LIFE GIVING WATER

Yesterday the clouds were heavy with rain – the air grew oppressive under the weight of high dew point levels.
Within minutes the ominous clouds emptied in sheets of torrential rain upon the earth.
Within seconds the air lightened. The clouds were replaced with pristine blue skies.
In those brief moments, the earth was cleansed and refreshed.
We experience similar storms in life.
We can become burdened with the weight of sadness, worry, anxious thoughts.
We might gasp for air at times, thinking relief will never come.
Our hearts grow cold, our souls weary, our bodies and minds dry up
and sometimes our spirit dies.
It is then that God sends His refreshing waters – to renew us,
to satisfy us and to give us strength.
That living water is presented to us through His Holy Word.
It is the only place to find the rejuvenation that brings new life.

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A DOG NAMED BOB

Nothing much happened from one day to another in Bob’s life.  Each day was a complete re-run of the day before. As he sat waiting, watching and hoping for a shot at the disturbing Blue Jay that found great joy in driving him nuts, he nibbled on the last of his pancakes. A drip of syrup curled its way down to his chin. Bob wasn’t much for manners, so he didn’t do anything about it. Soon that little drip grew into a big globule and fell onto the plate, leaving a faint residue upon Bob’s chin.  He intently focused on the window in front of him. How could he be responsible for the stickiness on his face.  He’d get to that later.

Just as he was about to give up and call it a day, the pesty Blue Jay arrived and perched atop the mailbox. Bob became annoyed – his annoyance turned to panic – his panic drew him into a complete state of defiance. What should he do? Get the pellet gun? Call the department of natural resources? Finally the answer came to him. He found one of those flat rate shipping boxes and a butterfly net. Off he went on a crusade for the elusive Blue Jay.

Unbeknownst to the poor bird, Bob came at him from behind, encircling him with the net and placing him in the box. He addressed it to a Beagle friend in New Jersey who he wasn’t particularly fond of.  No matter how hard he tried he was unable to close the container, since he didn’t have thumbs. Bob was a dog, you see.

So the Blue Jay lived to see another day and Bob, the dog would try again tomorrow. 

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ANGELS AMONG US

Your life seems to be traveling along normally and then, out of nowhere, another stumbling block – another unexpected surprise – another problem. It’s at those times we need God’s protection the most. I know He has an army of angels at my disposal.  My own particular guardian angel has been through quite a life and has earned her wings a thousand times over.  As my life slows down, I’m certain that she’s ready to retire.

Talk about dangerous encounters – I’ve had several.  Maybe it’s because of my naivety – lack of common sense or just plain stupidity, but you might call me a walking disaster area. When I was a young mother selling Tupperware, I found myself stranded on a bridge with an overheated car. My main concern wasn’t the car, but getting to my destination, so I could peddle my wares.

A kind man stopped and asked how he could help. He offered to take me to where I was going. Little did he realize that I had a ton of stuff with me. I left my vehicle and blindly accepted his offer of help.  He could’ve been a serial killer. On theway, he told me he had some frozen meat in his trunk and asked if I’d like to buy some. I told him, “No, but I have some containers he might like to purchase to put the meat in.” Neither one of us made a sale during that exchange. He dropped me off at my destination.  In retrospect I  wonder what could’ve occurred had not my guardian angel been with me.

Another time I was driving my old Monte Carlo home when the tie rod broke. I continued driving, not knowing the risk. Somehow I managed to steer the car for more than a mile before pulling over.  A friend came to my rescue and couldn’t believe that the car made it as far as it did.

Again, while driving our stick shift car full of kids, the stick came out in my hand as I downshifted.  All I could think to do was push it back in place so I did and it miraculously continued to work.

Some might believe that these were just happenstances, or that it might be a good idea for me to stay out of a car. I truly know God was watching out for me.  Sometimes we have to look for the miracles in our lives, but they’re there in more ways than we can imagine.

Thank you, Lord for defending me from danger even when I take foolish chances. I’ve done some pretty dumb things, but I know I can rely on your love and protection. As I approach the final years of my life, prevent me from making foolish decisions and watch over my guardian angel as well.  Amen!

