IT’S JUST ANOTHER HUMP DAY

Posted on October 27, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

Apparently the origin of Hump Day occurred while a group of office workers were standing around the water cooler.  Being the middle of the work week, Wednesday was tantamount to getting over the hump of said work week.  Others allude to the fact that it was associated with WWII, when allied troops were forced to fly over the Himalayan mountains on bombing runs against the Japanese at Burma.  Getting “over the hump” was often like a suicide mission in itself because the Japanese pilots would be waiting and ready for the attack.

Our work week begins usually on Monday.  When we get to mid-week we are half way to the end of the week.  We probably don’t do our best work on Monday, because we’ve had two days to rest and recharge.  Maybe we’re in the groove by Tuesday, but it almost takes until the middle of the week to work up to capacity and accomplish something. At that point most people are looking forward to the end of the week.  Instead of getting the work completely done, we start planning for the weekend – again.

Looking at the days of Creation, Wednesday would’ve been the 4th day by today’s calendar.  Up until that point God created day and night – the atmosphere, outer  space and everything above the earth – He divided the water and created land masses which contained vegetation and all things that sprang from seeds to fill the earth.  On the 4th day He made the stars, planets and all things that fill the universe, including the sun and moon which work to track time according to Gods divine plan.

He could’ve rested on that day, but there was still more to do. The rest of Creation meant making inhabitants to fill the land, air and seas.  Birds, fish and other sea creatures were made upon this day.  They did not evolve.  They were created. On the next day He made the beasts and creatures that creep across the earth.  He also created man and gave him dominion over all living things, and He made woman to be a help mate suitable for him. Everything was perfect.  There was peace – no killing – no predatory instinct.  On the seventh day God rested.

He took a breather on the seventh day, which He didn’t really need, because He’s God.  He used that day to look at what He’d accomplished in His Creation and knew that it was good. When we reach mid-week and our thoughts turn towards the weekend, it might be a good idea to look back at the work we’ve accomplished so far and see if we can acknowledge that it was good…

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DEATH HAS NO POWER OVER ME

Posted on October 26, 2021 by atimetoshare.me
POETRY & INSPIRATION FROM KATHY BOECHER

Death seems to be surrounding us lately. With the influx of new COVID cases, even those who are vaccinated are not immune to the last breath of life as we know it. My thoughts have turned to this subject of dying much more than I want them to. How do we overcome the fear of death and the emptiness that it causes within us? With all that is happening around us, it would be easy to raise our hands in despair. The world fills our minds with thoughts of gloom and doom every day. So how do we manage to make it through each day without walking around with a cloud over our head?

God has given us the hope of eternal life. Our future home is assured. There will be no mortgage payments, no worry about maintenance, no fear, no tears, just eternal peace. That isn’t pie in the sky mentality, its true. Our hope is built on Christ alone, who came and paid the price of the ransom that held us captive. Our sins have been forgiven once and for all. We can place our faith in the promise of eternity with Him once we breathe that last breath.

When death approaches our front door, it seems a dreadful thought,
But just imagine what’s in store. With Angels we’ll be brought.
The gates of heaven opened wide, the throne of God we’ll see.
Our Savior at the Father’s side, a room for you and me.

Our bonds are freed – the chains are gone. The ransom has been paid.
No hopeless tears – a brand new dawn – no more to be dismayed.
A paradise awaits us beyond this murky life.
No pain or sorrow will there be – a perfect holy life.

So set your eyes on Jesus. Don’t ever let Him go.
He is our own Redeemer. His blood for us did flow.
I love you, dear Lord, Jesus. You’re all in all to me,
and when death comes I’ll tremble not, for you have died for me.

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INTERNATIONAL ARTIST DAY

Posted on October 25, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

  • KATHY BOECHER, PERFORMER,PLAYWRIGHT & AUTHOR
  • PAUL BOECHER, FINE ARTIST, SCULPTER, REENACTOR

From the beginning of time, art has been a source of enjoyment, means of expression and part of humanity’s soul.  The painting artist may swing his brush through the air and create a masterpiece or nothing more than color on canvas, but whatever the results, it has impact.  A dancer spins flawlessly across a stage, caressing every note of music with each step.  A musician masters the use of an instrument and notes pour from the center of his heart.  An actor delivers a soliloquy and embraces the attention of his audience – both moving or inciting them  The sculptor takes a piece of wood or stone and carves life into the lifeless.  The poet weaves stories into beautiful verses, yet often they are never seen.  For a moment, an artist becomes recognized, but it isn’t usually until after his demise that his talent is monetarily realized.  Thus the term – starving artist.

In ancient days, the art scrawled on walls of caves, became a means of communication.  As time progressed, pottery was crafted for practical purposes.  Again the clock ticked away and art became more a means of expression. During the European Renaissance, art became a way to edify God.  The church was the greatest patron of the arts as they decorated their sanctuaries with amazing sculptures and frescos depicting the life of the saints, Jesus, Mary and God.

