SUMMERTIME MOVIES

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I know it’s summer, because school’s out and it’s time to go to Tuesday $5.00 movies with my granddaughter.  This has been a standing date, whenever there is anything worth seeing.  My granddaughter is sixteen, yet she is still a child at heart.  She loves Disney movies.  She still enjoys animated films and make believe.  So do I.  I guess we’re cut from the same cloth.  Yesterday, our date almost didn’t happen, because all but two seats were sold out.  I snatched them up.  Our seats were one row apart and she sat behind me so she could make sure I behaved.

I’d almost forgotten the story of Aladdin and the magic lamp, but as the film unfolded it all came flooding back into my brain.  The thought of a magic lamp, a flying carpet, three wishes and the possibility of having anything you ever dreamed of started sneaking into my memory.  Maybe this is why I’d forgotten about the story.  Throughout my life, promises of having everything necessary for a luxurious lifestyle was never meant to be.

As the story spilled onto the screen, it was apparent that luxury wasn’t all it was cracked up to be.  The poor street urchin, Aladdin, was an orphan, fending for himself on the streets of Agrabah.  Straight from the tales of the Arabian nights, this story has evolved over the years, but still has one main thread running through it.  That being, the triumph of good over evil.  This theme has been manipulated over time, but I love the way this film depicts the wrongdoings Aladdin was involved in just to get a meal each day. Even though he said it was OK as long as he didn’t get caught.  The idea of a young child having to live that way is sorrowful, but he was doing what was necessary to survive.

He falls for the wealthiest woman in town and gains control of a magic lamp which houses a huge blue genie.  The genie will grant him three wishes and Aladdin learns to choose those wishes wisely. When the villain interferes there are conflicts, but in the end, the good guy always wins.  Happy endings are imperative in any good fairy tale.  The lovely lessons learned from this story is that we are all equal really.  We have the same beginnings.  Our circumstances will affect our lives, but how they turn out depends on how we live them.

My granddaughter is currently rehearsing for a stage production of “Aladdin.”  She is part of a program designed for children with special needs.  This program casts children of various special needs as characters in the play.  Each of them has a mentor who works alongside them, guiding them through the process and helping them if they forget a line or miss a cue.  In a way, she’s like that magic Genie in the lamp, allowing some very special friends to see their wishes realized on stage.

Each year, this child has astounded me with her care for others.  She is indeed a treasure in herself.  This experience has led her to contemplate a career as a special education teacher.  I know whatever she does will be part of her passion to help others.

In the meantime, we will go to the movies on Tuesdays.  We will continue to bond as grandparent and grandchild.  I will put up with her mood swings and she will speak louder so I can hear her and tolerate my driving, my breathing issues, my memory losses and my inability to keep up with her.  Why?  Because this is our story.  We love each other and want what’s best for each other.  That’s what I call a happy ending.

 

 

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THOUGHTS ABOUT MY DAD

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This rewind was first posted on 06/14/17.  The photograph is of my dad on his wedding day.  He was only twenty years old. He died at the age of 61 – a short life, but one filled with more love in his heart than he dared to show.

My dad taught me how to tie my shoes.
He grieved with me when my box turtle fell off the ledge
of our fourth floor apartment.
He came with me to the five and dime to return a trinket I had stolen
and apologize for not paying for it.
He caught me taking one of his cigarettes – A camel without a filter.
He then taught me the proper way for a lady to hold a cigarette.
I was probably fifteen.
My dad taught me the difference between right and wrong
And let me know that I would always be accountable for my actions.
When I became a teenager, he was the one who told me the facts of life.
It really made him squirm.
He always “interviewed” my dates.
They had to pass his inspection, but their opinion of him didn’t matter.
He would be at the door to greet us when we got home.
I tried my best to live up to his expectations, but I never felt I could.
His words of praise were few and far between,
But I relished each one and held it tightly in my heart.
He worked two jobs so I could attend a private high school.
He wanted so much more for my sister and me –
More than he ever had.
He must have thought we needed extra attention.
He had a beautiful tenor voice and always sang loudly in church.
His Irish heritage boomed on St. Patrick’s day as he sang “Danny Boy”
And raised another glass. He could drink more beer than the rest
Of them and it didn’t affect him in the least.
Time passed and I fell in love. My dad went a little crazy for a while.
He put the newspaper in the refrigerator
and the bread down the clothes chute.
He became an emotional wreck.
He held my arm tightly as we walked down the aisle to meet my husband,
I could see tears glistening in his usually stoic eyes. He was so proud.
He died at sixty one – a long time smoker – he suffered with lung cancer.
He clung tightly to life – maybe feeling he wasn’t
quite ready for what lay ahead.
Maybe he hadn’t yet made peace with God for his past sins.
Finally knowing that he was forgiven allowed him to give in.
It gave him comfort.
I wasn’t at his side when he passed. We were driving to be with him.
As I looked at the brilliant blue sky, a cloud appeared and took on the
Form of a dove. It quickly floated high above and dispersed into heaven.
It gave me comfort.
I look forward to seeing him again so I can let him know
what a great impact he had on my life.

