REFUGE

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL  KATHY BOECHER©

(Another train yard is a great subject for light, texture and color. Paul captures all in this painting.)

 

Rusted, weary, old and broken, yet a refuge lies within,

Tank cars filled with precious liquids, held together by a pin,

Hoppers, flatcars and gondolas – heavy weights of girth and brawn,

Box cars, freight cars and cabooses, worn but ready at the dawn.

 

Graffiti painted on the walls, box cars groan their ghostly calls,

To a homeless man and woman, beckoning within its walls,

For a while this will mean safety, from the bitter cold outside,

Temporary sanctuary, for them safely to abide.

 

The train yards fill with lonely souls, waiting for just one free ride,

Long enough to get them through,  to a refuge where to hide,

As those transcients just passing through, longing for the fresh and new,

Settling for what they are given, wandering through a tempest true.

 

We are like those lonely people, pushing on through pain and woe,

Knowing not what comes tomorrow, what we’ll reap or what we’ll sow,

Still we have the true assurance that our God will lead the way,

Through our struggles He will guide us, safely through another day

 

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PRAYER FOR HEALING

Dear, Lord of Life,

I come today to ask your intervention in the lives of those who are in the midst of pain – of hopelessness – of fear of what lies ahead – and to those whom we can only offer prayers.

God of all creation, you knew us before we were born.  You crafted each intricate body part while we were in the womb.  You knew what we would do in life – our successes and our failures.  You have always seen to our needs and we know that you have planned a great future for us in eternity.

Because of your omnipotence, your omnipresence, your omniscience you have our destiny in your hands.  We may not know what lies ahead, but we can be sure of what you have promised us.  Sickness, depression, fear, sadness, all cause us to turn inward and sometimes even feel sorry for ourselves.  Let us never forget that you are at the very core of our existence and because of who you are, we need not give in to worry.

For those experiencing health issues, we pray for healing and restoration, but also we pray for those who care for them – the medical team, the family and the friends who love them.  Wrap your comforting wings around them and clothe them in confidence.  In all things, we know that you are always in control.

In Jesus name, I humbly ask this for those in need of comfort today.

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IT’S WEATHERMAN’S DAY

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It’s National Weatherman’s Day.   Most of the best weather forecasters in my state are women.  I think they choose them to deliver the bad news as a way of softening the blow.  My state, is known to have two seasons – winter and road construction.

When there’s a lull in the weather, forecasters tend to make the most of the smallest weather events.  If the wind is blowing more than five miles an hour, you better take refuge in the root cellar.  You never know how things will change and it’s better to be safe than sorry.  You could call it fake weather news because of the raw emotion it instills

Years ago, temperatures would not determine a four day, unplanned break in the school year or closing the post office.  Why in my day, we traveled five miles, by foot, in a blizzard which allowed us to see only one inch in front of our faces.  It was an uphill trek both ways.  We wore Wonder Bread bags in our boots to keep our feet extra dry.  We carried our lunches in paper bags.  We placed our wet mittens on top of a wood stove to dry.  I could go on, but you know what I mean.

The weather has become a lesson in survival.  We have climate change (?) global warming (?) dressing in layers, packing a survival kit in your car along with lots of blankets and treats for the kids.   You’re forced to walk 20 steps from the house to the warm van your mom drives to your school and then 20 more steps from the van to the school door.  But I digress.

The weatherman is the cause for many jokes.  They’re bullied often.  They’re only the messenger after all.  They don’t make the weather.  These unsung heroes, get up every day and read their charts and the radar maps, formulating what will happen over the next 24 hours.  If they go beyond that, it’s all speculation, because in Minnesota you just wait a few hours and the weather will change.  There was one day we experienced extreme heat and humidity, snowfall, hail and tornado warnings. Then it rained like the Dickens.  Well there I go, digressing again.

So today, when you’re watching the weather report, remember to thank your weatherperson.  He/she are those who will determine how your dress, what you pack in your car, if you must shovel your way out of the driveway and scrape two inches of frost off your windshield.  They actually set the tone for the day.

By the way, it’s snowing in Minnesota.  We have a thick layer of ice right outside our door, from the short heat wave that melted everything and refroze it yesterday.  And the groundhog said it would be an early spring.  Maybe he better take a course in meteorology.

 

 

 

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PUT ON A NEW FACE

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

Why do we long for what used to be,

Why do we wish for the past,

Why do we think the olden days,

Can give us peace that will last.

 

The memories we love and cherish,

Often seem more than they were,

We forget the things that perish,

And hang on to what was a blur.