Moving on to modern times, art flowed as abstract artists set a new style in motion.  Impressionists also flourished.  In the early years of our own country, artists traveled with explorers to chronicle their discoveries – this was before photography, which is an art in its own right.

Art wears a different face down through the ages.  Plays and movies tend to follow the times and interests of the masses.  Sometimes they are an escape to a fantastical place or an unknown world.  Music can also reflect the times, yet often everything seems to repeat itself at some point.  What goes around often comes around, with a different spin to it.

As we celebrate this special day, honoring artists, I intend to hug one and he will hug me back.  Starving artists we remain, not because we like being poor, but because art is a part of who we are.

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I HAVEN’T GOT A CLUE!

Posted on October 22, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

There are days like that, when I simply don’t have a clue.  I don’t understand why the world is rotating the way it is.  I can’t begin to understand the workings of our nation’s leadership and Washington, DC is just a dot on the map.  It seems like law enforcement has been hogtied and vigilante justice is now ruling our streets.  I guess I’m getting old, because the things I used to hold in high esteem are now the low man on the totem pole and life as I knew it is completely upside down.  The ideals of Christianity are being tossed aside in favor of a live and let live attitude, which allows for tolerance of any kind of behavior. 

OK, I am old.  I never thought I’d get this old.  Many of my aunts and uncles died at an early age.  My father was only 62 when he passed.  Some lived to nearly 100 years.  I guess there’s no limit to longevity in this day of modern medicine and concentration on the physical prowess of youth.  Still, as our bodies age, I think our mind takes a back seat and just wonders what we’re still doing here.  What kind of contribution can an old lady like me make to the world?  Does anything I’ve learned over the last eight decades of living have any worth?  Can I share my wisdom and make a difference?  Will my voice still be heard or am I wasting valuable oxygen?  How can I make a difference in a world that I don’t understand?  Again, I have to answer, “I don’t have a clue.”

The only place to find a clue that makes any sense for me is in God’s Word. I am convinced in my heart and mind, that God will not forsake me.  He will always be at my side, even when I can’t make any sense of things.  His love, His kindness, His compassion, His empathy, His consistency, His peace and mercy endure forever, so I need not worry about the menial problems that each day might bring.  I do not have the ability to change the world, but He does.  

“So even to old age and gray hairs,
    O God, do not forsake me,
until I proclaim your might to another generation,
    your power to all those to come.”  Psalm 71:18 ESV

So, I ask that God would give me the ability to share His love with the next generation, so that it continues on and on and that will be my legacy.  I can’t think of a better gift to leave behind.  

 

 

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HOW DO WE SHOW COMPASSION?

Posted on October 21, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

Upon the stage of every day, the cast is set in stone.

God uses each and every one, to lead us to His throne.

He calls upon the villain and the understudy too.

To fill the roles He’s planned for us. He knows what we must do.

His direction is perfection. He doesn’t miss a cue.

He even did the final act – alone – for me and you.

I thank you, great Jehovah, for loving me so much –

For giving your compassion with such a heavenly touch.

I don’t deserve His pardon. My works don’t mean a thing,

But through His Hero, Jesus, Christ, He’s made my spirit sing.

The story has unfolded. The truth lays at our feet.

The happily ever after comes when we our Savior meet.

POETRY BY KATHY BOECHER©

Love and compassion are emotions we must work hard at.  Unlike God, we cannot see into the hearts, souls and minds of those we meet as we journey though life.  Jesus, being God as well as man, had the ability to read a person’s thoughts, know their wants and needs and act upon them with sincere compassion.  Our goal as followers of Christ is to imitate Him in our dealings, in our relationships and in reaching out to others.  God has already arranged the characters in His story – not as an all powerful puppet master, but as a loving Father cares for His children.

Each day, our prayers should include asking God to bestow pure compassion in our hearts so that we can understand where others are coming from.  We can never achieve the unconditional love that He possesses, but He will gives us a sampling of it if we ask Him.  This doesn’t mean we should be tolerant of all kinds of activity, or worry about political correctness to the extreme. Sometimes in our attempts to be helpful, we believe that we must give in, before the lines of communication are open.

God has established a rule book for us to follow.  He laid it all ot at the beginning of time.  Our obedience will never be perfect.  We continue to hold the inherited original sin of our first parents. Our compassion will always be lacking. Our love for others and our emathy as well as sympathy cannot be pure without first having the love of God imprinted on our hearts.  It is then that the balance occurs.  The true blending of love and compassion will not be perfect as long as we live, but we can and should strive to be more like our Savior every day.  We know the outcome.  The end of this story is sealed and complete.  Once we reach the other side of life, we’re assured of eternal peace – the true love and compassion of our Savior will be ours too.