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MONDAY IS FOR THE MOVERS & SHAKERS

We’ve just come off a weekend of relaxation, fun and letting our hair down.  Now it’s back to reality and the business of everyday stuff.  When you’re in your retirement years, most days can seem pretty much the same.  However, I find Mondays to be a good starting over point.

If you’re a regular church goer, you’ve had Sunday to replenish yourself spiritually.  Being in the Lord’s house and having that special time to nurture your relationship with Him is not only refreshing for our souls, but makes us eager to start a new week, with hope in our hearts.

I have long ago given up writing “to do lists.”  Most of the time I lose the list and forget what I was supposed to do, but if you are into scheduling your time for the upcoming week, try to fit these ten things into your list.

  • Find time to listen to someone.  Get to know them and show them that you’re interested in them.
  • Look for the best in others, even if you don’t always agree.  Try to understand why someone cut you off on the highway, rather than assuming he’s a jerk.
  • Share something – a good book, a funny joke, a smile, your time.
  • Tell someone why you love Jesus – how much He loves the world.
  • Turn over the tough stuff to God.
  • Spend time reading God’s message to you through His Word.
  • Put others needs before your own.
  • Remember that God is with you.  When things get really difficult, He will be there to carry you.
  • Do your best, know that you can do even better, try and don’t give up.
  • Pray.

Begin each day with prayer and thanksgiving for being carried through another night and given the blessing of another chance to live life and possibly even change the world we live in.

HAPPY MONDAY!

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GERANIUMS

ART & INSPIRATION FROM KATHY BOECHER

A geranium is a herbaceous plant or small shrub of a genus that comprises the cranesbills and their relatives. Geraniums bear a long, narrow fruit that is said to be shaped like the bill of a crane. The word is derived from the Greek “geranos,” which means crane,

Each flower consists of tiny little blooms in a cluster, which is endowed with various colors.  The red ones are my favorite for planting in pots. They have been especially vibrant this year. The terra cotta pots show off the color and seems to accentuate it as well.

The smells of summer still hang in the air.

The potent fragrance of fertile soil.

The aroma of a bonfire after dark, whisking away mosquitoes.

The blooming roses cast their lovely scent as they cling to life, knowing only too well that their days are numbered.

The days grow shorter.

The last glimmer of sunlight is consumed by darkness.

In what seems like an instant crimsons, golds, rusts and brilliant yellows take the place of lush, succulent greens.

God has taken His paint brush and blended warm hues on His palette – placing the pigment on the landscape. He gives us one more brilliant display before the lifeless blanket of white spreads across the great expanse. It will be here before we know it.

Autumn!

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WHERE LIES YOUR TREASURE?

I don’t know about you, but pirates have always held a fascination for me. In the old days, we’d watch the swashbuckling antics of Errol Flynn.  Today we put up with the rum swilling Johnny Depp – a much more realistic pirate in my opinion and just as handsome.

Peter Pan and Treasure Island were filled with amazing tales of those who sailed the seven seas, fighting with their bare hands and often losing one.  The thought of being a pirate appealed to me for a while – until I came to my senses and started raising a family instead.  Talk about living the life of a pirate.  Parenting became my new quest and that’s indeed another series of posts.

Today I want to talk about treasure.  Not the kind you find in a barnacle filled chest deeply planted at the bottom of the sea.  Not the kind you can win by purchasing a lottery ticket.  Not the wealth that comes with hard work, but a real treasure that fills your life completely.

I’ve been on both sides of the economic scale.  Most of my life has been spent as a middle class American with enough to get by, but praying every day that there will be sufficient provision for each one.  I’ve also known wealth and even though we only experienced that life for a little while, there really isn’t much difference.  Fortunately, God had a different plan for me.  I say fortunately, because without that time of wealth, I would never have been able to volunteer 13 years to setting up and teaching drama to a group of high school kids.  That work led to a new career, after our wealth took a nosedive.

