I CAN SEE . . .

Posted on May 23, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

About a year ago, I had cataract surgery. I was amazed at the clarity of my sight almost immediately. Prior to that I was struggling with my vision and failed my annual vision test. I never had to resort to bifocals, but if I had, I would certainly have to thank Ben Franklin. On this day in history, 1785 Ben sent a letter revealing his design for bifocal lenses, which would improve both near and far distance. He was well known for his part in the formation of the constitution of the United States. He was a statesman and traveled to various foreign countries as an ambassador of our country. He was also an inventor. This time in history was one of invention. He was best known for his invention of the lightening rod but was responsible for many more revolutionary ideas.

When our vision is impaired or lost, we are put into a very vulnerable position. Up until a year ago, my sight was one of the few senses I had left. I can’t imagine what it would be like not to see my garden coming to life this spring – or gazing into the eyes of a newborn child – or being able to see my husband’s face every day, but our senses do wear out eventually and we must rely on ways to fix them and those who know how to do so.

When Jesus walked the earth in human form, He displayed his Godliness by healing those with various ailments. The blind would have their sight restored with a touch or a word. How wonderful to see for the first time or to be healed from blindness. We can still receive healing from God through our prayers and petitions. Science has brought about many changes in what can be accomplished for the benefit of the human body. This is initially brought about by God instilling knowledge into man’s brain and giving them the talent to find answers when we need His vision.

We thank God for all our faculties. When we lose even one of our senses, we find ourselves at a great loss. Our prayers will lead to answers, to inventions, to scientific discovery and to the power of God’s almighty healing. We are truly blessed with amazing grace. In fact, John Newton wrote a hymn in 1769 (only sixteen years before Franklin invented bifocals,) which refers to this wonderful gift from God.

Amazing grace, how sweet the sound,
that saved a wretch like me!
I once was lost, but now am found,
was blind, but now I see.

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WAGONS HO!

Posted on May 22, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

“Our long journey thus began in sunshine and song, in anecdote and laughter; but these all vanished before we reached its termination…. A trip to Oregon with ox teams was at that time a new experiment, and was exceedingly severe upon the temper and endurance of people.  It was one of the most conclusive tests of character, and the very best school in which to study human nature.” A quote from “Recollections and Opinions of An Old Pioneer” by Peter H. Burnett

On this day, May 22, 1843, 120 covered wagons, 1000 men, women and children and a herd of 5000 oxen and cattle set out on a journey that would test the determination, patience and grit of the pioneers who left Elm Grove, MO with minds set on starting a new life in Oregon. They were the largest emigration of people to take on this adventure at this time. There was an assortment of people from all walks of life – the farmers, the merchants, the clergy, the women and men who were ready to start new lives in an unknown land. There were fur traders, hunters, those who would use this journey to line their own pockets at the expense of others. Most were trying to make a new life for themselves and future generations.

The Oregon Trail is still visible in some areas of the country. Imagine the sea of white, covered wagons filled with a lifetime of belongings. Put yourself into the minds of those early pioneers as they left the security of a past life and journeyed into uncharted territory. When you think about it, this still continues today as people from foreign lands come to this country in search of the American Dream.

America is truly a melting pot – a place where borders are guarded, but still open. It seems that people still think of this as a perfect world. Those early pioneers were no different. They come from foreign lands originally. They were willing to work, sweat and suffer pain and loss to make a better existence for themselves and their families. The journey wasn’t easy. There were native American tribes, protecting their own lands. There were difficult passages to endure as they dragged through mountain passes, hoisted cattle down treacherous cliffs and endured the perils of rushing waters and wild animals.

Today, those lands are filled with cities of giant skyscrapers in place of beautiful forests. The roads that were cut through the mountains are easy to drive expensive cars through. Progress has changed the landscape, but there are still dreams to be fulfilled and new adventures ahead of us. The wagon train certainly met other problems along the way. Not only were tempers on edge but imagine the depression and feelings of hopelessness they dealt with as they ventured on.

We all have a journey to take in this life. How we muddle through and go with the flow has a lot to do with what we believe in. God has promised to lead us through our lives – not without problems or suffering – but always with His presence at the ready. Today, thank Him for your life with all its faults and worries. Thank Him, because He will get you to your final goal in paradise.

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MAY 21, 2011 – THE END OF THE WORLD

Posted on May 21, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

Way back, only 13 years ago on this day, a man named Harold Camping – a California preacher = proclaimed that the beginning of the end of the world would occur. As with this subject, it became the center of attention to many. Most of us have read headlines like this in our lifetime. The end of life as we know it is a common concern for those of us who inhabit the world today. I wonder why we’re so intrigued with the subject. For the most part, most of humanity is happy with life. The thought of our planet disintegrating or blowing up is not something we look forward to, but as we get older and see what’s happened to the earth in just one lifetime, it makes us wonder what God is waiting for.