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HAVE YOU EVER BEEN HOMELESS?

Posted on October 20, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

I have never been homeless, have you?  I came close a couple times.  When I was just a child, I threatened to run away a number of times, but that doesn’t really count, because I always came home.  I was fortunate.  The National Conference of State Legislatures has this to say about youth homelessness in the United States.

“Each year, an estimated 4.2 million youth and young adults experience homelessness, of which 700,000 are unaccompanied minors, meaning they are not part of a family or accompanied by a parent or guardian. On any given night, approximately 41,000 unaccompanied youth ages 13-25 experience homelessness.”

These statistics are more than staggering for a country that is supposed to provide for the needs of the poor with many social programs available for them.  It used to be that the church would look after those suffering from poverty.  Being poor is not something we plan to be.  Yet so many of our fellow Americans are sleeping on park benches, being devoured by health issues, addiction and so much more.  They’re overlooked or looked down upon by the rich and seem to be too much to handle for the church.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this whole situation lately, because I live in a communty that has a swelling number of homeless and destitute, who are doing whatever they need to in order to stay alive.  Most often those things include using and selling drugs, selling their bodies for sex and taking any \job just to get a meal. 

Most of us have nice warm beds to tumble into each night.  We don’t lack for a hot meal.  Our bellies are usually adequately filled.  There was a time in my life when I wondered if I might be one of those homeless millions, living out of dumpsters and hiding under bridges to keep the elements from killing me.  We were living the good life.  We had more than enough.  My husband had built a successful business and several employees were partaking in the benefits.  We purchased a newly built home on the advice of our accountant.  He told us it would be a wise write off for tax purposes. For about two years everything continuued to prosper and then it all fell apart.  Within only a few months, the economy fell apart.  There was no need for my husband’s business anymore.  We were forced into bankruptcy court and our  new home went into foreclosure.  For a short time there, we had no idea what we were going to do.  Visions of panhandling on the side of the road became plausible.  Being at the height of his career, my husband was now over qualified for every job he applied for.  Until the right job came along, he drove a delivery truck and I cleaned toilets.

Those jobs provided just enough income for us to get by.  Finding housing was another thing all together.  Because of our past history, buying a house was impossible and we would have to scrape just to get by if we rented.  Still we didn’t give up.  Our prayers have always been a result of our relationship with God.  He was the only One who could help us.  Sometimes we have to hit the pits before we can rise out of them.  This could’ve been the end for us, but we remained hopeful in the Lord and as usual He came through for us.  

We all need to become aware of the needs of those struggling to survive the pangs of poverty in our communities.  I’m not sure what we can do, but just reaching out to someone is probably a good first step.  Letting them know that God loves them, even though they feel unloved.  Giving them a purpose for living and helping in even the smallest ways can begin the healing.  Leading them to find employment or offering a meal.  What may seem meaningless to us, can mean everything to them.  Our Savior, Jesus had a lot to say about the poor and our obligation to help them.  He was Himself without a permanent residence during His ministry.  It all begins with us and our willingness to care for others as we would want to be cared for in like circumstances. 

 

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IF I ONLY KNEW THEN, WHAT I KNOW NOW

Posted on October 19, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

 

It’s too bad raising kids doesn’t come with a set of instructions.  Many books have been written on the subject and most think they have all the answers, but each case is different and so is every child.  There’s no” one size fits all” when it comes to being a parent.  You almost have to take each moment as it comes and simply do the best you can.

If I knew then all the things I know now, I’m sure I would’ve done a better job of parenting.  Unfortunately years of experience often come with the cost of an aging body and a lack of energy, so I’m sure this is why the female body is designed to have children when they’re younger, if for nothing else than to be able to keep up with them. Can you imagine Sarah’s first thoughts when she finally became pregnant at the age of 90?

Learning through experience can often be best.  We learn through our mistakes – take things as they come – sometimes give up and feel like total failures – blame ourselves – make more mistakes – are way too hard on ourselves – did I mention giving up?

Like anything we experience in life, placing it in God’s hands will make the road less difficult.  The Bible is filled with great information on how to love as God loves us.   Pray every day for your children.  Enjoy the ride – there is joy in the little things – even the oatmeal on the ceiling,  your spray painted dog and gum in the hair.  Trust that God is with you in the journey.  The end result will amaze you.  Not only will you wind up with a great kid, but you’ll discover you didn’t do such a bad job after all.

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LIKE SANDS THROUGH THE HOUR GLASS

Posted on October 18, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

Deja vous all over again. As I happened to be scrolling through the smart TV to find some interesting entertainment to fill my empty mind, I happened upon an old favorite of mine. It was the continuing soap opera I watched as a young mom, more than fifty years ago. It’s still on the tube! There are even some of the same characters I remember. Don’t these actors ever die? Oh yes, I remember, they do, but the return eventually as a new character or a ghost from the past. Anyway those days of raising a family, yet finding a half hour a day to tune into “Days of Our Lives,” was almost a necessary escape for me. I didn’t bother to tune in to the current version, because I was afraid they were still on the same storyline, but it did get me thinking about the sands of time and how quickly they pass.