God’s plan always includes our welfare.  He loves us abundantly.  So much so that He sent His own flesh and blood to live among us and take the load of sin off our shoulders.  Without Jesus, we would be condemned to a life of eternal hell after death. Our treasure cannot be measured by how much we have in the bank or socked away in a mattress.  God is our treasure, and He holds the keys to heaven.  Knock and it shall be opened to you.  Unconditional love with no boundaries is the greatest treasure available to all of us.

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GOD WINS

 “If you are going through hell, keep going. One ought never to turn one’s back on a threatened danger and try to run away from it. If you do that, you will double the danger. But if you meet it promptly and without flinching, you will reduce the danger by half.” Winston Churchill

We all experience our own hell as we walk through life.  Some days are worse than others – some are completely free of it – while others hold absolutely no relief.  Winston Churchill spoke these words when in the midst of what seemed an unwinnable war, but they resonate for any circumstance we face in life.

Jesus, the true Son of God, Son of Man, faced off with the devil some two thousand years ago and defeated him.  His power has no hold on us anymore as long as we put our faith in our Savior.  We can even face the pangs of hell while here on earth and keep on pushing through with His help. God has clothed us in the fireproof garment of His Word and through it we can face the toughest challenges Satan throws our way.

There will be times when life seems futile – hours when fear tempts us – minutes that suck the life out of us – seconds that frustrate us.  With God’s armor, we have the protection necessary to make it through the fire.

Don’t ever give up.  God as a plan for each nano-second of our lives.  He is in control, and He loves us more than we deserve.  With Him we can face even the flames of hell, because He has already won the victory.

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THE HARDEST TEARS

When we cry in silence, I think it’s probably the best time to communicate with God. Not that we should be sad when we pray, but that we feel so connected to Him, that we have no fear in laying it all out on the table. When we’re going through trials in life – when it seems those problems will never end, or we will never get the answers we hope for – when we come to the end of our rope – we can still count on the King of Creation to hear our prayers.

We are in the season of life where many of those we’ve known during our lifetime have passed away and are enjoying the benefits of heaven. It makes me a little jealous in wishing that I was there with them. I know that God still has something for me to do on this earth, so I resign myself to His will. It’s not easy though.

Tears begin to flow as I think about what Jesus has done for all of us.  He could’ve chosen another way to deliver us from the sting of death and darkness of sin, but He didn’t.  His love – God’s love – is so great that it was the only way.  His resurrection ensures our place in heaven, and I know without a doubt that my friends will be there with their Savior.  I can’t wait to be with all of them too.

Mountainous clouds entwine in a sky of black,
Filling with tears from the Lord of all.
He sees and He knows our tribulation.
The depth of our sorrow is in His hands.
There is nothing we can do to take away our sadness.
We cannot change the course of our lives,
But He has turned His tears to cleansing waters
Through the death of His beloved Son.
Washed – forgiven for sin’s deadly pain,
We can dance in His refreshing rain


KATHY BOECHER©

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THIS OLD FRAME IS FALLING DOWN

Have you ever felt this way? You feel completely alone. Your life is close to its end. You seem to have lost your way. Even though you know that God is right beside you, you think He isn’t really listening to you or your prayers. I think we all experience this at some time or another. When the world closes in and life seems overwhelming, there often is this feeling of complete isolation.

This morning I opened my computer and forgot why.  I was about to take my pills for the day and couldn’t remember if I had already taken them.  I looked in the mirror and saw the reflection of my mother and almost thought for a moment that she was actually in my bathroom.  We could’ve had quite a conversation, but then I realized that she’s been gone for several years now.  Imagine my shock when I realized it was me staring at me.

When I was a young woman, these things were called being forgetful and a klutz. Now it’s a result of age.  My thoughts of the years after retirement are like those fleeting moments when we completely dislodge from reality and go into the twilight zone – that new horizon where your skin loses its elasticity and shrivels up – our eyes fail, hearing fades and we are considered addled by time – in other words OLD!

When you go in for a physical you’re asked if you feel safe at home – do you fall – do you have someone to care for you.  They seem to think you’re ready to go out to pasture and leave the world in a week.