There are many references to the end of the world in the Bible. Only God, the Father knows when this will occur. He alone has established the day, the hour and the minute. So how does a person prepare for this. Back in the old days, when I was in elementary school, we had weekly drills on how to react if there was a dangerous situation or a war broke out. We were told to get under our desks and cover our heads. I’m not sure how that would help if there actually was such an occurrence, but we blindly went ahead and followed directions anyway.

The Bible talks about the end of the world in the book of Revelations in terrifying terms. Fire will be the cause of the destruction. It will come from the heavens and rain down on every inch of the planet. There are other references which describe the end as a thief coming in the night. We don’t know when it will happen. No one knows except God. We do know that we should be prepared at all times, because it will happen when we are least expecting it. The best way to prepare is not to hide under a desk with our heads covered. We should be immersed in God’s promises to us through His inspired Word, the Bible. What lies beyond the grave? What will happen to those who don’t believe in God. Knowing that God has prepared a new world for us in which there will be no more tears, sadness or worry, may seem hard to believe when we see all the corruption in our world.

There will always be those who think they have the actual time and date of the end of the world. God is in control of all things that happen in our lives, including the ending of the place we dwell. Trust in His wisdom to fulfill the promise in His timing. He wants all people to be with Him in heaven. It’s going to take a while for that to happen. Some will never experience it. Some of us can’t wait for it. Some of us will try to save the planet in various ways, but only God can control truly fix it.

If we think of each day as our last, we might have the right motivation. God has given us each moment to place our trust in Him and His plans for us. He gives us a free will to make decisions, but He ultimately knows the plans He has already ordained.

“And there will be signs in sun and moon and stars, and on the earth distress of nations in perplexity because of the roaring of the sea and the waves, people fainting with fear and with foreboding of what is coming on the world. For the powers of the heavens will be shaken.” Luke 21:25-26

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MAY 20th – FIRST LEVIS PATENTED

Posted on May 20, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

I borrowed the image from another blogger. The evolution of blue jeans during the days of the Gold Rush in California, to the pants on the ground of those who wear them today would probably cause quite a stir to the inventor of the original Levis. Blue jeans served a purpose in the old days. Men needed durable, long-lasting pants to get them through the long, difficult labors of the time – particularly the work they did in the gold mines of California. Today they are a fashion statement. The waistline is now situated below the waist. They no longer are considered work pants. Levi Strauss was born in Germany to a Jewish family. At the time of the Gold Rush there was a need for sturdy clothing that could withstand the daily drudgery. Strauss developed the copper-riveted jeans and patented them on May 20th, 1873. They’ve been around for a long time and have endured changes during that time. Levi Strauss also was a benefactor who shared his wealth with many others.

As I think about long-lasting clothing, it makes me think of Gods provision. When we pray for our daily bread, we’re also asking God to provide for all our daily needs. When Moses led the Israelites across unfamiliar territory, He made sure that their clothes never wore out. Can you imagine a pair of blue jeans lasting for 40 years? They might stand up by themselves by that time. God not only provided food and drink for these nomads, but the clothes on their backs remained there for the entire trip. Their shoes never wore out either. God provided a light to guide their way and nourishment for their bodies as well. He took care of every detail of their lives.

He does the same for us each day. It has been our own personal experience, that even when we don’t know if we will have enough to make it until our next Social Security check, that God always provides. Today, as you pray, think about a time when God provided for you. I imagine you won’t have to look too far into the past to recall a time when He did so.

Dear, Father, God, you know before we do what we will need to get through each day. We can rely on you to deliver when it seems impossible. As a good Father watches out for his children, you make sure that we are taken care of with your most wonderful acts of love. Thank you for giving us another day, to share your love with others and to know that we will one day join you in heaven. As that day draws closer, thank you for the greatest gift you’ve given us. Through your Only Son, we have the forgiveness of our sins and the promise of eternal life. Thank you for all your blessings, in Jesus’ name. Amen!

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SUNDAY PONDERINGS . . .

Posted on May 19, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

It’s Sunday, May 19, 2024. As I searched through the history of this date, the only event of great note was the execution of Anne Boleyn back in 1536. The second wife of Henry VIII of England was beheaded by a French swordsman after being tried and convicted of crimes including adultery, incest and conspiracy. Even though she was found guilty, it is more likely that the reigning monarch was looking for a way out of this marriage so he could marry Jane
Seymour, (wife number three) who might produce a male heir.