 

The days of old were not perfect,

Though we would like them to be,

Our challenge is not to look back,

But forward in what all we see.

 

 

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DOES GOING TO CHURCH MAKE YOU A CHRISTIAN?

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Many think that they’re above reproach or no longer considered sinful if they simply attend church.  Many are also there because they feel safe from the world outside.  Some even use church as a place to compensate for the sins they commit every day.  Unfortunately, going to church isn’t going to make you perfect.  Only God can do that.

The church itself is full of sinners just like you and me.  It’s an imperfect body of soiled and ugly people – often dressed in their most beautiful clothes and looking like a million bucks.  Within this seemingly perfect refuge lies deceit, judgment, anger, adultery, homosexuals, bigotry, liars, thieves and every other kind of villain you can think of.  This is one of Satan’s most popular places to visit, because it’s filled with imperfect people who are subject to sin.

However, when you look at the ministry of Christ, it took place in the most unusual places. He went to the core of humanity – to the sinners of the world – to all those who needed His healing.  He still does.  Through His Word, the Bible, He comes to the broken hearted, the poor in spirit, the lost and condemned and those who need Him most.

When God looks at our wretched condition, He’s like the prodigal Father who longs for us to return to Him.  He loves when we ask for His help, because He’s always eager to give it.

Going to church isn’t going to guarantee our salvation, but if our church is preaching the truth of the Bible, we will be nourished each week – fed with the good news of the Gospel – that our sins are forgiven through Jesus.

The church body is filled with sinners and hypocrites and it’s the perfect place to find forgiveness.

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A MANSION ON THE HILL

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

A solid base with bones still strong,

A place where love and peace belong,

A fortress from the outside gives,

A buttress where time still forgives,

The inner walls are cracked and dry,

Like aging skin they’re doomed to die,

The roof is in much disrepair,

The windows need some loving care,

In time those things will pass away,

But firmly planted it will stay,

If love resumes with owners new,

They’ll make all of their dreams come true,

A house is just a place you see,

But when God’s in it, you’re set free,

To do the things that must be done,

To make it shine and add some fun,

With God a house becomes a home,

He builds His love within each room,

If He’s the rock on which we build,

Those living there with love are filled,

Turn to Him, the firm foundation,

Who gives hope and restoration.

 

 

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HAPPY GROUNDHOG DAY

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That furry little groundhog has predicted an early spring, but I’m not sure he lives in Minnesota.  Last year the furry little guy did the same and we had a blizzard in April.

I find it amusing that we put faith in an animal to determine our future. Of course America does so at this time of year.  It starts with a groundhog – carries over to Super Bowl Sunday and a pig skin.  Then we are subject to billions of dollars worth of advertising pertaining to monkeys and other assorted animals.  We say it’s all in fun, but is it?

Things that begin as “all in fun” , usually lead us down the path to trusting in things that simply have no merit.  In February we spend more millions on chocolate, flowers and Hallmark has it’s busiest time during that month, other than Mother’s Days.

In March we look at a little green leprechaun sitting next to a pot of gold and believe we might find a similar treasure ourselves.  In April the rain gods are worshiped and called upon to bring May flowers.  When June arrives, we begin to put our faith in the weather once more and plan summer vacations with the family, which usually turn into wild an unforgettable adventures.

July means it’s time to celebrate the birthday of our country.  Do kids still decorate their bikes and doll carriages with crepe paper and march alongside the high school band in parades?  I see a hint of patriotism in our little community, but even that doesn’t last.  The dog days of summer set in on August 1st.  By this time we’re weary of the hot, humid weather and long for autumn.  However August kind of skips over Autumn until late October and often we have our first snow in that month.  In September, the regimen of going back to school becomes the focus.  October, color start to turn and we are amazed by God’s handiwork, until the leaves fall to the ground and we have to stretch our backs picking them up.

October also brings Halloween, so watch out for black cats and witches.  November puts us in the beginning of winter and we sit down to eat a turkey or a ham and stuff ourselves to the brim. December out attentions turns to gift giving – spending too much – gorging our already bulging bodies with roast beef and mashed potatoes.  Then it’s back to January and promises are made which can’t be kept.

What it comes down to it, each month gives us a reason to elevate something other than the true God – the One who holds the wind in His fists and controls every aspect of our weather – the One who knows all, is all powerful and is always with us.  Our God is alive and consistent and answers prayers.  Maybe if we started to put Him back where He belongs in our lives, we wouldn’t have to look elsewhere for peace – comfort – or safety.

