I LOVE TO WRITE DAY

Thinking CatThe thinking cat is a reminder that we writers often suffer writer’s block, so we need a little help from our friends.

Today we celebrate ” love to Write Day.”  I happen to have a penchant for these weird and unusual holidays so bear with me.  Not everyone is an author, but all of us, at one time or another, has penned something in a diary, a to do list, a letter to a loved one or a required piece in an English class.

I started my writing career when I was in 7th grade.  A lot of my childhood was spent in movie theaters or hearing mom read magical stories at bedtime.  My imagination had taken off at an early age and the way I often expressed myself was through the written word.  So when I entered 8th grade and the assignment was to create a play, I was all ready for it.

I spent hours defining my characters and story line.  It would be an epic production with a cast of thousands – beautiful costumes and sets – amazing music and choreography – and in the end love would conquer all.  I’m not sure if the teacher even bothered to read it, because it was so long, but he gave me a good grade.  I also vividly recall his comment at the top of the page.  “This would be impossible to produce.”

Those words were indelibly printed within my brain and my desire to write was squashed for a while.  It’s amazing how a teacher can discourage you without really intending to.  In fact, my husband failed art in elementary school, because he wasn’t following the formula in the curriculum.  He dared to be creative.  It’s a good thing that most negative comments bounce off both of us or we never would’ve followed our careers.

When I teach a writing class, I encourage my students to buy a journal and start writing down their thoughts, observations and emotions. These facts will lead to an abundance of stories for the future.  With a class of senior citizens, it becomes a way for them to relive some of their own memories and stay sharp by keeping their brains active.

Not everyone is a writer.  Not everyone can whip through mathematical formulas.  We don’t all know how to dance, sing or use a musical instrument.  Some of us have skills that we can only imagine doing.  That’s what makes each one of us unique.

So even if the only writing you do is a grocery list, consider it an accomplishment.  If you have an admiration for those who do write and give you hours of enjoyment, give them a hug if possible.  Let them know that their writing has touched you in some way.  It’s the best compliment a writer can receive.

 

 

 

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SHADOWS OF TIME

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ART & INSPIRATION FROM PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

The shadows of time have crept slowly and insidiously into this old vessel,

Sometimes in dreams I see mansions filled with treasures and beauty beyond belief,

Streets lined with gold and abundance everywhere,

No sorrow, no pain, no loss,

My eyes dim, my body grows weak,

It seems I should be coming close to the end of my days,

In those moments of weakness,

I see that God isn’t finished with me yet,

I wonder what He has planned for me today.

 

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FADING FAST

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ORIGINAL ART & INSPIRATION FROM PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

They are not long, the days of wine and roses:
Out of a misty dream
Our path emerges for a while, then closes
Within a dream.

– Ernest Dowson, from “Vitae Summa Brevis” (1896).

Our days go swiftly, like an early morning dawn,

They often pass so quickly, they pass and they are gone,

We turn each page anticipating,

We long for and are waiting,

For time to take us home,

We set our course on human need and soon are pushed aside,

But holding to God’s master plan, with Him we’ll soon abide,

The lakes will turn to ice,

The trees will sacrifice,

And winter now does loom,

The end of days, a time to pray, repenting of our sins,

We softly cast our cares on God, we know He always wins,

In times of stress or pain

We look to Him for gain,

New life beyond the tomb.

 

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WONDERLAND?

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On this day in history, Charles Lutwidge Dodgson, wrote in his diary, “Began writing the fairy-tale of Alice–I hope to finish it by Christmas.”  This was on November 13, 1862 and Charles later became known as Lewis Carroll.  The story fell into the hands of novelist, Henry Kingsley, who encouraged Carroll to publish the book.  It was released in 1865 and has become one of the most famous of all children’s literature.

This young man of 30, stuttered when he lectured in the field of mathematics, but felt completely comfortable and spoke fluently when talking to children.

A few years ago, I adapte the amazing story of Alice and her adventures into play form.  I had to dig deeply into the story to get a handle on all the strange characters she encountered along the way.  As I read, I began to see Alice in a new light.  There are all kinds of interpretations of this work, including the possibility that Carroll was high on something when he wrote it.

I felt the story to be more of an awakening of a young girl becoming a young woman.  All the emotional shifts that happen when a child becomes a teen, all the anxiety and sometimes even physical pain that accompanies puberty, were part of this adventure.  I could go deeper with this, but I’m not a psychologist.  Besides I love a good fairy tale too.

Today our world seems to be like Alice’s wonderland, in that it’s a swirling mixture of chaos and far fetched scenarios.  We try to make sense of it, but it simply doesn’t make sense.  They become distractions to our getting on with life as we should.  We jump from one tragedy to another within days.  We’re exposed to warped and broken minds, with no respect for human life.  We see division within our own nation and the world.  It seems we can’t squeeze through the doors of time without another attack to our psyches.

Inspiration can always be found in God’s Word.

“That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive; But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:  From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.”  Ephesians 4:14-16 KJV

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SOME THINGS GET BETTER WITH AGE

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As time goes by, our bodies move slower; our minds need to take a while to digest things; our friends are dying or becoming disabled;  the world around us seems to be taking on a totally different bend and we wonder what ever happened to the good old days.