In my opinion, growing old means more than being able to pee, sneeze and laugh at the same time.  It means you’ve collected a lifetime of experiences – made it longer than most of your friends and still have moments of lucidity. You also realize that soon you will be in heaven and none of this other stuff really matters.

In the meantime, God has a reason for keeping you on this planet and it’s up to you to find out why. He gives you a free will to decide what you’re going to do with the rest of it. If you prefer staring out into space, go for it, but I can guarantee you this isn’t a good way to look at the rest of your days.

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LOOKING FOR THE SILVER LINING

Look for the silver lining
Whenever a cloud appears in the blue
Remember, somewhere the sun is shining
And so the right thing to do is make it shine for you

A heart, full of joy and gladness
Will always banish sadness and strife
So always look for the silver lining
And try to find the sunny side of life

So always look for the silver lining
And try to find the sunny side of life

Songwriters: Jerome Kern, B. G. De Sylva.

I have often written about my love of old movie musicals. When I was growing up, this was my entertainment. We’d spend the entire day at the local movie theatre. Mom and dad had a plan in all this. For fifty cents, we could get in to see the movies, buy popcorn and a beverage and not need a babysitter. We would be entranced by the big screen and technicolor moving pictures, with beautiful music, costumes and silly plot lines- but it kept us amused for the entire day. We’d often spend time watching a second run through of the movie and no one seemed to care. Mom and dad could then tend to their weekend tasks without interruption and knew we were in a safe place.

I learned a lot of valuable life lessons in that theatre. I learned that there was a silver lining in every cloud, and even if it was raining somewhere, the sun was right behind those clouds, painting beautiful images in the sky. I learned that my hopes of finding an imaginary prince would soon become dashed. I learned that good triumphs over evil. I learned that in the movies, everyone breaks into song without any motivation whatsoever. I learned I could escape the trauma of adolescence by spending my time in a completely different environment. I could become someone else for a while and I didn’t need drugs to make that happen.

Times change. Entertainment has changed too. Now there is so much reality facing our young people, that there is little hope of escaping from it. When they do, it has to be induced with some synthetic substance. The world of make believe is filled with amazing visions wrapped in stunning colors and filled with stories of love and hope and wishes that really do come true. I’m an old fogey now, but I still love those old visions of a perfect world presented by those movies of old. Today, I have a future to look forward to which includes clouds of silver and gold – dreams of a new, perfect, flawless body – hope for a pain free life with no stress or trials to face. And that’s no made-up story. It’s the whole truth.

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OLD TIME CURE ALLS

I remember spending summer vacations at my grandparents’ farm. It was quite an experience for a city girl to become a country mouse for a couple months. I recall going shopping in the big grocery store in the nearest town and having grandma hand over almost a hundred dollars for her purchase. I couldn’t fathom spending that much money in one place, but I didn’t realize that grandma was buying supplies for a month. Those supplies often included great amounts of flour, sugar and non-perishable items that would feed all the farmhands and remaining couple of sons in the family. Things like eggs, meat and milk were readily available, but all those other things were necessary purchases. Grandma would often re-supply her medicine cabinet at the same time. There were things like Carter’s Little Liver Pills, hydrogen peroxide, alcohol, dry mustard, eye of newt (just kidding.) Her medicine cabinet was actually a piece of furniture which sat right next to the indoor bathroom, for easy access.

There were things in that cabinet for various kinds of rashes, hives, bug bites and other itchy ailments. There were items which would soothe an upset stomach – clean out your gut – bandages of all size and shapes – things to clear up a sore throat, your complexion and even ease aching muscles. She would make poultices out of dried mustard, or a plaster made of fried onions. I often thought, if only she put a hamburger in that cabinet, I’d have access to a fast-food meal.

Grandma grew up on the prairie of Montana. She was a true pioneer woman who would gather animal dung to start a fire. Her pioneer spirit carried her through much of her life and home remedies were part of that ritual. When she married a farmer, she had to use what was at hand to fix people up – including herself. I remember her cutting her toe on the lawn mower and sticking that toe in a can of turpentine. I can’t imagine how that felt, but it seemed to do the trick.

