks on the faces of my family, that this venture was a total mistake. Either the cream puffs were more than a day old, or they just didn’t taste good. I don’t know who started it, but a food fight ensued. There were cream puffs on the floor, the ceiling, the walls and faces. The dog loved it. He was the only one who did. The decadent dessert I served was a disaster, but it became one of those memories that you simply can’t forget.

Much later in my life, when I was called upon to take a pie in the face for a performance, I felt completely qualified to do so. For seven shows and numerous rehearsals, I would be covered in whipped cream as a pie landed dead center on my face. It was a scene much like the one played out in the kitchen, living room and backyard of our home. I don’t make a habit of starting food fights, but I have fond memories of those I’ve been involved in. My family has always been somewhat spontaneous. We had fun in unusual ways, but the cream puff incident stands alone. Sometimes you just have to have to be weird.

I do not recommend having food fights, unless you’re willing to clean up after them. I do recommend being weird at times. It’s good to laugh.

“There is nothing in the world so irresistibly contagious as laughter and good humor.” Charles Dickens – “A Christmas Carol”

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JESUS, OUR SHEPHERD . . .

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

There’s still a lot of art to go through before I’ve completed the task. My grandchildren will help me catalogue everything and eventually will inherit much of the work. Paul felt it would be the only legacy he could leave them. He left far more than a collection of paintings, drawings, notes and sketch books. He was a true servant of God. He loved the Lord and wanted others to know about His grace. The above pastel depicts a quiet, peaceful valley which beckons us to look further. The softness of pastel gives a feeling of comfort and a sense of unconditional love. May your day be filled with those things. Carry them forward through the new year and your life will be changed.

A tender shepherd walked this earth with love within his touch,

His words could calm the troubled sheep, His hands led them through much.

He chased away the predators,  He brought them safely home.

He often searched for hours for the one who liked to roam.

He nurtured and He led them to pastures lush and green,

He sometimes pushed and prodded, through perils yet unseen.

His rod and staff protected – His love would see them through,

For they were His possession – He did what He must do.

He found the purest water to quench their endless thirst,

A clean and living water that always put them first.

This great and perfect shepherd still leads us every day.

His life He gave – became the sheep – He took our sins away.

No price can compensate Him.  He dwells among us still.

He leads our souls to heaven.  He guides us with His will.

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SO, HOW ARE THOSE RESOLUTIONS WORKING OUT FOR YOU?

Sad, but true, most of us make resolutions to change our lives in some way or other, only to fall victim to the same bad habits within a day or two.  In some ways, it’s kind of like our relationship with God.  We come to Him and ask forgiveness for our sins and within a short time we’ve sinned again. Is it part of our human makeup to break our promises? Do we sincerely repent in one minute and within the next, we’re right back at it with a vengeance?

Paul, the apostle of Christ, knew this was a problem for all of us.  This man, who once was a devout Jew on the warpath for all those who followed Jesus, became a follower himself.  His acts of terror towards Christians were well known across the land.  After spending 3 years being educated by the One he was persecuting, he knew that human behavior is coated with sin – that original sin, passed down from the time of man’s fall from God. We daily need to come to God with repentant hearts to be reminded that our sins are forgiven. God paid the ransom, yet we still need the reassurance that we’ve been made right with Him.

Like Paul, we will be plagued with guilt over past sins until we enter heaven. As hard as we try, there’s nothing we can do to personally achieve salvation.  God, in His unconditional love for us, makes it possible. Maybe you’ve already broken one of your resolutions to do better this year.  I don’t even bother making them anymore, because I know I won’t keep them.  The first step is placing our trust in the One who paid the price for our redemption.

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OBSERVATIONS . . .

We start a new year with thoughts of looking forward, by setting goals for new adventures with the hope that we’ll be able to reach them. Within a few hours all of that can change. Our positive outlook for the future will be swallowed up by circumstances that we can’t control or change. Looking back at the past can lead to answers by directing us to the lessons we learned from bygone events. Living in the moment seems to be a popular point of view in today’s world, but by doing so, we also get stuck in another mucky situation. The best place to look forward is to look up to the One who created this world with His amazing grace. By doing so, we’re letting God do what He has already planned for our good.