So, if you know a ground hog in Pennsylvania, remind him that winter is not over yet.  And you can tell him February 2 will turn into February 3 tomorrow.  Life goes on and with God, it goes on abundantly.

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GET RID OF THAT BELLY FAT

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OK, so the after the holidays diet started out pretty good. I even lost a couple pounds.  Then Sunday came and my church is big on snacks so that got me started again.  It began with a small caramel and dark chocolate piece of candy and that was the end of it.

So here we are at the beginning of February and I’m still fat.  I don’t know really. I used to be able to blame my fat tummy on baby weight.  I had three of them, but the last time was 46 years ago, so that excuse is losing relevance. I can’t even see my stretch marks anymore and my belly button is long gone.

There are countless diets out there – each one requiring that you eat a certain way until the fat is gone.  Then you can eat again and gain back what you lost and add a few additional pounds.  Commercials on TV show before and after bodies, and you truly see a remarkable difference if you opt for diet A.  Then when you look at your own before and after pictures, you weep.

Then there’s the option of having the fat sucked out of you. I wonder what they do with all that sucked fat.  I mean, you’d think there would be a way to recycle it.  They’d need to store mine in a semi.

They have a special offer to do one area free.  Now that sounds interesting.  You go in and have one hip sucked out and one is left the way it was.  This could create some very unusual looking bodies.  How do you explain that to your friends?

Cool sculpting is also an option.  I wonder how that works.  Do you suppose they put you in a refrigerated meat locker alongside the pork chops and dead chickens?  Maybe they stuff you in one of those cryogenic machines and in twenty years you come out thin.  It all sounds very expensive.

So I try to convince myself that eliminating carbs and sugar are going to help.  Then I read that there are carbs in just about anything we eat.  Besides, I’m not giving up my daily scoop of ice cream before bed.  It helps me sleep!

So, I’m done making excuses.  I will begin again and again and again.  You’d think you wouldn’t have to worry about excess weight when you’re 76, but I’ve been doing it all my life.  Heaven help me!

 

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WALLY’S FRY DADDY FRIDAY FUNNY

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNY

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RUNNING THE RACE

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

It’s early in the morning, you’re up before the sun,

You don your gear for running, before your work is done,

You run through city landscapes, press on with heart of steel,

You pass the local golf course, your senses make you reel.

 

As you awake and realize it’s 45 below,  your brain freeze is a fact,

You’ll have to wait three months or so, to get your courage back,

You pull the covers way up high, and rest your sleepy head,

A three month nap will do the trick, so just go back to bed.

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I’M LIVING IN NARNIA!

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“Wrong will be right, when Aslan comes in sight, At the sound of his roar, sorrows will be no more, When he bares his teeth, winter meets its death, And when he shakes his mane, we shall have spring again.” 

C. S. Lewis
It seems, no matter how we prepare for these extreme temperatures in Minnesota, we’re always surprised by it.  For three days, schools have been empty, extra curricular activities postponed and even some businesses have closed.  Our cold water pipe is frozen, (we knew it was coming) my car will not respond, the snow is difficult for us to remove and still, we can’t believe it when these things come to haunt us each winter.
It leaves us rather “cabin bound” with little to occupy our time.  We may pick up a book or search the web.  We might even tune into the news (heaven forbid) to see what’s happening in the rest of the world.  The dog needs boots, so he doesn’t have to stand on one leg when nature calls.  I must cover my face and breathe through my nose to avoid having the frigid air invade my fragile lungs.  My husband finds the weight of the snow blower more difficult to contend with than using a shovel – so he opts for doing it the old fashioned way.
We know it’s coming.  We made plans for it.  Since we’ve been through it before, we believe we have overcome all the obstacles.  Yet, here we are, in the same boat – or should I say “igloo?”
People talk about climate change and extremes in temperatures.  There may be some truth to that, but the records show that there were even greater plunges into the abyss in the 1800s.
Winter to me is like the end of our journey.  We start out fresh and new, as happens in the season of Spring.  We grow into the heat of adolescence when it’s Summer.  We begin to show our age in Autumn as we wither and dry up.  In winter, we come to the end of the cycle as life wanes from us.  Are we ready for what lies ahead?
I have thoughts like that quite often as I drift closer to old age.  I wonder if I’m ready.  Has God finished the work He intended for me to do in this life?  All the guilt of past sins still haunt me, even though I know I’ve been forgiven.  Does that mean that my faith isn’t strong enough?  I know that Jesus has prepared a place for me in heaven, but that little voice in my head still asks, “are you ready?”
Then I remember what a great price my Savior paid for my redemption.  His love for me and for the entire world is beyond my comprehension.  I believe we will understand all the mysteries when we arrive in heaven.  When sin entered the world, the perfect connection with God was broken.  Jesus made it possible for us to go directly to the Father in prayer.  When we die, we will have complete knowledge and our eyes will be opened again.
Right now I feel like I’m living in Narnia.  The beauty of winter surrounds me.  Ice and snow look as though God sprinkled a blanket of diamonds all around us.  Even the icicles hanging from the eaves – clinging to life – are beautiful.  The naked trees have an aura of frost.  It’s magical, enchanting, breath taking.  Soon it will be replaced with the green life of Spring and we will start all over again – or will we?  Are we ready for paradise?
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THE DOG PARK IN WINTER