Boleyn was the cause of the end of Henry’s first marriage. Because the church wouldn’t allow divorce, the King would resort to eliminating them from determining his future. He then replaced the hold of the Catholic church with his own denomination – the Church of England. This added fuel to the beginnings of the Reformation movement in England. Anne would marry Henry secretly in 1533. During that time, she produced their first child, Elizabeth I. After several miscarriages, Anne finally in 1536 gave birth to a male child who was stillborn. Little did Henry VIII know, but the daughter born during his marriage to Anne Boleyn would become the first woman to become the reigning monarch one day. With Anne out of the way, Henry was free to marry Seymour in hopes of producing a son, but he would have to eliminate that wife as well.

With that tidbit of history, let’s move on a much more important event. Today is Sunday – a day where Christians gather to worship, give praise and thanksgiving and encourage one another. I am currently attending a church in search of a new Pastor. We’ve had a vacancy pastor for almost a year. We are growing to love this shepherd with each passing Sunday. Our congregation is made up primarily of retirees. Most of us are 60 or above. We’re all experiencing the effects of aging. Many have been recently hospitalized, had parts replaced, are nearing the final years of life and long for a permanent leader. As we gather each Sunday, this small congregation has not given up yet. It has been through many times of transition. Many of the current members are ones who physically built the church and put lots of sweat, money and love into it. My prayer for today is that God will bless this little country church and make it flourish again.

Growth will take time. It will take a concerted effort on the part of the existing membership to rebuild. Everything that God ordains is for the good of His people. A small church can be a mighty force for the Lord, but we need His help to guide us. Please pray with me and for my church, that God will provide the right person to lead us on a full-time basis. We’re ready for the challenge, even if it might seem impossible. God is known for His acts of turning impossibilities into possibilities.

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SATURDAY – MAY 18TH

Posted on May 18, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

As I plan each of my posts, while I sitting at my computer in the early morning hours, I’m never really sure which direction the Lord will point me. This month I’m focusing on days of the month and trying to correlate a Biblical truth for the days that have occurred in history. It has required some digging and reflection. When I think about the instantaneous events that occur on a daily basis – floods, hurricanes, tornadoes, wars, perversions and scandals – I can’t help but think of God’s amazing control of this planet. Even though the world has been infected with sin, He is still watching out for every individual in it. His love will carry us through the trying times. His strength gives us purpose to go on. His presence is evident in all areas of our lives. He is always with us, even during difficult times.

Today, in 1980, Mt. St. Helens erupted. I recall this day vividly as it unfolded right in front of the eyes of the world on television. Like most instant news, the explosion coming from this volatile volcano not only created destruction, loss and death, but the power of God was on display for all to see. His control over this planet, the universe and all creation may seem undeserved to some. God uses these disasters for a purpose, even though we don’t see it immediately.

Today, we also celebrate US Armed Forces Day on May 18th – a day to honor our military – Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, Coast Guard, National Guard and Reserve Units. This date was set aside by Harry Truman in 1949. The men and women who serve our country often go unappreciated. Take time today to thank them for their service.

Today is also Saturday – a day to relax or to dig into some project that has been nagging at you for a while. We all have at least one or two of those things facing us. For most, it’s a day away from the daily grind of work, so we put that project on hold and take advantage of a day of rest and relaxation.

Whatever the day may be, we have the confidence that God is in control. He can calm all the storms of life with just a whisper. He can restore life with just a word. He provides for all our needs when we come to Him in prayer. He has a plan designed for everyone who inhabits the earth. It is perfect – without flaw – divine. Depend on Him alone to get you through the perils of life and His promise to spend eternity with you.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
    and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
    and he will make straight your paths.

Proverbs 3:5-6 ESV

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SITTING AROUND A CAMPFIRE . . .

Posted on May 17, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

"I’d rather be in the mountains thinking of God, than in church thinking about the mountains." John Muir.

 “A grove of giant redwood or sequoias should be kept just as we keep a great and beautiful cathedral.” Theodore Roosevelt

On this day, May 17, 1903, the “cowboy president,” Teddy Roosevelt and naturalist, John Muir, set out for a camping trip in the Yosemite Valley. These two men had strong ties to the conservation of beautiful, natural areas within this country of ours. Because of their time together, it became apparent that the President and Muir could make a difference in a special way for all Americans. Can you imagine them sitting at a campfire, discussing the beauty of the Yosemite? The sky must have held billions of stars. The crackling of the fire wafted up to meet them. The slight rustle of some animal may have startled them for a moment, but just sitting there in the peace and quiet of God’s creation had to be blissful.