An old hour glass collects dust on the mantle piece. Occasionally a curious child will decide to turn it over and watch the sand slowly sift from one area to another. Each grain takes its place in familiar surroundings, yet never knowing where it will end up. We start each day with those sands set in place. We plan for how the day will progress. We get interrupted along the way, with various nuisances or change of plans, but we continue to pour ourselves into the day – grain by grain – slowly yet effortlessly falling into place – only to be returned from where we came, and do it all over again the next day. We try to fill the spaces that were interfered with the day before. We go through the motions. We don’t always stop to think that we’re making any kind of profound impact on the world, yet each of our movements has been mapped out by God in advance. Our purpose is His. Our will gets in the way of that purpose many times. We think we can force our opinions on others. We believe we must do something to obtain our salvation. We try to manage the unmanageable ourselves. We go outside our boundaries and fall away from the path that was positioned for us before our conception.

Unlike the old soap opera, which depended on repeat viewers, there doesn’t have to be drama in every moment we live. Sometimes we can gain contentment just by enjoying a sunrise or sunset. We might take a few moments in quiet conversation with our Creator. We can plan our days, but almost always count on interruptions. The interruptions might be life changing, or simply going through the motions, but each of those moments is valuable. As we start a new week, we’re faced with all kinds of options. For many right now, the options aren’t great. We still face a pandemic. Our leadership and economy are in question. Crime is rising and getting closer and closer to home. Homelessness and addiction is up. Suicide is becoming much too commonplace. The next episode doesn’t look promising, if we continue to bury our heads in the sand. The ups and downs of living can quickly turn mundane and hopeless if we allow them to.

Today is a new beginning. Get rid of the baggage that’s clouding your thinking and your optimism. Look at this day as the start of a new adventure – a new opportunity – a blessing from God. As we go through each hour, remember that you have the King of Creation looking out for you. His love is unconditional – everlasting – perfect. He loves us beyond comprehension even though we don’t deserve it. With that thought in mind, every day can be a fresh start – a new story – an optimistic outlook – freedom and peace of mind, because He has numbered all the days of our lives.

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THINGS ARE LOOKING UP

Posted on October 17, 2021 by atimetoshare.me
ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

 

Sunlight trickles through slightly skeletal branches,

Giving way to glistening dew drops,,

Like a scattering of diamonds across the open expanse,

As the sun rises to full height, it dispenses all its light and beauty for our pleasure,

Each night grows a little longer, removing the dirt of yesterday,

Each hour is packed with promise of new life,

Each minute fills our hearts with hope,

Each second we’re restored,

Renewed,

Revived,

Redeemed,

As the Son rose from the dead, we are assured the same things,

Cleansing from our sins,

Promise of eternal life,

Even in the darkness of night,

There is hope in Christ, Jesus.

IN HIS MERCY, HE HEARS OUR PRAYERS!

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CARRY ON

Posted on October 15, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

It was the time of the European Renaissance.  King Henry VIII would distance himself from the Catholic church in order to divorce his first wife and marry his mistress.  The church was in the throes of corruption and was selling indulgences to bulk up their treasury.  Unsuspecting people paid the price to buy their way into heaven. New inventions were created, including the printing press.  Minds were being changed as well,

With change we almost always see an increase in fraudulence and deceit.  Philosophies, progress, pride,  knowledge and growth will likely lead to dishonesty, anger, hatred, false teaching and lies.  It’s like that today as we see corruption all around us.  When someone stirs the pot and tries to root out the evil, they face a lot of controversy.  Martin Luther was a man like that.

When he was old enough to attend college, his father insisted that he study law.  Less than six weeks into his studies, Martin decided to become a monk.  It is said that he was in a serious thunderstorm and feared for his life. It was that storm that convinced him to follow a different path.  He became a monk in the Order of the Hermits of St. Augustine.  The order was strict and he lived in a cell without heat and a mundane life which allowed for no interaction.  He was devoted to his daily work.  He began each day at 2 AM with prayer and repentance.  One of his priests often complained about Luther and his endless confessions. It seemed he felt completely unworthy of Christ’s love and salvation.

When he posted the 95 theses on the door of the church at Wittenburg, he had no intention of stirring things up.  His ideas were in response to the selling of indulgences and the corrupt philosophies being sold along with them.  This man of God’s Word struggled constantly with his inability to rid himself of sin.  He felt his works were never enough to appease a jealous God.  No amount of self-abuse, deprivation, or good works would take away his guilt.