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

A bright and wintry morning, the master and his dog,

Trudge through the new white fallen snow, their breath becomes a fog,

The dog park is not far away, but temperatures are cold,

The wind chill makes it feel like it is fifty five below,

Still onward they push forward, both freezing inside and out,

Longing for interaction, but there’s no one else about,

The two of them grew old you see, they cannot walk so far,

Looking at his master he says, “we should’ve taken the car.

 

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WHERE’S THE HOPE?

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I hope the weather will change soon.  I hope I can get a job.  I hope I don’t have cancer.  I hope I can muddle through these last years of life.  I hope, I hope, I hope.

I go to a church named Hope.  Since we joined there, we’ve seen a few friends pass away.  We’ve seen people go through grief, depression, hopelessness, yet we have seen those emotions be overcome through prayer and caring.  We’ve seen growth in numbers, we’ve experienced joy, sadness, worry sometimes fears, disagreements, but we all remain committed to hope.  In fact we always close our service by reciting the Bible verse, Isaiah 40:31

“Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength.  They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

So where does our hope come from?  If we look at our world today, it would seem that there isn’t much hope.  There’s a negative vibe floating around, trying to convince us that we’re being manipulated – that we’re intolerant – misogynistic – and whatever the flavor of the day happens to be.  There is very little focus on the Creator of the Universe.  We started as a fledgling nation, with one common goal – to look forward rather than back – to place our hope and dependence in the One who has our lives already planned out.

Somehow, we as Christians seem to be outnumbered.  We may feel we’re being persecuted by other religious groups, by radical thinking, by those with no regard to life, by the naysayers who believe the American dream is dead.  We may believe we’re in the minority, but are we?

The church is a place where we can renew our strength, through the study of God’s Word.  It’s a place where we can share our burdens with one another – where we can rely on emotional support when we’re hurting – where we can become a part of the body of Christ.

The word HOPE is defined by Webster – to cherish a desire with anticipation : to want something to happen or be true. An archaic definition is to trust. 

In a way our hope stems from faith in the only One we can trust.  Maybe we should revive that archaic definition once more.

When we become hopeless, it leads to depression, which leads to lack of confidence, thoughts of suicide and worse.  Hopelessness should not be part of our vocabulary, when we depend on God to lead us.  There are way too many – young and old and in between – who feel the pain of hopelessness.

As citizens of this country, we must remain hopeful that our leaders are doing the right thing.  That the swamp will be drained and the good will remain.  We still have a voice, through our voting and our constant attention to what’s going on in our country.  When we see something that isn’t right, we need to contact our representatives.  We can complain all we want about the injustices, the slander, the scandal, the corruption, but if we simply complain there is no solution to the problem.

Abraham Lincoln, a most unpopular president when he was in office, rose above it and is today honored for his wisdom and common sense.  He had this to say about hope:

“My dream is of a place and a time where America will once again be seen as the last best hope of earth.”

Emily Dickenson had this to say about hope,

“Hope is the thing with feathers that perches in the soul – and sings the tunes without the words – and never stops at all.”

Here’s what God says about hope in Romans 15:4

For whatever was written in former days was written for our instruction, that through endurance and through the encouragement of the Scriptures we might have hope.”

My prayer is that hope never dies.  The only way to rekindle the fire is to come back to God and trust in His divine intervention.  He is our only hope.

 

 

 

 

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WARM SKIES,REFRESING WATER

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

What once was such a lovely day is coated now with snow,

The temperatures have fallen to zero and below,

We long for what we have not, we wish for better days,

But when it’s cold and wintry, we’re often in a daze,

The whiteness of new fallen snow, the chill that fills the air,

The stress on joints and muscles, we simply do not care,

But then we think of brighter days, when sun lights up the sky,

In our imagination we might think that we can fly,

But for today it’s memories, of what once used to be,

For now it’s covered up with snow and blankets cover me.