Roosevelt was a self-made man. He struggled with health issues as a young lad but overcame them with vigorous physical ambition. He loved the outdoors. He was captivated by the beauty of nature and the magnificence of the mountains. John Muir also loved nature. He lived his life within it. He studied the trees, the plants, the winds and storms. He would sit for hours in a tree, surveying the beauty around him. Like Roosevelt, he dared to beat the odds by keeping copious amounts of notes and observations about these natural places.

The two men would go on to establish what some have called, “America’s Best Idea.” The National Parks would evolve from that short trip the two men took on this day in 1903. I can’t help wondering what it must’ve been like for the early settlers as they pushed their way through magnificent slopes – following only the trail of the animals who originally paced it.  Our nation was built by human sweat, determination, courage and diligence and the grace of our Creator.  All of that paid off as National Parks were established to preserve these God given treasures.

We often struggle through each day, in hopes of finding success, contentment, purpose and usefulness.  As we approach every new stage of development, there are new adventures awaiting, new roads to carve, new mountains to climb. there are also obstacles to overcome, bumps in the road and disappointments. We are the ones who decide whether we follow our own direction or allow God to lead us. He speaks to us through HIs holy words in the Bible.  He gives us peace of mind, when we make correct decisions.  He supports us when things fall apart. God didn’t create us with wings, but with Him, we have the ability to soar.

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SPLENDOR

Posted on May 16, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

Today is May 16th. Of course there are many historical events I could write about. History is a journal of who we are as human beings. Many would have us eliminate all the bad things that have occurred over time. Still, history can serve us well if we allow it to. Learning from our mistakes is often one of the best teachers out there. In honor of the special celebration of “National Love a Tree Day,” I am submitting this piece of art done by my husband, Paul. These trees were painted on the shoreline of the Mississippi River several years ago. As you can see, they continue to flourish even though their roots are exposed. We can be like those trees, with our emotions on display, but still muddling through each day, with hope for God’s protection, love and honor. The poetry is from me and describes the majesty of trees. We often take little road trips to forest areas that aren’t far from civilization. There are an abundance of trees in bloom right now. They fulfill God’s promise of provision. Not only do they provide shade on a hot summer day, but they reach to the sky in praise of the One who gives it. Several shades of green are now popping. Fruit trees serve as a colorful backdrop, with their flowers of crimson, purple, pink and white. Today, we don’t place the honor on the tree itself, but the One who created them for our pleasure, our benefit and as a reminder to always look up to God and praise Him for His wondrous creation.

ORIGINAL ART & POETRY BY PAUL T. & KATHY BOECHER©

Pushing through the smallest spaces, reaching to the sky above,

Drenched in sunshine and in splendor, nurtured by God’s own pure love,

As blood flows through each dark vein, bringing life within and out,

Tender leaves declare His name, of that truth there is no doubt,

Suddenly a bud appears, opens up so glorious,

In that flower God proclaims, He bestows a life victorious,

Reaching heights of summer skies, sending branches to God’s eyes,

Longing for the days ahead, waiting for that gracious prize,

He will raise you out of death, take you home for final rest,

Like the trees you will go on, and He’ll gift you with the best.

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MAY 15 – NATIONAL FAMILY DAY

Posted on May 15, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

“In every conceivable manner, the family is link to our past, bridge to our future.”
— Alex Haley

Today has been designated as National Family Day. The picture above is my wonderful family. We are an amazing tribe. The originals are in the front row. Isn’t it amazing how a family grows over time? What started as two individuals who met when they were 14 years old and married several years later. In time, three children were born and from them came three new relationships. The family grew with three amazing grandchildren being added to the clan. Each one of these individuals is a combination of talents. As time flies by, I can see more and more of those talents emerging. My own three have succeeded in their fields of endeavor. They’ve stayed true to God’s Word. They’ve gone through some of the same struggles we did. They’ve endured both sides of the coin, when it comes to rags and riches. Through all these experiences, they’ve grown into responsible adults with lives that reflect their faith.

There are a million stories to recollect from times past. We sometimes retell them and laugh our heads off as those stories expand and take on a life of their own. We continue to rely on each other even now as the tables are turned and they have taken over the parenting roles that we once had. A life is a collection of relationships. Our family extends beyond those with the same blood. There are those close friends that remain for years and years and there are those you may have recently met who have become like an old shoe – comfortable and well worn. Our family then expands to included hundreds of those who come into our lives in one way or another.

Today is a great day to reflect on family. They aren’t perfect, but they are from the same genetic pool. Like God’s family, we depend on each other – we respect each other – we have grown together – we love one another to the moon and back – we are willing to do whatever it takes to help each other. Hug your children, your spouse, your friends, your acquaintances, those you work with and those who lift you up in the same way you do them. We are all a part of God’s family, and He was willing to lay down His life for us. Even when your family isn’t present, He always is. He will never leave your side. Thank you, Heavenly Father, for families.