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FATHER’S DAY WEEK REWIND

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Since Father’s Day is less than a week away, I thought I’d pull out some of my previous posts on the subject.  The following, “WHAT MAKES A GOOD FATHER,” was originally posted on 06/15/2017.

Opinions about fatherhood have changed drastically over the past 30 or 40 years and I would like to address that today.  Somehow, maybe as a result of the feminist movement, men have been lowered in value and the role of father has diminished tremendously. in their attempt to get better paying jobs or achieve higher status, many women have placed men lower than themselves.  Maybe (and I know I’ll get a lot of heat for this) in trying to achieve equality with men, women have created a nightmare in the scheme of God’s plan for families.

Parenting is a partnership, just like marriage is.   When even the smallest portion of the job is taken away or lacks respect, the job loses value – and whether you believe it or not, parenting is a full-time occupation.

In Psalm 103:13 we have a good job description for fathers.

“As a father shows compassion to his children, so the Lord shows compassion to those who fear him.”

Compassion is defined as a sympathetic consciousness of others’ distress together with a desire to alleviate it.  The word probably isn’t used much today, because many are more concerned with self than the needs of others.  A father is expected to be the spiritual leader of the family, and he needs to take that job seriously.

Today’s world is geared to narcissistic values and often the ability to serve others gets lost in that.  Fathers have often been depicted as the buffoon in such television shows as “All in the Family” up to “The Simpsons” and beyond.  It isn’t easy being a good dad in today’s world.  Single parenting has become the norm in many situations and leadership takes a hit there too.

This week as we prepare to honor dads, let’s remember how God fathers His children.  He loves us unconditionally.  He will lay down his life for us.  He will continue to care about those who have strayed from Him.  He looks at His children’s forgiven hearts rather than their sin, because of the death of His Son, Jesus.  He corrects them, He protects them, has a blueprint designed for their lives and He is with them throughout those years into eternity.

That’s a tough act to follow, but it gives us a guide for what God expects of dads.  Let’s pray for their continued presence in their children’s lives.

 

 

 

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ONE MORE ANGEL IN HEAVEN

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About a year ago, a few of us ladies from church decided to get together socially once a week.  We’ve grown from a small group of three to a total of about 8 depending on who is available.  We usually meet for coffee and conversation.

On Friday night, one of those friends went home to heaven.  In the brief time of getting to know her, we all watched as she struggled with COPD and other health issues.  For her, this little weekly diversion was more than necessary.  It was a way for her to feel connected, loved and open to talk about her life.  It has also become a nurturing time for all of us.  We can bare our difficulties without being judged.  We can talk about things funny or serious and share our common faith through adversity.

This friend grew up in the Christian faith.  She served her country in the military.  She dreamed of some day becoming a librarian, because of her love of books.  She talked about her sons and grandchildren a lot.  She was so proud of those little ones and wanted them to be a part of her church as well.  Her life was full of tragedy beyond our comprehension, yet she clung to the cross and her hope of a future in heaven.

Through this interaction, we became bonded as friends.  Her death came as a complete surprise to us, because she seemed so happy the last few times we were together.  She had some frustrations with using the prescribed oxygen for her breathing a while back.  She quit smoking and seemed on a path to physical recovery.  Last week she sat with us in church and worshipped alongside us.  Her face was radiant and I had a feeling of comfort when I talked to her.  She seemed to have come to grips with her illness and at peace with it.  She also talked about another grandchild on the way.