Today we’re faced with similar problems. Only this time the truth has been corrupted in order to conform to the desires and lifestyles of a divided populace. Anything goes and the minute you speak against it, you’re accused of being intolerant.  When Martin stumbled across the following Bible verse, he could no longer be silent.

Ephesians 2:8 “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God”(ESV)

Today something new gnaws away at our churches in America. When we remain silent, we’re accepting the lies as truth. When our church is being attacked from all sides and seen as purveyors of gloom and doom, rather than a place of sanctuary – we need to hold to God’s truths.  When the devil is allowed to invade God’s house, we need to speak up.  We must be fearlessly vocal when defending the Bible.. When we remain silent, we’re as much as saying we accept the lies as truth. Holding to God’s Word takes courage. Some call it being stubborn –  others believe in following God and His plans for us.

Luther defended the pure teachings of the Bible and a reformation began. When we stand up for the truth of God, we cannot do otherwise.

“Wise men speak because they have something to say; Fools because they have to say something.” Plato

 

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WHEN THERE ARE NO WORDS

Posted on October 14, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

COVID has captured another of our friends and he is now in the presence of God.  As we try to make sense of the darkness of this disease, it’s hard to imagine how it affects so many of us.  Words seem pointless for they can’t begin to bring healing in the time of grief.  Even the confidence we have in life after death for those who believe in God, there is and will always be an empty place at the dinner table – not having that special person to travel with through life – the joys and memories to be shared of years of committment to each other.  For the Christian, there’s the ocnfidence and hope of a new and perfect life beyond the grave.  We long for that place as we trudge through the darkness of this one, but the sting of death is still very real.

Time may take away the pain that we experience at first, but the loss of someone dear never really goes away.  It has been branded into our heart,  Eventually the good memories will take the place of reality, but in the meantime, we’re often left alone in our mourning.  Those who grieve with the bereaved may not have the words of comfort they need at the moment.  Nothing seems to console or give peace, unless you know that this ending leads to a whole new beginning.

God’s Word is filled with words of comfort.  They sustain us when well intentioned words from friends and family fail.  

JOB 19:25-27 

“For I know that my Redeemer lives,
    and at the last he will stand upon the earth
 And after my skin has been thus destroyed,
    yet in my flesh I shall see God,
whom I shall see for myself,
    and my eyes shall behold, and not another.
    My heart faints within me!”

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WORDS OF TRUTH

Posted on October 13, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

 

Aslan says,

“though the Witch knew the Deep Magic, there is a magic deeper still which she did not know.  Her knowledge goes back only to the dawn of time.  But if she could have looked a little further back…she would have read…a different incantation.  She would have known that when a willing victim who had committed no treachery was killed in a traitor’s stead, the Table would crack and Death itself would start working backwards …“

The Lion, The Witch & The Wardrobe, by C.S. Lewis was written as a child’s tale of redemption.  Even though it was filled with fantastical characters and mythology, Lewis managed to interweave his faith into the story.  Of course this is simply a story.  The one that it’s derived from is true.

A willing victim did lay down His life for humanity.  He took the place of all of us when He was sacrificed on the cross.  Jesus conquered death – even a brutal death without cause, without blame, without protest.  He did it because it was the only way.

Today we can rest in the afterglow of Easter.  The sacrificial days of Lent are done .  The difficult days of the Passion are over.  The tomb has been found empty and the Savior has risen indeed.  The battle is over.  The victory has been won.  End of story?  Not yet.

Now what do we do with this wonderful gift?  God has blessed us with eternal life.  The worse thing we can do is hide it within our own sheltered little lives.  It’s too great a gift not to share.  When Jesus made that final sacrifice, He wasn’t doing so for just a select few. He came for all sinners – the Hitlers, the Charles Mansons, the Judases, the most sinful of all – YOU and ME.  His death would have meant nothing otherwise.

His resurrection assures us that we will reap the benefits of His holy kingdom when we pass from this earth into heaven.  He’s made that possible because of His great love for His creation.  Now that this wonderful news has been given to us, our hearts should be so filled with joy, that we cannot contain it.  Spread the Gospel!  Share it with everyone.  We all need it.  It is our life – our connection to our loving God – our salvation – our freedom.

Today we can be sure that heaven is real – that God is real – that He died once for all and that salvation is truth and it’s ours.  

CHRIST IS RISEN – HE IS RISEN INDEED!

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WHAT’S INSIDE?

Posted on October 12, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

 

The Twin Cities of Minnesota was again attacked this weekend with unnecessary crime, killing one and injuring many.  The darkness that is beginning to encase our once lovely pair of cities on the river is turning faster than ever.  We need good leadershilp.  We need compassion.  We need to stop the hate.  We need GOD!

Shades of grey, crimson and yellow dot the cityscape with a magical mist,

Covering a multitude of sins,

I wonder if this is how we look to God?

Covered with a veil of repentance and grief over past sins,

Shrouded in a haze of uncertainty,

No!