Thankfully modern medicine has made things much easier, except for us older fogies who still revert to some of those old remedies to get us through an emergency situation. Now we struggle with medicine bottles which are not only childproof, but elder proof as well. We have boxes to sort those pills and remember which pills we need to take and those we’ve already taken. Filling the boxes isn’t an easy task, however. Sometimes I wonder if some of those old ways of doing things wasn’t better for us in the long run.

I have fond memories of grandma’s medicine cabinet. I knew that there was something there that would cure what ailed anyone. There was even a bottle which held some kind of alcoholic beverage too. Maybe that was there for Grandpa’s benefit.

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HIDING IN THE WOODS

ART & INSPIRATION BY KATHY BOECHER

“When we contemplate the whole globe as one great dewdrop, striped and dotted with continents and islands, flying through space with other stars all singing and shining together as one, the whole universe appears as an infinite storm of beauty.” John Muir

When my grandmother became overwhelmed by all the grief around her, she’d go to the woods.  My husband is the same way.  He seems to draw some strength by being away from the cares of life and close to God’s beautiful creation.  I’m not much of a nature buff, but I do appreciate how just getting away from all the cobwebs that mess up the every day, can refresh our spirits.

Now that things have gotten so clouded and insane in our world, I’m becoming more prone to a trip to the mountains or somewhere that’s just inhabited by me and God. I think we all need a healing time, even when our bodies are healthy.  Our souls need a good shot in the arm once in a while.  I can’t think of a better place to be than wrapped in the arms of my Creator, feeling His strength giving me new life and energy, pushing the noise out and breathing refreshment into my nostrils.

Unfortunately, as long as we inhabit this world, we will never find complete peace.  Our planet is inhabited with hatred, narcissism, violence, a network of words that gives us a picture of all of it within seconds.

When Job was confronted by the loss of everything important to Him, he clung to the only One He could count on.  Certainly not his friends.  They were making judgments of their own and trying to discover what wrong Job had done to put him in such a bad relationship with God.  Job hung on, even as he lost all his children, his means of making a living, home, servants, cattle – everything.

Still he had the strength to praise God in the midst of all his trouble.  I’m not Job and I certainly don’t have his stamina, but we all have our battles on this side of eternity.  Today, instead of focusing on the ugliness, let’s go “into the woods.”

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WHAT’S ON THE OTHER SIDE?

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

Your hand created all that is, it’s right before our eyes,

You breathed the breath of life in us, the earth, the sea and skies,

Every tiny cell and atom, lay in your strong control,

You crafted each and every thing, perfection was your goal,

The animals, the fish, the birds, on earth did now abide,

You made a man out of the earth, a woman from his side,

A garden was their dwelling place, beauty beyond compare,

There was no sin or death on earth, and God was always there ,

And then the devil entered in, he tempted and they sinned,

Their disobedience led to death, their fate blew in the wind,

But Jesus came and took the load of sin upon the cross,

Defeating Satan once for all, our gain became his loss,

No longer do we fear our death, we know it’s not the end,

There’s everlasting life beyond.  He is our one true friend.

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INTO EACH LIFE SOME RAIN WILL FALL

The sound of gently falling rain upon a tin roof can be irritating or restful depending on your state of mind.  A drenching upon the dry soil can be a welcome relief or it can flood things freshly planted and carry them away.  When we cry, our hearts are usually heavy because of sadness or loss, but there are also tears of joy which come when something miraculous happens or your heart is so full it can no longer hold the joy inside.

I sometimes wonder if rain falls as a result of God’s sadness over the world.  He certainly has reason to cry.  Our world is full of hatred, anger, fear, self-absorption and desperation.  We can’t escape the evil which is allowed to permeate the heart of man. God is God. Does He experience the same pain we do? As a child I was told that rain was evidence of God’s tears. He created every part of humanity including tear ducts to wash away the impurities of life. Jesus is God and He wept on more than one occasion.