Life is so fragile.  On Saturday, I wrote a post about aging and never knowing when our time will come to an end.  For my friend, life is just beginning. She is in the presence of our Savior. She will no longer struggle for air.  She is wrapped in glorious robes of salvation and will live eternally because of what Jesus did for her.  Death has no dominion over us when we believe in God’s everlasting love for us.  Rest in eternal peace, my friend.  We’ll all get together again someday.

“Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed,”  1Corinthians 15:51

 

 

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COUNTDOWN TO 77

Every time I go in for my six month physical, I feel like I’m getting an oil change.  Each of my levels is checked to make sure they are functioning the way they should.  I’m asked the same questions I was asked six months ago.  Are you getting enough exercise?  Are you eating right? Do you feel safe at home?

The answers don’t change.  I’ve never done the right amount of exercising.  I’m physically active when I know I’m moving, which often is as simple as getting out of bed.  I eat the same way I did when I was twenty five, but now the exercise I’m not doing is catching up with the caloric intake.  I feel safe at home.  I’ve always felt safe at home until someone started asking me if I feel safe at home.  The thought never occurred to me before.

Suddenly when we get older, we are somehow treated like little children again. It is assumed that we have lost all our mental faculties – our physical stamina – our ability to think, reason and take care of ourselves.  Today there are more people who call themselves senior citizens then ever before.  I used to think being a senior was a place of honor.  Now that I am one, I’m having second thoughts.

I’m still a viable part of my community.  I am active in the community theatre scene.  I have a social life.  I am involved in church activities.  I spend time with friends,  but I also enjoy being alone.  I have lost a few inches in height, but still feel I stand as tall as most of my peers.  I believe I am here for a purpose.  I’m still trying to figure out what that is.  I love to write and spend hours a day doing so.  I still enjoy puttering in my garden, though now my body requires more H2O because I sweat more than I did when I wasn’t doing all that exercise as a youngster.

As I approach another birthday, I always like to take a look at what I’ve accomplished through my time on this planet.  It’s like getting a 100,000 mile checkup.  Things are beginning to break down and parts have to be replaced.  The spark plugs need changing and the belts need tightening, but the engine is still OK and should last for a while longer.

We never know how long we have left.  My time could be up today.  I could live another twenty years.  When looking at a life, we should really look forward rather than back. The miles we’ve put on during our existence have taken us on many adventures.  We’ve seen many things and discovered much about the world around us, but the truth is looking back isn’t always the best way to live.  Pressing on to the final victory, which has already been won for us, forces us to look ahead.  God has given these years as a time of grace – a time to make a difference in the life of another person – a time to share the love of God – a time to spend wisely.

 

 

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ACUMEN

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Searching for wisdom is as old as time itself.  Ever since man fell into Satan’s arms, there is a need to prove ourselves.  A word like acumen isn’t used much today in regard to wisdom.  It is more akin to being shrewd, visionary, somewhat like what is commonly called the American business man or woman.

The traits associated with this word have a slightly negative slant.  We’re always looking for solutions to problems and maybe duct tape is the only answer.  Maybe the solutions don’t require a master’s degree or years of personal experience.

I believe our current president is a man filled with acumen.  He knows how to seal a deal.  He has tremendous business savvy.  He knows how to solve problems and build teams that will advise him.  He has the ability to see the best and worst of people.  He is a people person.  He knows what the people want and deserve.  He loves his country.  Does all of that acumen make him a wise man?

This little word carries a lot of punch.  It was literally derived from the Latin word which meant to sting with something sharp, thus mental sharpness or shrewdness.  Again it’s not a word used much today.  The truth is, the word wisdom has morphed into acumen, which gives it a more negative meaning.  When we begin to feel superior to the One who made the rain and causes storms filled with torrential wind and power – when we think we know better that the One who formed man out of the dust of the earth – when we believe we don’t need God’s intervention, our wisdom becomes tarnished and it becomes lost to us.

Job 28 speaks about where our true acumen comes from.

“And he said to man, ‘Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom,
and to turn away from evil is understanding.’”

The fear referred to  is not a terror filled fear, but one of great honor and awe for the One who gives it.  When we place Him first in our lives, everything else falls into place.  Wisdom is a gift from God.  It comes from searching His Word on a daily basis – looking for the truth.  It is a manual for living, for aging, for parenting, for relationships, for everything we will ever be exposed to on this planet.  This awesome gift should be cherished.  It has remained for centuries and will continue until Jesus returns again.