God looks at us and sees

Only His Son and what He has accomplished,

We no longer carry the undistinguishable,

The hidden,

The burden,

It has all been washed away in the blood of the lamb,

No longer are we seeped in darkness,

No longer in fear,

God has forgiven us all through His own Son, Jesus,

Let His love shine through us and bring that light to others.

 

 

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JEWELS OF DE NIAL MARATHON WEEK

Posted on October 11, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

As you know, I’ve spent the entire pandemic in a creative frenzy.  My over 55 acting class fizzled out, but something wonderful sprang forth from it.  The three women in the front row of these two photos  (R to L,) me, Christine and June set out to create a series of episodes relating to issues that we encounter as we age.  We added Todd and Gail as time went on, and will probably continue to include more actors or substitute some as necessary.  I mean, we’re not going to live forever – at least not in this world.   In the meantime, were hoping to reach  senior centers, assisted living and memory care facilities, along with the theatre where it all started.

Our stories are taken from real life experiences.  The main characters range in age from 60s to 80s.  Each of us are experienced in education, the arts, performance and we all love to write.  This started as an experiment.  It morphed into a radio show – which we recorded – and is now in its current state of reaching out to the community in live performance.  This week we’re performing for a local senior center.  From Thursday through Saturday, we’ll be at our home base performing.  

We started this process just prior to the pandemic and shutdown almost two years ago.  When things closed down, we continued to meed via Zoom.  Even in those meetings, we couldn’t contain our laughter nor the relationships we were building along the way.  In any collaboration, there will be differences of opinion, but they seem to be working out and causing more ideas to take root. 

This week’s shows are “The Auction,” which deals with downsizing and getting rid of our stuff so that we can remodel the rest rooms at our theatre.  It was originally designed for children and the toilets are all short.  The auction will help us raise money to raise the toilets. The second show, is called, “Technical Difficulties,” which includes password problems, dealing with technology while using a rotary phone and opening a new computer that displays only the word, “Dell.”  Having grown up without all this technology creates a great deal of comedy.  The cool thing is that it’s relateable to all ages as the youngers get frustrated while teaching their elders how to use it.  During the holiday season, the Jewels’ usual plans are interrupted and we decide to take a cruise together.  There is definitely more to come.  

So why is this so important?  The program began as a means to get those 55+  folks back into the community and doing something useful and fun while creating new friendships and sharpening our minds.  You’re only as young as you allow yourself to be.  As far as aging is concerned, I’ve tried it and it’s really overrated.  My friends and I have used the pandemic for our own enjoyment and sanity. It has opened the doors to a whole new enterprise.  Stay tuned for our next episode.

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LIFE & DEATH

Posted on October 9, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

 

 

When we’re born, we come into the world screaming our little lungs out. When we leave it, many of us will do the same. Neither birth nor death is easy. We spend nine months safely tucked away in our mother’s womb; in a cozy environment where all our needs are taken care of.  The birthing process pushes those tiny bodies into an entirely different world; one filled with uncertainty.
 
At death, man has experienced life and feels comfortable with it, so that leaving it isn’t so easy either.We’ve established lifetime relationships that we want to hang onto.  We fear what will happen to those we love when we’re gone. We worry that our lives didn’t have any impact.  We don’t know for sure what lies ahead. 
 
What happens after death? As I get closer to the end of my existence, I often think about that and still am fearful, even though I know I am assured a wonderful life in heaven. The other side of life is just as unknown as what we faced when we entered this world, but because of God’s love for us, we can be confident that what lies ahead will be better than we ever expected and so much better than what we left behind.  The thought of separation from them can be daunting though.  We’d like to think we can live forever when in truth we can.  We will live for eternity if we follow our Lord, Jesus.  He will be at the gate of heaven, waiting for us.  He will lead us in and give us the fulfillment of His promise in heaven.  We may be leaving what was familiar and comfortable behind, but the adventure is just about to begin.
 

Lord, help me to keep a child like faith even in my old age and trust that you will keep your promise of an eternal life with you.  You created me before I was born.  You guided me through a life filled with ups and downs, sickness and health, success and loss.  I know you will be with me even in eternity.  Thank you for the blessing of eternal life.  Amen!

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I DON’T NEED INFLATION

Posted on October 8, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

During most of my 79 years, I have been fighting inflation. I dont need it anymore, nor do I want it. Begone with thee, inflation!. I’ve seen my body mass go up and down more than the economy and in today’s world, that might be hard to believe. Has anyone been grocery shopping lately? This is also something I’m really getting close to being done with. When one of your only ventures into the outside world includes going to the store for rations, it’s time to take stock of what’s important. We don’t eat out very often, so my weekly shopping needs have skyrocketed recently.