“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.” Psalm 127:3-5 ESV

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EXPLORING NEW HORIZONS

Posted on May 14, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

On May 14, 1804, the third president of the United States, Thomas Jefferson, commissioned Meriwether Lewis and William Clark to lead an expedition from St. Louis, Missouri to the west coast of our country. Such an adventure has been captured in newspapers, books, and movies throughout the years. Documentary films have been offered to show the trials they endured along the way and how they overcame them.

The story of how the Lewis and Clark Expedition dealt with the perils that lay in front of them is not only interesting, but sometimes unbelievable. They encountered tribes of Native Americans – some friendly, others hostile. They had to rely on the land itself to provide food and shelter. They had no idea what they would meet as they traveled over unfamiliar and uncharted lands.

As we travel this broken world we live in, God gives us advice on how to navigate the troubling times. He shows us how to prepare, how to put our plans into action and how to finally reach our ultimate goal. When we wonder how we’ll meet another day – when the road is unfamiliar or dangerous – when the going gets more than tough – those are the times we rely on our Creator the most. When Moses led the children of Israel to the promised land, he faced much the same thing that Lewis and Clark would encounter. (Of course that journey lasted quite a bit longer,) They were led by God through His constant presence as they traveled. They became impatient and often gave up. They trusted in their own plans rather than God’s. They grumbled and complained. They strayed from God’s promises. They made an idol to take God’s place. Even in their groaning and groveling, they were protected and given provision by God Himself.

We have the luxury of that same protection. So, when it seems the road is impossible, or when we think we can’t take another step, that is the time we need our Heavenly Father the most. Turn to Him in the day of trouble. Hold fast to His commands. Follow His lead. Don’t be afraid. Persevere, because He will never leave your side. His ultimate goal for us is heaven.

When the Lewis and Clark Expedition ended, when the promised land was in view, when we make it through the trials of this life, we have the hope of eternity with our loving, protecting, strong and mighty God. Give thanks for His endurance today.

Romans 12:12 ESV “Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.”

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MAY 13, 2024 – NATIONAL FROG JUMPING DAY

Posted on May 13, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

“If it’s your job to eat a frog, it’s best to do it first thing in the morning. And If it’s your job to eat two frogs, it’s best to eat the biggest one first.” Mark Twain

So, today is National Frog Jumping Day. The first thing to jump into my mind was Mark Twain’s funny story about the Jumping Frog Contest at Calaveras County. As with most of Twain’s stories, we are given a taste of life on the Mississippi River and frogs definitely are in abundance there. The story tells of a contest between frogs to see which one could jump farthest. In order to win the race, buckshot was fed to the frog that usually won, so that he would be weighed down enough to keep him from winning on that day. It turned into a victory for a different frog that year.

It got me to thinking about how we often get weighed down with unnecessary weight from time to time. That weight comes in the form of extra stress that we hadn’t counted on or possibly a tragedy or loss we didn’t expect. I wonder how that poor frog of Calaveras County fared after that contest. Most of our heavy problems seem insurmountable at times. Where do we turn when the burden becomes so overwhelming that it interferes with our daily performance?

In Mark Twain’s quote about eating the biggest frog first, we get some good advice about dealing with stress. Tackle the big problems first. Then the smaller ones will seem even smaller. This may be good advice if you’re eating a frog, but often in life, we tend to flounder when it comes to the big stuff. God invites us to come to Him with that heavy weight, along with the little things that cause us to worry or stress out. Sometimes that seems so futile when you’re in a tough situation. It requires us to be patient – to have complete faith and trust in the outcome – especially to let go. Giving our problems over to God could seem to be a copout but think about it. You have the Creator of the Universe directing the events of your life. His power, wisdom and presence are enough to provide all the right answers to any situation – good or bad.

It’s Monday. It’s a do-over day. It’s time to turn your life over to the only One you can trust. He alone will lift the heavy load. He will provide the answers you need. He will be at your side through every struggle you face this week. Even if you’re forced to eat a frog.

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PASSING DOWN MOTHERHOOD

Posted on May 12, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

I come from a long line of dedicated mothers. Those ancestors have passed their devotion to the craft on to their daughters and so on and so on. Being a mom is probably the most wonderful experience a woman can have. At the same time, the occupation is filled with hard work, putting up with dirty diapers, scrapes and scratches, visits to the ER, the bringing home of various critters and, most importantly, not knowing what to do. The last one is so typical for all moms. I think not knowing what to do applies especially to these women who make sacrifices every day. Those who put up with complaints about cleaning their rooms – those who don’t fully appreciate what you’re doing to meet their needs before your own – those who make mistakes and fall down along the way. A mother is the first face your child will probably see when it breaks into the world. They will fall in love with you almost immediately. Most moms feel that way.