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WALLY’S FRYDADDY FRIDAY FUNNY

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNY

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COME TO ME

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

A pale glimmer of mauve glistens over the city as the sun descends into night,

Leaving a path of darkened shadows and sparkling diamonds in its wake,

Reflections cover a cobblestone street, mirroring the lamplight from inside,

Some shops remain open, while others have ended another day.

 

Luminosity radiates from the corner church, inviting those in need  to enter.

“Come to me,” is the inviting chant “I will carry your burdens for you.”

Simple words yet full of promise and hope,

“Come to me and I will give you rest.”

Peace is offered freely there.

You are under no obligation.

Don’t resist,

Open the door,

Enter,

Step inside and receive the gift of a brand new day.

Your cares may still remain, but something new has been added unto you,

The true Light of the World will change everything.

Come!

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MY WRITING JOURNEY

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I have set my novel on the shelf for the past three weeks.  I felt it a good idea to step away from it for a while and return to it with fresh eyes.  During that hiatus, I’ve had thoughts about my characters and how they’ll be received.  Will people think I’m writing about them personally?  Will the experiences they go through remind them of something that played out in their own lives?  Will I offend someone with the words written?

I think a writer has a responsibility to think about things like that.  We need to be sure of our facts.  We must be inclusive of the history and timeline of the story.  We must create characters that have human tendencies and passions to make them seem real.  Just as an actor must learn as much about his character before getting on stage, an author must be willing to create living, breathing human beings to be captured in the written word.

We live in a world of political correctness.  Not everyone believes the same as we do.  We all have different goals and are driven by different things, yet we worry how someone will react to what we say, do or write about.  I also believe that writing is just a reflection of life, yet it must be displayed in a way to hold the reader’s interest and leave him longing to read more. This is probably what separates the good writers from the average and excellent authors.

Tomorrow I will take another look at my work.  Who knows where it will take me this time?

 

 

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BESOTTED

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“I may not here omit those two main plagues and common dotages of human kind, wine and women, which have infatuated and besotted myriads of people; they go commonly together.”

June is the month for romance and love. Most weddings take place at this time of year, because spring has broken forth and a young man’s fancy has turned to thoughts of – well you know.  Women get a little weird at this time of year as well.  There’s something about new life, fresh air and sunshine, Vitamin D, hormones and spring that makes our hearts soar.

In my search for a new word today, I came upon this one – besotted.  Since spring has already sprung, even here in the tundra, the word came at me with an instant glaring. To be besotted, one is literally intoxicated.  To equate love with drunkenness seems a bit bizarre, but when you think about it, falling in love often clouds the mind, just as adult beverages do.

Some synonyms for the word are – plastered, hammered, inebriated, wasted and impaired.  Anyone who has imbibed over their limit knows what that feels like.  You are out of control.  You often lose track of common sense.  You do things you wouldn’t otherwise do.  Your mind turns to mush.

Is this what happens when you fall in love?  We don’t like the idea of being out of control.  In fact, most of us feel we must be in control of our lives. We want to follow God’s commandments and be obedient to his will, yet we still feel the need to take an active part in our future and our every day living.  Still, as much planning and goal setting we do, there will be obstacles within those plans that side track us and lead us away from what God intended for us in the first place.

True love is much more than a romantic feeling or a word or phrase which sends our hearts reeling.  True love requires giving up, giving in and giving.  These are things we have a tendency to hang onto rather than throw out there.  We like the feeling of power.  We feel comfortable when we know what the future holds.  We like our ducks to be in a row and our goals to be met.  When love steps in, it changes the order we’ve established within our own lives.  Now we are responsible for another person. We must put them first.  We must do this without hesitation.

Well, that sounds almost as archaic as the word I’ve chosen today.  In our world today, we’re told we deserve all the gusto we can gather.  We’re entitled to things that are outside of our means.  We’re worth it.  We are numero uno.  This is a feeling that tends to dig deeply into our core.  We like the idea of being in control and worthy of the best life has to offer.

The truth is, we don’t deserve any special treatment.  We’re all sinful and fall short of God’s requirements.  When we think of love, words like sacrifice, commitment, caring, compassion, selflessness should be at the forefront.  These are words which describe how God loves us – words which we can imitate in our relationships with those we care about and love.