Not to mention the paper products. We pay almost $2 for a roll of toilet paper that’s going to wind up in the toilet anyway. It might just be time to get out some of those old magazines we’ve been saving because we might want to read them again. The rolls are becoming bigger and bigger it seems. However when you use only four squares of the roll, you’ve eliminated half the roll.

Everything at the supermarket is on the rise, including the tempers of the shoppers and cashiers. Road rage with a shopping cart is more prevalent. The required, “did you find everything you were looking for?” question by the cashiers is like a second thought and not really bearing any concern whatever. People push and shove their way through the aisles as if they were on a mission to get out of there as quickly as possible. In most cases it is. If you’ve been vaccinated and can’t breathe with a mask, you receive the offer of one by a clerk waiting at the door to dispense one. The shaming has begun.

Meat prices are through the roof. I wonder how much of that money is going to the farmers who bred, raised and sold those animals for human consumption. Soon we will all be vegan and that will make everyone happy, except for those of us who still enjoy our meat and potatoes.

There was a time when you could buy a can of peas for 50 cents. Today you’re lucky if you get one pea in the can you just paid almost two dollars for. I know this is all part of the trickle down effect we heard of from many past presidents. If the government is going to meet its budget, they must tax the rich, which includes the corporations and suppliers that brings us the food, which they in turn must overcharge the consumer with. Does anyone get that? Maybe the solution would be to go back to living off the earth. Oh but then, we’d be messing with the environment.

Inflation used to mean putting air into something or making it bigger. Today our dollar isn’t worth the paper it’s printed on, our needs excede our dollars, our bellys are still inflated and there’s little hope of change anywhere, except in the coffers of the US government. Maybe I should get a government job. Maybe I could be an activist. I hear they make almost $15/hour. Whatever I choose to do, my income will never catch up to my outgo.

So, I’ll continue to watch my social security check run out faster each month.  I’ll resort to eating dogfood and dumbster diving if necessary.  I’ve never had to go hungry and my belt size can attest to that.  Maybe I can live off my fat for a few months.

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STOP THE WORLD, I WANT TO GET OFF!

Posted on October 7, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

The artist/author, Don Freeman was best known for his children’s literature. Most youngsters and their parents have heard of “Corduroy,” the little red bear.  He died in 1978, so had no clue about what the United States would become in the next fifty years.  Gerald Ford was president at that time.  The nation had been through internal turmoil for a while, including the resignation of Richard Nixon and the entire Watergate Scandal which set that into motion.

I too have seen a huge change in our country since that time. I have seen a slow erosion of morality along with a topsy turvy society that can’t even begin to compare to the early years of my life.  Today as I write anything, I must be cognizant of not hurting anyone’s feelings or offending anyone in even the slightest way.  There is no rule book for this, other than the popular opinion that says we must not step on any toes.  Does that mean we must not correct, admonish, educate, assist, guide, set rules or voice our thoughts?  I hope not, because as soon as free thinking is abolished, so will the freedoms we share in our country.

We’re in the middle of a crisis, in my opinion.  We’ ve endured a year and a half of a plague that doesn’t show any signs of giving up.  People are tired of being cooped up so the extreme opposite is now happening.  The fact that schools are open and the usual fall allergies and germs from gathering have taken on the guise of  COVID19, doesn’t seem to bother some folks.  The grocery stores, restaurants, retail, entertainment and sporting venues have gone back to normal numbers and people wonder why the virus is spiking.  We tend to look to our leadership to make sense of all of it, but that just intensifies the anxiety.  Some choose to numb the effects of all this by indulging in drugs and alcohol.  Some become slaves to technology.  Others feel that they can overcome these difficulties by looking inward and meditating on their navels.  We may even become involved in special interest groups and think we can fix things by ourselves.  I’m not saying that becoming active in the outcome of our society is a bad thing. What I’m trying to convey it that I think we’ve turned away from the One who can help us through any circumstance.  

Being a solid Christian is certainly not going to guarantee a life of ease.   In fact it can lead to a life of persecution and hatred towards us.  Maybe that’s why folks don’t find hope in the church anymore.  We’re all pretty tired of fighting a losing battle – right?

“Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account.  Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you.” Matthew 5:11-12

Those words of Jesus should give us consolation, but who wants to be at war with the world all the time? Sure, we know that a better place is on the other side of death, but can’t we enjoy our lives as well? The darkness of our world is not going to get better until Jesus returns to us. That’s the truth. We will endure all of it, if we have something to look forward to and God has provided that as well. When Jesus first came to us, He gave us the promise of eternal life. He told us how to live – even when we’re in an upside down world. He promised to give us the strength to fight the evil one. He gives us confidence, endurance, perserverance, power and His Holy Word as the armor we need to fight the enemy. He also promises to be with us every step of the way. We are more than conquerers, because He always keeps His promises.

It would be nice to just press a button and stop the world so we could get off, but where would we go?