We don’t always tell you how much we love you. We try to show rather than tell. We pray a lot for you. We also pray that God will guide us through this process. There are times when we feel unappreciated, overworked, down in the dumps and downright failures at the job. Our minds quickly change when we’re bestowed with a bouquet of wilted dandelions, or a watercolor painting of the same wilted flowers. Our hearts jump for joy at your successes. We cry with you when you don’t get that part in the play or miss getting on the team. Our tears are often blended with yours.

We see the result of our handiwork, not while we’re doing it, but much later on, when you’ve grown up and have your own life away from ours. We see success when you become an adult and show love to others or when you give of yourself because you love someone else. You then become a reflection of what has been instilled in your life all along.

Being a mom is one of the greatest responsibilities ever. You honor her with your love, with what you become, how you face the truth of living in a broken world, how you place your trust in God when you just don’t know what to do. As I look back at mothers, grandmothers and forward to the next generations, I am confident that what was placed in those little hearts so long ago will go on and on and on.

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IN OUR CHILDREN’S EYES

Posted on May 11, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

Today, May 11, 2024 is designated for birth mothers. Because I am going through the calendar of May, I’m sharing this older post about parenting.

When children are young, they look to their parents as superheroes – men and women of steel – those who can make all their boo-boos better and dry their tears when they are hurting.  When they get older, the mask and cape quickly disappear, and it soon becomes apparent that parents aren’t much different than anyone else.  They have problems – they can’t do everything – they make mistakes.

When they become teens, suddenly those original super heroes have now been relegated to not having a clue or being absolutely ignorant.  It isn’t until they begin their own families or life on their own that parents once again get the honor they’re deserve.

Parenting is probably one of the most difficult occupations out there.  No one tells you that your life is going to change completely.  No one tells you that your kids will get broken bones, hurt feelings and need to protection from dangerous situations. I didn’t expect numerous trips to the ER. I wasn’t prepared for snakes, bugs, baby ducks, frogs and many other critters.  How could I know the pain I would feel when one of them was hurt in any way?

Parenting is tough. You feel guilty going to bed with a sink full of dishes. You have so much to do, but your child wants a bedtime story. You’d really love a new pair of shoes, but school starts soon and the kids need supplies. You put your plans on hold so you can visit your child’s school and share hot lunch with them, or be their ‘show and tell’ item for the day. You cry when you’re not there to say goodnight and tuck them in for the night.  When the cares of the world are hanging on you – when you feel like a complete failure – when you think you can’t go on – you press on.  You stay the course.  You fly, because you will always be their super hero, even when your cape is in shreds.

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PERFORMERS OF GREAT NOTE

Posted on May 10, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

Today is May 10th and would’ve been John Wilkes Booth’s 186th birthday. His fate was sealed when he was only 26 years old. Up until that day, he was looked upon as a fine young actor who graced the performing stage in America. This dashing young man was doomed to die at an early age. Was this what he had planned for his life? I’m certain he thought about living a long and prosperous existence, but history had other plans for him. John was an actor of note among those Americans who made the stage their backdrop.

He was born into a prominent family of successful actors and was making his own name in the family business. Unfortunately, his political views got in the way of his ability to become a character on a stage. His zeal for the south and his ideals about the Civil War became an obsession for him. He blamed President Lincoln for the state of country. His plan to assassinate the Commander in Chief was set into play. This would be Booth’s final tragic performance.

We all learned about this event when we were in elementary school. The death of Lincoln was a shock to the nation at the time. His funeral lasted for weeks as his embalmed body was displayed across the country. Booth escaped from the scene of his crime and went on the run for twelve days, before he was tracked down and found at a Virginia farm. He was shot by Sergeant Boston Corbett and died from his wounds.

The final act of his performance would shake America to the core. It was only a few days after the Civil War ended before Lincoln’s life was cut short. Booth followed him to the grave.

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MAY 9TH, ASCENSION DAY . . .

Posted on May 9, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

Today, Christians all over the world celebrate the ascension of Jesus into His heavenly realm. Forty days after His resurrection and a time leading His followers to spread the word that He had conquered death, He ascended into heaven. So, is that the end of the story? No way! It’s really just the beginning for us. We’ve been charged with the obligation of sharing the message of Jesus’ time on earth – His love for His people – His ultimate sacrifice for them – His compassion for all people – His forgiveness – His welcoming arms open for us to join Him in paradise.