Today immerse yourself in love.  Not the romantic kind, but the unselfish love that God wants us to show one another.  When we put others first, we’re opening doors to a passion unknown.  We will be besotted –  filled to the brim with love unending.

 

 

 

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WHAT LAYS BEYOND

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

What started as a single seed reclining in the earth,

Is now a giant masterpiece with monetary worth,

The time it took to grow this tree encompassed many years,

It suffered many bruises and witnessed many tears,

Some of its limbs were withered, while others brandished life,

Its trunk was strong as iron, yet endured all kinds of strife,

As winds defiled and bent its frame, it seemed that he was lost,

Its roots exposed, its spine now bent from cold and bitter frost,

Still it survived and grew some more and pierced right through the clouds,

Its life went on and does today, evading death’s dark shrouds,

We like that tree continue through life’s discouraging path,

We place our hope in worldly things and we receive God’s wrath,

But when we put our hope in Him our life will never end,

And it will be much greater than our minds can comprehend,

The growth that we experience throughout our earthly days,

Will never reach comparison to what His love purveys,

We lift our eyes to heaven and know what waits beyond,

To see the face of Jesus and know He will respond.

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WORD FOR TODAY

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Nuptials is kind of an old fashioned word that isn’t used much anymore.  Like marriage itself, it sometimes appears out of date.  Today we rarely hear the word used except pertaining to a pre-nuptial agreement.  Apparently the original agreement to love, honor and serve wasn’t enough.  Now there must be a precursor to the wedding vows – which includes what will happen to the joint assets once the marriage falls apart.  Talk about planned obsolescence.

The term nuptials originated from the Latin word, nuptialis, which means wedding.  Today the word seems almost archaic, but we still hear phrases like, “still glowing in nuptial bliss,” or the nuptials will take place at the Lutheran church.

So many things regarding marriage and weddings has changed over time.  In the early years of the twentieth century, many men and women were getting married younger. They didn’t have long courtships.  Men were going off to war and wanted to solidify the relationship before they left.  Many of them didn’t return, leaving young widows behind.  Weddings were often planned by parents of the bride and groom. Today, they take a back seat until the bills come in.  Many couples try each other out first to make sure the relationship is going to work out.  There are those today who are so busy they must resort to finding a mate on line.

I guess when you think about it, times don’t really change that much.  In the old days wedding receptions were held in decorated, cleaned up barns – something that seems to be making a comeback.  Maybe there’s a need for nostalgia once more.  As to finding a mate, men would sometimes send for a mail order bride to wed without meeting her before the big day.  Often couple were betrothed (another good word) before they were old enough to walk.  Parents arranged marriages for those they felt were suitable.

There are some things that should be said about marriage in any time period:

  • Keep God at the center of your relationship.  He is the cord that binds the two of you.  He will be with you through all the ups and downs. He will lift you when you grow weary and carry you when you can no longer walk.  He is the perfect partner in every nuptial.
  • It is a serious commitment.  Sometimes there is little thought that goes into what it takes to have a solid marriage – one that will last a lifetime – one that will survive the tests of time and the joys and tragedies of living.
  • It’s hard work. Don’t kid yourself.  Every relationship requires work, especially if you’re going to spending so much time together.
  • There will be problems.  There will be times you want to throw in the towel.  There are moments of frustration and disappointment, yes, but there are also moments of joy, elation, hope, dreams, goals to meet together, sharing your love with each other and bringing new life into the world.
  • Compromise is necessary.  There will be times when you believe you are in the right, but in order to keep peace you will acquiesce to keep it.  This doesn’t mean you will be stepped on or hurt in the process.
  • Put the other person first. We often hear about Christ being the bridegroom of the church and how willing he is to sacrifice for her even to the point of death.  We, as the bride or church, must have that same unconditional love for our spouse.  It won’t always be easy, but so worth it.

Mark 10:8-9 “and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

 

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WORD FOR TODAY

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People often ask me how I come up with things to write about each day.  For the most part, there is no rhyme nor reason to it.  I write things about Christianity, aging, living in troubled times, going through difficulties and sometimes I just pick a Bible passage or thought from a sermon I recently heard and go with it.  Today I’ve chosen to write about the word, “imbroglio.”