Lately, much of my time has been spent going to doctor appointments. Over the past couple of years, I had been doing a lot of that. During those times, I observed the comings and goings of people – sick, well, hearty and sometimes close to death. On some of those occasions I would wait in the car as my husband attended to a short appointment, I witnessed an elderly couple enter the building. He was confused. Each step was deliberate, yet unsure. He stopped outside the door to look at a winter flower arrangement that seemed to call out to him. He fixed what was bothering him and she guided him on. Through that interlude I could see a couple who cared deeply for each other. One a caretaker, the other the one needing care. Patience was evident. Love and compassion were obvious.

There was a woman with pure, white hair and skin almost the same color. She didn’t look very old, but her face said that she had been through a lot. She walked with a quick step as she searched with her eyes for her car. For a moment looking lost but eventually found. A man about 6’4 with a thick beard, steadily entered the building confidently. He carried a briefcase. Maybe a doctor or salesman. A woman who had most likely endured chemotherapy, boldly entered with her head uncovered, revealing a beautifully balding head. She apparently had a positive attitude.

OK, so what’s my point? Am I becoming a voyeur in my old age? I am a people watcher and have been for a very long time. As a writer, I try to observe as much as I can about the human race. As a performer, I’ve learned that this is a great way to develop a character. We serve a purpose in this life. How we behave will have some effect on those around us. Everyone has a story. We may never discover what that story includes, but by reaching out, understanding and being compassionate, we may be able to help those individuals in some way – or they may be able to help us. Jesus was a perfect example for us to follow. He could see into the minds and hearts of individuals and know what they needed. We don’t have that ability, but we can still love, understand, have compassion for and help others, because He showed us how to do it.

When he (Jesus) saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.” Matthew 9:36

THANK YOU, JESUS, FOR ANOTHER DAY OF GRACE – A TIME TO SHARE YOUR LOVE WITH OTHERS – A TIME TO SERVE YOU.

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LIVE EACH DAY AS IF IT WERE YOUR LAST . . .

POETRY BY KATHY BOECHER

As we begin another year, it’s a good idea to look ahead rather than back. What’s gone is gone. What has passed is in the past. Each new day is a second chance for us. We don’t have to wait until January 1, 2027 to make changes, serve God, share His love with others, study His Word and love one another. As I reflect on the last year, I can recall moments of sadness, depression, anxious moments and fear. It was the first year I was labeled a widow. My life became somewhat shadowed and dark for a while. At times I felt lonely, even though I was surrounded by family and friends. I struggled with things I never had to worry about before. I was starting a new life – alone. The blessings were many. The tears fell like raindrops, but I eased out of that mourning fairly quick. Perhaps because my spouse had gone through so much in his last years of living. Knowing that He was face to face with God brought great comfort. Time was filled to the brim with projects, busy time and simply moving forward. I realized the mourning had been going on long before his passing. That’s why the image I chose for today is so poignant. Life is short. We never know when our last breath will be taken. Cherish those in your life with lots of hugs and snuggles. Talk to God on a daily basis. He is always there for us. Take time to say I love you to those you sincerely love. Spend time together – one on one. Press on for the final prize of eternal life. Life on earth is but a whisper. Eternity lasts forever. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

Opening up a new year like a gift from one now passed.
Searching for solutions for mistakes that have been cast.
Trying hard to change the errors we have skewed.
Looking up with hope again. Our lives will be renewed.

We try – we fail – we try again to reach our simple goals,
But there is nothing we can do to wash our blemished souls.
There is but one clear answer to the darkness here inside.
Just look to Jesus, God’s own Son who for our sins has died.

He came to live among us – to feel the hurt we know.
He left His throne in heaven to dwell on earth below.
He died, but then He rose again to prove He conquered death.
He never leaves our aching hearts. He’s in our every breath.

Thank you, Jesus, for another year and for your gift of life everlasting. Help me to use that gift to show others the kind of love that only you can give. Amen!

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