Are you ready? Maybe because it was so long ago, the message has died down. Maybe the state of our world today and the has gone beyond forgiveness. Maybe we no longer realize the treasure that God bestowed on us through His Son. There are countless reasons that this day goes unnoticed. Think about it. The Son of God came to dwell among us. He gave up His throne in heaven for 33 years. He lived a life of poverty. He roamed the countryside without a real place to call home. Is this the kind of Savior the world is looking for today? There was nothing flashy about Jesus. Even so, He lived a life of a common man and experienced all the sorrows and pains that humanity allows, without sinning.

Today we place our hope in mere mortals who promise to make life better for us. We turn to things that lead us away from the very source of our strength. We rely on ourselves to make it through the difficulties of life. Our superheroes have become idols that have absolutely nothing to offer but false promises. God had a plan. He continues to live through those who believe and trust in Him. Don’t minimize the price He paid. He gave His life so we would live forever. His perfect plan for every individual is to draw them to Him and bring them home to heaven one day.

We have a wonderful message to share with others. Don’t underestimate the power of the Holy Spirit. He will give us the words. He will work through us to glorify God. He will help us to share the truth that we will one day ascend into heaven as well.

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GIVING UP OR GIVING IN?

Posted on May 8, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

So deep within the tallest pines, with darkened haze enshrouded,

A hidden place encased in webs of silver threads beclouded,

Peaceful, quiet, sanctuary, a refuge where you can hide,

A place to lick the wounds of hurt and comfortably stay inside,

Far away from life’s distractions, a cave you can call your own,

Where you can hide all your troubles and tuck them under a stone,

That perfect place does not exist unless you believe in God,

He’s promised never to leave you, no matter where you may trod,

He’s by your side through all your pain, through joy and suffering too,

He knows you need His guiding hand to lead and see you through,

You simply cannot run away, He is in the air you breathe,

Surrender to His protection, and His blessings He’ll bequeath.

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MAY 8, 1945 – A DAY OF SURRENDER

Posted on May 8, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

The skies must’ve been filled with thunderous clouds as a result of the bombing, shelling and what seemed like eternal hell. A small ray of sunshine crept through the carnage and gave the world hope – for a new tomorrow, for the end of years of war, for peace in Europe. It would be another three months before Japan followed suit and surrender as Germany did on May 8, 1945. Almost four years of war was at last coming to an end. Ravaged landscapes, horrific acts of terror and inhumanity, tears, blood and sweat would finally be released from the tyrannical reign of the Nazi regime. Prayers were answered. Hope was renewed. Life would go on and the restructuring of a smitten landscape would eventually proceed. Only a few days before, Adolf Hitler committed suicide, wiithout his maniacal control leading the German army, a complete surrender became necessary.

I was not quite four years old when this happened. I knew very little about war. A child living in the safety of America, but not realizing what was going on in the world around me. Surrender wasn’t yet a part of my vocabulary. I was in fact an only child at the time, and my parents were having difficulty bending my strong will into surrender. Surrender was another word I didn’t understand at that point. It took years of growing up to finally realize the meaning of the word. Surrender is defined as giving up – turning over unwillingly – letting go or relinquishing – submitting – to quit. Most of the time, this process is against our own will. So, what does the Bible say about surrender?

“Be still and know that I am God.
    I will be exalted among the nations,
    I will be exalted in the earth!” Psalm 46:10

Surrender is not an easy act to accomplish. Especially when our wills are so self-reliant. Giving in to God is a surrender of sorts, but it doesn’t hurt to do so. We will be lifted up when we turn things over to Him in honor, thanksgiving and prayer. His promises never fail. He will never give up on us. His love endures forever. He chose us before we even knew Him. His power and strength are what we need. When we surrender to Him, we are assured of perfection. Especially when we join the angels in heaven to praise Him forever and ever. Let every knee bow to the King of Kings, Lord of Lords, and provider of all things. Surrender!

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MAY 7TH – NATIONAL TEACHER DAY

Posted on May 7, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

Since this is teacher appreciation week, I thought I’d talk about some of the teachers who influenced my life.  When I was in kindergarten, there was the kind, elderly, Mrs. Braham.  She was one of those very ample women, much like me today, who when she went to write something on the chalk board, would proceed to erase at the same time. When she turned around, her black dress was clear evidence.  Mrs. Braham taught me about letters and numbers and opened my imagination to wonderful stories that stirred me to write my own later in life.

I remember a history teacher who was so thrilled to inform us about the Civil War, that he actually acted out each battle, as if he were a general – all done on the top of his desk.  As he emoted each detail (as all good actors know) spit would fly, and wouldn’t you know, I was in the front row.  I love history today, probably because of his dramatic interpretation.  I wish he would’ve provided a towel though.

There was the drama teacher who laid the groundwork for my eventual career.  She taught me to take chances, to not be afraid, to follow my dreams. I also learned that the mask I used in my own life, wouldn’t really hide what was inside my head.