When we hurt – when our bodies are filled with pain – when our emotions overtake us – when the world seems to be out of control – we cry.  We sometimes can’t control those tears and they become so much a part of us that we become depressed or emotionally broken.  God is all powerful, all knowing and always present in our lives and that should fill our hearts with hope, but sometimes the tears can’t be held back no matter how hard we try. It is then that we pray.

Lord, you know all about pain and suffering.  You watched as your only Son was subjected to ridicule, slander and physical abuse.  You saw Him placed in a tomb with the weight of our sin on His back.  Your tears must’ve been uncontrollable.  Yet on the third day you brought Him back to life.  He walked the earth again, preparing His disciples for the work ahead and then ascended into heaven 40 days later.  We have your promise that He will come again on the last day and take away all our tears.  Thank you for your love, for your patience and your tears.  Amen!

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CHASING THE WIND?

Do you feel like it’s Groundhog Day, every day? Are you going through the motions of living, without really living? I am stuck at the moment. Life does get in the way of our living from time to time. How do you cope when that happens?

King Solomon was a man of great wisdom. He had wealth beyond measure.  He could partake in anything that would give him enjoyment.  He had servants caring for him, more wives than he could count and a nation who looked up to and honored him.  He had access to everything in life and yet during his final days he said it was all meaningless.

There are days when I feel like all I’m doing is chasing the wind. I wake up, go through the same rituals and habits. I try to look for the good in my life and it’s all around me, yet there are times when it gets cloudy and there seems to be no answers to current problems. I find myself wallowing in the rut of sameness, but when something happens to shake me up – I’m not always prepared for it. I get frustrated. I worry. I fret. I cry myself to sleep at times. I often don’t know what to do.

Solomon said that there was nothing new under the sun.  Times change, but people have been struggling with the same issues since man fell into sin.  If our focus is only on this temporary span we call life, there really is no purpose.  What then is the part of life that gives it meaning?

There may be nothing new under heaven but imagine what’s in store for us when we get there.  God has promised us a place of complete peace – a place where there will be no sadness, no tears – an eternity of joy.  There may be nothing new under the sun, but all things are new under the Son. When we realize that God never changes, even though our circumstances are in a constant state of flux, He is the only One to turn to. He may not give you an answer right away, but you can bet that when He does answer it will be for the best result.

Lord, I ask that you become the center of my life.  You give me a reason to get up every day.  You motivate me in all my comings and goings.  You lift and encourage me.  You strengthen my soul with your Holy Spirit, and I am washed clean of all my sins through your Son, Jesus. Stay with me as I draw nearer to you. Amen!

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AGING WITH GRACE

As we grow older, we’ve developed so many layers that our skin naturally becomes thick and hardened.  Each day we encounter something that causes us to falter, to waiver, to hurt and to give up.  We build a shield of protection around ourselves to fight off the enemies of this world. By the time we’ve reached our senior years, we’re perceived as cranky, hard-lined, unbending and just plain negative.  Older folks often think they’ve earned the right to be this way.  Have we?

When things aren’t going as we planned, our natural inclination is to blame someone else – even God.  Why doesn’t He answer my prayers?  Isn’t He listening?  Why is He putting me through this?  God doesn’t want us to become grumpy old men and women, but He does create bumps and even major roadblocks in our lives to draw us closer to Him.  As we get older we should see that even more clearly.  Why do we naturally turn the tables and put the blame on Him instead of understanding that He has this?  He’s running the show.  He’s the director of the universe.

Instead of passing the buck and blaming God, we should be thanking Him for every difficulty we face.  Each minor hiccup along the way prepares us for the next one.  Each bump in the road will help us realize how God works for our good.  Each major life event will lead to another and finally have refined us for our place in heaven.  God is constantly re-working us.  Not because He didn’t do it right in the first place, but because He knows what our true potential is.

So, even though we build up a steel suit of armor and more layers than an onion, our hearts should remain focused on our Savior.  Think of what He endured for us.