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THE DEVIL’S TOOLBOX

Posted on October 6, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

I know that my Redeemer lives and that I will inherit His kingdom some day.  I believe that His resurrection from death is in truth what will happen to me when I die, but for some reason, that nasty old enemy tries to convince me that I still must do something to forgive myself.  The doubts usually happen in my dreams. All the evil things I’ve done in my life resurface and condemn me all over again.

I’m sure I’m not alone in these feelings.  We’re especially when we have self doubt of any kind – when our world is upside down and we can’t make any sense of it – when Satan has been allowed to roam the earth and feed us the falsest of information, making us doubt what God has so graciously done for us.  I know that Jesus paid the price.  I know that I’m forgiven, even though I don’t deserve it.  I know that those things are true.  I also know that our nature to be sinners is still within us and will remain until we die, so we are fair game in a way.

My dreams will continue.  My faith will too.  I pray that God would strengthen me day by day so that I can rest in that assurance and know that I have been forgiven once for every sin.  We can’t do that by ourselves.  God’s example of true forgiveness should be a goal for us too.  We need to forgive others when we’ve been hurt by words or deeds. We need to look beyond the fears of this world and reach out to the One who puts everything back together again.  He made us.  He loves us.  He will continue to do so forever.  Our lifeline to Him is through His Holy Word. Time to ransack the scriptures again.  Oh for the ability to be more like Him every day.

Dear, Father, God,

You have forgiven me of all my sins..  Your mercy is far beyond human comprehension.  Help me to forgive others as you have forgiven me.  Lead me always to you.  You are my rock and salvation.  Keep the devil at bay, for I know that you have already defeated him and your power is far greater.  Thank you for loving me and the whole world so much that you made the ultimate sacrifice to save us.  Amen!

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KEEP ON KEEPING ON

Posted on October 5, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

Martin Luther spent the greater part of his young life trying to live up to his father’s expectations of him, his peers’ opinions of him and the church’s requirements of him.  He thought that if only He was a better person, lived a pious life, said more prayers, beat himself up both mentally and physically he just might measure up.  When the scriptures were finally revealed to Him, he realized that everything had already been done.  His sin had been paid for – his place in heaven was guaranteed – his eternal life assured.  Nothing that he could do would ever match that.

So often we go through life trying to meet the “standard” of perfection.  We dress the right way, we go to church, we help others, we take care of our families.  Our lives seem perfect – or are they?  Do we feel defeated when we don’t fit the mold for success?  Do we give up when we just can’t take the everyday stresses of life?  Do we belittle ourselves until people finally agree with us? 

God doesn’t want us to live that way.  He is the One who made us.  If we give up on ourselves, we are in fact giving up on Him too.  His hands formed us.  He breathed the breath of life into us.  He walks with us every day.  He has a plan for our lives.  He has also prepared perfection for our lives after death.  Because of that amazing gift, we give thanks through our deeds.  Our works are done not to buy our salvation, but because of our gratitude for what has been done for us.

“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them. ”  Ephesians 2:10

Lord, because of Your love for me, I have been made perfect in Your sight.  When I start getting down on myself, remind me of Your constant presence in my life.   Help me to remember how much You gave to buy me back.  In Jesus name, I pray. Amen!

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AUTUMN PURGE

Posted on October 4, 2021 by atimetoshare.me

Actually I’m crazy about this time of year.  At least I can breathe again for a week or two.  The air is crisp and fresh and mold spores haven’t yet taken hold.  Unlike Maxine, I enjoy a blanket of leaves on my lawn.  We have an old Black Walnut tree in the center of the yard, that rolls out a lovely carpet of gold and gives a whole new definition to beauty.

There are other things to do this week beside raking.  First and foremost is putting away bulbs which will bloom again next year if stored away.  Then there are all our lawn ornaments and the porcelain  wren houses and bird baths that must be stored inside.  I’ll be doing some trim painting and plan to do a little Tom Sawyer action on our little patio fence.  There are plenty of things to dispose of at this time of year.

On the inside, I’ll be adjusting my closet and moving summer clothes into crates for storage and winter flannels will replace them.  Deep cleaning on the inside – like cleaning the oven, refrigerator and getting into the corners of cabinets and neglected spaces – can all be done during our long winter expanse.  Although I  probably will procrastinate on some of those jobs this year.  It seems with age, most of those tasks seem less important. Now I’m a lot more concerned about my inner shell – the heart and soul of me.  I know that I have a new life ahead when this one ends.  It will be free from the dismal duties we place on ourselves.  It will be full of blessing, no tears, with peace and joy abundant.  I look forward to that, but I still have some time left to enjoy the beauty that God has created for the right now too.

So I’ll do what I can this week.  Next week begins a time filled with extra rehearsals and performance venues.  Then all will be quiet on the western front for a little while.  Enjoy the moments God has given you.  Be blessed by them and hold them tightly in your heart.  The little treasures are the greatest blessings.

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