We all have been affected by teachers who went the extra mile to help us. There were those who branded us with their knowledge and inspiration leaving us prepared for life.   They gave us wisdom and knowledge, but they also urged us to go beyond our limits – to stretch ourselves – to believe we could do things we didn’t think we could.

I thank God for the gift of good teachers.  The kind that will spend their own money on special school supplies.  The kind that gives of their own time after school to help a student who is struggling with an assignment.  The kind that stays awake nights thinking about lesson plans to stimulate and interest your child.  The kind that loves your child almost as much as you do.

Teachers are not all perfect. Just like parents, they’re dealing with outside issues. They try their best to create a great learning environment for your children, often at the expense of their own checkbook. They inspire, ignite, initiate thought and ideas, spur young minds to learn and share part of themselves each day with those same kids. The ones we remember are those who touched our lives in a special way. Thank you to all in the education arena. You are indeed amazing. God has placed you in the classroom for a reason.

James 3:1-2 ESV “Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. For we all stumble in many ways. And if anyone does not stumble in what he says, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle his whole body.”

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MEN OF HONOR . . .

Posted on May 6, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

On May 6th, 1957, John F. Kennedy was awarded the Pulitzer Prize for Biography – “Profiles in Courage.” He later went on to become the president of the United States. His literary award gave credence to the man who would one day sit in the oval office of the White House. Looking at each of the presidents in the above photo, you would expect great things from the man who leads a nation. Unfortunately, we are all human – have a sinful nature – make mistakes. We expect so much more of our leaders.

We want them to be the epitome of strength, wisdom and honor. We place them at a higher standard, because they will represent us to the world. They in fact become “our” voice as they sit in that office. Presidents are not perfect, but our expectations for the one to fill that position far exceed what we receive in the end. Our vote might be considered one of the last freedoms we possess as Americans. I’m concerned that our vote is being lost in the shuffle of politics as usual. By the time the candidates are determined, we are left with imperfect choices for that esteemed job.

We also expect the same from our teachers, our parents, our pastors, priests and church leaders. Unfortunately, everyone has been touched by some ugly secret in their past, present or future. The way our country is going and has been from the first day of its conception, leaves a lot to be desired. It’s nothing new. In King Solomon’s day, things were much like they are today. He even declared that there was nothing new under the sun. We have lost respect for those in leadership positions, yet we continue to elect the imperfect, forgetting that we are also marred by sin.

In this election year, we need to be mindful of our own identity. How do we stack up when it comes to our ultimate leader, God? Do we keep His commandments? Do we follow them to a tee? Are we living perfect lives in His sight? Are we obedient to His precepts? Are we without sin? Jesus made a good example of the woman who was about to be stoned because she was found in the sin of adultery. He told the crowd that whoever was without sin should cast the first stone. Of course everyone left, because they couldn’t admit such a truth.

Because of Jesus, we have been made perfect because of His sacrifice. Therefore, we can stand confidently before God, knowing that we have been forgiven. Look at the cost of that forgiveness and learn to appreciate what has been freely given to us. Those in authority are to be looked up to, but we must also realize that they we’re all the same when it comes to our true identity.

Would you be able to claim the perfection we require of our leaders?

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MAY FIFTH – A VERY SPECIAL DAY

Posted on May 5, 2024 by atimetoshare.me

The month of May is filled with new things. The freshness of new growth. The delight of seeing little buds appearing on trees and emerging from the ground. The promise of lots of colors to bless our gardens and resplendent ornamental trees beginning to flower. It’s also a time of celebration – coming out of a long season of white into a new month filled with amazing hues of green, red, blue and yellow.

On May 5th we remember and celebrate the Mexican holiday of Cinco de Mayo for their defeat of the French at the Battle of Pueblo in 1862. Our menu of the day may include tacos, enchiladas, Mexican beer or Margaritas. The colors of the Mexican flag will fly, and celebrations occur even if you aren’t Mexican. There were other things that happened on that day.

  • Coco Chanel introduced her modern perfume to the world – Chanel #5
  • In 1260 Kublai Kahn, the grandson of Genghis Kahn, became the leader of the Mongol Empire.
  • in 1865 the 1st US train robbery occurred at North Bend, Ohio.
  • In 1917, the first African American, Eugene Bullard, received his pilot’s license to fly for the military.
  • In 1925, John Scopes was arrested for teaching evolution.
  • In 1969, Norman Mailer received the Pulitzer Prize for his novel, “Armies of the Night.”

So, today enjoy some traditional Mexican food, think about how history has influenced everyone’s life in some way or another and read a book, but try something other than one about evolution.

HAPPY MAY 5TH

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