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BRRRRRR ……

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OK, I live in Minnesota.  Why?  Because I’m a glutton for punishment?  Because I love extreme temperature changes?  Because my hot flashes actually do feel good?  There really isn’t a good reason.  I live here because I was born here and I will undoubtedly die hear.  I have grown accustomed to dressing in layers.  Most of the time I’m removing them because of my internal thermostat.  I love the change of seasons, unfortunately winter is the longest one and often autumn and spring are overlooked entirely.  Still there is the heat and humidity of summer.  The brief season of new life in spring, when flowers bud and green is returning to the landscape.  The beautiful color pallet of God as He dots the trees with extreme color.  And then the winter of our life.

Winter in Minnesota usually arrives anywhere between October and December and stays with us through March and sometimes April.  This year we’ve been spared huge amounts of snow, which is a plus for my husband, who has to shovel.  We’ve had a few cold days, but nothing bad enough to freeze the pipes, but still cold enough to freeze my car.  This week, winter returns with a vengeance.  Today we have about 4″ of new fallen, fluffy snow.  It’s beautiful.  It covers all the ugliness of what lies below.  It’s like a fresh coat of paint or a giant white quilt interspersed with diamonds.

Schools have been closed in the area or are running late.  The wind is beginning to pick up and is expected to challenge drivers as they travel through blizzard conditions.  Not only that, the thermometer may read -12 degrees, but it will feel like -45 to -65 below by tomorrow and remain for a couple days.

I would like to make a pitch for global warming, but it really doesn’t make much sense to me.  I believe that God controls the weather as well as our environment.  We can mess it up with our misuse of it from time to time, but in the end, God is still in charge.  Besides if global warming is actually occurring, I will eventually be living in the garden spot of America, if I live that long.

By Saturday, the temperature is expected to hit +35.  Go figure?  This is why Minnesotans, Iowans and Wisconsinites are so resilient. We bounce back like a tire that needs inflating because it isn’t used for a while.  Which also happened to my car last week.

It’s Monday.  I don’t have to drive in this stuff.  I don’t have to go to work.  I can observe the beauty from my window.  I’ve remained relatively healthy this year (I didn’t have a flue shot) and I thank God for giving me another day of life.  Can’t get much better than that.  Now if I could just train the dog to use the indoor plumbing.

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SUNDAY SILENCE

It’s Sunday and the temp is well below zero. Even the dog was hesitant to go outside, but he gave in to nature’s call.

As I waited for him in the cold silence, I took a minute to soak it in. We live right near a busy highway, but there was nary a sound. The cold air pierced my old decrepit lungs as I pulled my jacket collar over my nose. My eyebrows were already getting frosty.

Suddenly, in the frigid air. I could hear the sound of wind chimes, gently clinking. The dog was ready to go in, and my weary body was longing to go back to my nice warm bed, but for one single moment, I experienced the peace of a cold, clear, quiet Sunday morning.

May the peace of God be with you today!

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNY

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Funny it is not, but food for thought it is.

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WALLY’S FRIDAY FRY DADDY FUNNY

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IT’S PIE DAY!

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This is the perfect time of year for a warm piece of pie with a scoop of ice cream on top.  Slowly the ice cream melts and cascades over the crisp crust, enticing every taste bud in your mouth.  You have the perfect combination, with a taste of heaven thrown in. That is, of course, if you’re not on a diet and it makes no difference at all if you are overloading yourself with carbs and sugar.

You could remove the crust and just eat the innards I suppose, but then you’d need to eliminate all the sugar, which would take care of the innards and the ice cream, so what’s the point?  One day a year, we should be able to enjoy a piece of pie, right?  I mean they’ve designated a day for just that thing.  I think it’s our duty to respect the person who thought it up.  That person actually spent some time setting up an actual holiday for just that purpose.

There’s a pie shop in our town, which offers free pie on Wednesdays with the purchase of a meal.  This might be just the right time to enjoy the deliciousness.  I will go in and have a salad, with no bread, a glass of water and a scrumptious piece of French silk pie for dessert.

This is the mind of me, when I’m on a diet.  I try to rationalize all the reasons why I should eat something that isn’t diet worthy.  What’s one day going to matter?  I can always start again tomorrow.  In fact tomorrow is Belly Laugh Day.  I’ll bet I can burn off every calorie by laughing my head off.

 

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