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NATIONAL LAZY DAY

I don’t know – maybe it has something to do with the dog days of summer. Maybe it’s a reminder to slow down and enjoy the moment. It might even be a day dedicated to simply doing nothing and being accountable to no one. Whatever the case, I love this national holiday and I think I’m going to enjoy celebrating it.

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WHY PRAY?

I’ve never had too much of a problem writing down my thoughts. I guess this is the way I can express myself without actually speaking the words. As I grow older, the words I speak get garbled or I use the wrong ones. There are times when I can’t find the words – when my mind just won’t wrap around the thoughts intelligently or in a logical way. The same is true in my prayer life. There are times when the words pour out of me and other times when I just don’t know what to pray for anymore.

At those times I feel like I need someone to help me find the right words. God’s Word tells us, that even on those occasions He provides an intercessor for us. My words have meaning through the Holy Spirit because He knows my thoughts and my heart. God knows me inside and out. He certainly doesn’t need my prayers, but by praying, we have a way to communicate with Him. He loves it when we do that, because He is always willing to listen. He is our greatest friend in so many respects, but prayer allows us to praise and honor Him along with asking Him for help when we need it. Even when we can’t come up with the right words, He knows our hearts and minds better than we do.

Isn’t it great how God provides for every aspect of our lives – even the words we send to Him? Our God is an awesome God!

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AGING WITH A SENSE OF HUMOR

As you know, I turned eighty a couple months ago. I really feel this is a great accomplishment for me, but my genetic background shows that my DNA contains genes which qualify me to be a long liver. I’m not talking about the organ here, but most of the women in my history lived well into their 80s. I’ve even outlived a few of them, even though most of those early family members were pioneers who had to make fires out of animal dung. That alone would’ve \put me away a long time ago. We women of the 21st century have so many advantages compared to our ancestors. We live in a world that requires little physical labor – we’re pampered in many ways – our homes are often self-maintainable -we have jobs that bring in mucho bucks – we can go into politics – we can do just about anything a man can do, but I personally don’t care about that. The problems arise when we retire.

The world tells us these will be the best years of our lives. They fail to mention that you’ll be spending many hours at the doctor’s office or trying to move from place to place without the help of a cane or walker. By the time we retire, we are so tired, we’ve kind of lost our way. Aging is a state of mind. I believe that there is a reason for those of us who live as long as we do. Maybe it’s so we can be there for our spouse. It might be so that our children can see what they have to look forward to. The primary reason, I think, is so that we can grow in wisdom and share that with someone else before the mess things up by themselves.

I have chosen to live the rest of my days, doing something I love. I don’t want to get too attached, however, because it might just end in a flash. I’m sure many folks wonder why an old woman like me is still acting on stage. They might think it’s an ego trip for me. Maybe it is, but my philosophy is this – God gave me this life for a reason. If I can make someone happy through what I do, maybe that’s what I should do. In the process, I am making my own life a lot more enjoyable. Aging requires a great sense of humor. If you don’t continue to laugh at your failings or give in to feeling useless, you will never experience the joy of old age. Yes, there is joy in getting older. We have so much to share with the rest of the world. If only they would listen to us.

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WHERE DOES THE ROAD LEAD?

ART & POETRY BY KATHY BOECHER

Our walk each day is often filled with tangles, twists and turns,

We try to forge a clearer path, for safety our heart yearns,

Each fork can lead you to success, each branch can hide the way,

You struggle with the smallest things, you’re not sure what to say,

The road holds many stumbling blocks, you fall and then you rise,

The darkness of a late-night walk, can muddle up your eyes,

If you don’t follow all the signs, you may stray off the way,

You need someone to walk with you and hear the words you say,

It all becomes much clearer when we trust in the true God,

He shows the way and leads us home, wherever we may trod,

He lifts us when our legs grow tired, He calms our every fear,

He carries us when we can’t walk, He wipes away each tear,

The darkness may surround your steps, but He is always there,

To shed His light upon your way, to take away each care,

Put your faith in God, the Father, He’ll never let you down,

His Holy Spirit comforts you, His Son gives you a crown,

Eternity will be your prize, when this life is long gone,

Just trust in His sustaining love from dusk until the dawn.

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