It’s not a word I often use.  In fact I can’t remember ever using it, but it kind of rolls off the tongue.  For some reason this word popped into my head this morning, so I decided to look it up.  Some of its synonyms include – entanglement, altercation, a complicated situation. The word has a combination of origins from the Italian word, imbrogliare, which means to entangle and the Middle French word, embrouiller, which means to embroil.  It actually conjures up ideas of the tangled web of deception and lies we weave when we’re led to believe a certain way.

Now that I know the meaning and the etymology of the word I can use it in a sentence.  “The state of division in our nation has caused nothing less than a bitter imbroglio.”

I don’t usually like to rant.  I’m not an argumentative type. I actually gave up ranting for Lent, but sometimes I have strong opinions about politics and the cacophony of confusing noise that runs rampant in Washington.  I try to keep my opinions to myself, but some things simply must be said.

What I’ve seen since the last election is a party that simply won’t give up on destroying a sitting president with a litany of lies, scandal, investigations and fake news.  It seems as though they have become nothing but sore loser.  I’ve seen what this division in opinion has done to those who have been friends for years.  They’re trashing their friends for disagreeing with them.  I’ve seen families split for the same reason.  I’ve also seen things occurring within the congress that are making us look like fools in the eyes of the world.

Yesterday, as we do every Sunday, we prayed for our governing officials.  This is something we’re directed to do by God.  He is the final judge – the original law maker – the only One we can rely on to bring order out of chaos.  As I prayed, I was reminded of all our presidents from the beginning of our founding.  Each one was flawed in some way.  Each one stood up to criticism and name calling.  Each one entered the office promising to protect and defend our nation and the Constitution.

We may not have agreed with them.  We may think they are corrupt or in it for themselves.  We might love the man or hate him.  Yet the president is still the voice of the people who elected him. Our current president is certainly not above reproach, but he has done more in a very short time to do his job the way he promised to do it.  He is doing his best to fulfill those promises in spite of daily attacks on him.

As you pray today, for your own needs and the requests of others, remember to keep our elected officials in your prayers too – particularly our president and his family.  God has slowly been written out of our daily lives by the powers that be.  It’s time to bring Him back into the equation.

Dear, God, King of Creation, we entreat you to watch over our country.  Keep our leaders in the palm of your hand and guide them in the way you would have them go.  Help us to heal the wounds that divide us.  Nothing as insignificant as a difference of opinion should cut us in half.  I believe that you still live in the hearts of many who inhabit our country.  Restore our zeal for you.  May our patriotism be rekindled and may we once again put you first.  Amen!

 

 

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SUNDAY THOUGHT

“A man can no more diminish God’s glory by refusing to worship Him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word ‘darkness’ on the walls of his cell.”

C.S, Lewis

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AM I LOSING IT?

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Have you ever felt like you’re completely losing it?  I know part of this has to do with the aging process, but I can recall days in my own childhood when I thought I was going a little crazy.  There were those days of turning from a child into a woman, when hormones were raging to heights they had never gone before.  There were the years of learning and wondering if I ever would get it.  The years as a young wife, adjusting to the idiosyncrasies of her young husband who left his laundry on the floor and rolled up the toothpaste tube, not to mention leaving the toilet seat up after using it.

Then came the children. Each one with their own set of needs, demands, goals and dreams.  Each one would call on every ounce of energy, patience, nurturing and love you could muster.  As they grew, more and more demands were made on your brain, your emotions, your desire to do what was necessary to be a good parent. Even then, you create wonderful memories amidst the worry.

As time wears on we tuck those experiences away in our memory bank for future reference.  The things we learn through experience, through suffering and hard times, through successes and failures can all be part of growing up and growing closer to heaven.

When the children leave the nest, you  reignite your relationship with your spouse.  You make new memories by traveling or taking up a hobby.  All those old memories cease to be for the moment.  Your brain has reached capacity and in some cases it’s ready to crash.  Still you press on to fill it further with more and more information, more joy, more satisfaction.

Retirement years in this day and age are usually met with financial needs, physical concerns, eating right and getting enough exercise.  You realize you need to continue working or you might starve, but you know God will provide.  He always does.

When Alzheimers or Dementia occurs, you are no longer the same person.  Most of your latest memories have faded from your brain.  Eventually you don’t recognize those you love the most.  That is the point where you dig deeply to find just one memory and you can only recall the earliest ones.  I believe this is like a life preserver for those who suffer with these maladies.  God always provides hope for those who feel all is lost.  In those old memories, you still have something to live for.  You can recall some of the highlights of your life.  It’s like a soft pillow that cushions some of the pain of losing it.

No matter where God leads us in life – no matter how difficult times may seem – no matter how we wonder if it will serve any purpose – God has designed every life to fill an important part in the design of His magnificent plans for us.  We may at times feel like we’re losing it, but in the end we will always win!

“Even to your old age I am he and to gray hairs I will carry you.
I have made, and I will bear; I will carry and will save.”

Isaiah 46:4

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNY

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WALLY’S FRYDADDY FRIDAY FUNNY

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Or a small, country, Lutheran church.

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BACK IN THE GROOVE

You have all probably seen Paul’s paintings on my blog.  Occasionally I’ve posted some of his carving work.  After he was diagnosed with cancer (now in remission) and endured a small stroke, he put the chisel and hammer aside for a while.  Yesterday, he began to work on a huge chunk of wood which we couldn’t let go of when we downsized a few years ago.

We moved a lot of wood along with us .  There was so much, I wondered if he would ever be able to carve through all of it.  It was such a blessing to see him in our backyard, doing this again.  If he does manage to create art with all the wood he’s accumulated, he should live to be about 950 years.  I guess he’d be in good company, since Noah died at that age and  was quite a wood worker himself.

So Paul got back in the groove yesterday and so did I.  After planting some more flowers and giving the house and myself a good clean up, I did the same.  Last night began rehearsals for the sequel to the play I performed in last October.  I am the same character – a fussy old lady who manages all the social events at the church.  This time she’s the wedding coordinator.

Both of us got our share of exercise and brain stimulation – more than we’ve had in quite a while.  Its good to get back into the groove.  Each of us has our own ways of doing that.  I hope the Lord will continue to bless us with good health so we can push forward.  All things we do while we inhabit the earth should be to His glory.  He also wants us to make the most of the time we have.  Paul is now 77 and I will join him next month.  We don’t know when we’ll take our final breath, but we are confident that with God, all things are possible – even in doing the things we most enjoy in these final years.

Today Paul is a little sore from using muscles that hadn’t been.  I was glad to get through almost three hours of rehearsal without collapsing – which I actually must do in this play.  Still he just left for the plein air class he teaches and I’m sitting here writing my blog. We press on for the prize.

“ I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”  Phillippians 3:14

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HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THIS?

put-a-pillow-on-your-fridge-day-1Starting somewhere in Europe and migrating to the U.S. in the early 1900s, this ridiculous tradition is supposed to bring good luck to your house.  I’ve often placed pictures on my fridge along with lots of magnets containing contact info I may need.  I usually place things that don’t fit in the cupboard or pantry on top of the fridge, but never a pillow.  Do you suppose that’s why I haven’t had an abundance of good luck lately?

Isn’t it funny how these crazy days surface?  You can find a strange holiday for every day of the year.  I don’t put much stock in this one.  I prefer to place my pillow under my head when I sleep.  Can you imagine the looks you’d get if you had one on your fridge.  First of all, would anyone notice?  I know I would, but I wouldn’t dare say anything.  Maybe, “nice pillow, up there on your fridge!”  Maybe trying to ignore it, but my eyes would always return to the top of that kitchen appliance.  I suppose, because it’s a warm place, a cat might enjoy snuggling up on it.  They usually like to snooze in unusual places.

It certainly would be a conversation starter.  I can hear it now.  “We used to put a pillow on our fridge too, until we discovered that the warmth from it caused the ice cream to melt.” or “I’ll bet that’s a convenient place for someone to sleep when you have too many house guests and not enough beds.”

Who would think to make it a good luck charm?  Must have been a leprechaun or a witch, or a pillow salesman.   I never put much stock in four leaf clovers, horseshoes, rabbits’ feet or other superstitions.  I still avoid walking under a ladder however.  You never know when something might fall on you.  With my luck, it usually does.

So as we observe another crazy holiday remember this – when all the world is crumbling around you – when your luck seems to have run out – when you’re willing to do anything for a run of good luck – put a pillow on top of your fridge.  Or pray!

 

 

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