When you’re married to your high school sweetheart, you’ve pretty much grown up together.  You’ve melded into one without even realizing it. You finish each other’s sentences.  You anticipate each other’s needs.  You get annoyed with each other from time to time. You muddle through and accept things you may not have with anyone else.

When you go to purchase a bottle of fine wine, you probably look at the age of that beverage in hopes of buying something extra special.  The same applies to cheese.  The older the better.  There are a few other things in this world that take on prestige as they age, but that often doesn’t apply to human beings – especially in a society that has lost all reverence for the elderly, or simply are unable to cope with seeing parents growing older.

Many folks my age are living full and active lives.  Many have decided to wait for God to carry them home and have given up.  Some have already lost their spouses and are trying to move on.  This stage of life is one filled with much struggle, depression, anxiety, hopelessness, feeling useless and longing for heaven.

Age can either perfect you or cause you to rot and decay.  I prefer to be part of the group that seeks perfection.  The best place to find that is in your relationships with friends and family – with associates – with those who make your life richer – those who make you laugh – those who accept you as you are.  Look for the best in these individuals and they will bring out the best in you.   If you can’t find it in worldly friends, there’s One who loves you unconditionally – even with all your flaws, wrinkles and crumbling body.  God places each of us in high esteem and has prepared a mansion for us after we depart this rotting veil of tears.

Life doesn’t have to be a barrel filled with angst and thoughts of death.  It should be rich right up until your last breath.  When you’re blessed to have someone to share life with, you possess a barrel of joy which will keep you going to the end – which is really just the beginning.

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNIES

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CHARGED UP IS HE.  DOESN’T HIS LIGHT SABER HE NEED.  GO YODA GO!

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This one goes with my post yesterday about birth pains.  If only it were this kind of contractions we were concerned with.

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WEEKEND ROAD WARRIORS

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Last weekend, we traveled to Wisconsin for a wedding along with our son and his lady.  It’s always delightful to drive through the land of my youth.  The landscape is dotted with family farmsteads, pristine and well manicured.  Giant spruce trees stand as sentries beside vintage homes, surrounded by cows, sheep and recently more horses than I’ve seen before.  Wisconsin’s rolling hills break up the monotony of the prairie.

I was feeling my age as my aching body plowed through the five hour drive, but was renewed by the company and laughter as we traveled.  The crumbling buildings on the landscape, were just another reminder that I’m growing old.

The aging process makes me long for restoration.  The reality of aging is difficult to accept.  Bodies crush under the every day process of living.  The spine crumbles as years press down on it.  Muscles scream as they become enflamed, less flexible, and unused.  Hair begins to thin, memories are often deleted and sent to a cloud somewhere.  Our skin is no longer pliable and wrinkles surround our eyes.  I like to say that I was once six feet tall and everything has since pushed its way down into my hips.  That’s why I’m only five feet now.  My wrinkled face has been a source of comment from many children, but I a tell them that I earned every one of them.

Aging is not for the faint of heart.  It takes a lot of courage to pass through this stage of life.  Shakespeare had a lot to say about it.   In his play “King Lear,” he speaks thus about growing old:

“The weight of this sad time we must obey,
Speak what we feel, not what we ought to say.
The oldest hath borne most: we that are young
Shall never see so much, nor live so long.”

And in this piece from “The Passionate Pilgrim”

  “Crabbed age and youth cannot live together; Youth is full of pleasure, age is full of care; Youth like summer morn, age like winter weather; Youth like summer brave, age like winter bare. Youth is full sport, age’s breath is short; Youth is nimble, age is lame; Youth is hot and bold, age is weak and cold; Youth is wild, age is tame. Age, I do abhor thee; youth, I do adore thee.”

The wedding was lovely, the celebration lively.  I was reminded of younger days, spending energy on the dance floor, laughing and enjoying life.  Those things don’t have to abandon us as we age.  We can hang on to them, even though our bodies resist.  As long as God chooses to keep us on this planet, we have the ability to make the most of it.  Blocking out the ugliness of the world and focusing on what lies ahead in eternal bliss, is probably the one key ingredient in enjoying old age.  God has promised new bodies. We have complete restoration waiting for us.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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GROANING

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHERy©in prayer.

I put away my selfish thoughts and ask that you be there –

My words cannot express my needs, but I know you understand.

With groans that I can’t comprehend, you help me to withstand –

The weak and heavy burdens that I cannot solve alone.

Your loving arms surround me and lead me safely home.

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CAMELOT

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“Like the Arthurian years at Camelot, the Sixties constituted a breakthrough, a fleeting moment of glory, a time when a significant little chunk of humanity briefly realised its moral potential and flirted with its neurological destiny, a collective spiritual awakening that flared brilliantly until the barbaric and mediocre impulses of the species drew tight once more the curtains of darkness.”  Tom Robbins

November brings with it an ominous cloud, causing us to become anxious, depressed and even hopeless at times. Perhaps it’s the lack of sunshine as clocks are turned back. With it, the sun rises later and sets earlier.  We suffer from vitamin D deficiency. We feel tired a lot.  This transition month is a time when we know that winter is right around the corner.

November is also a month of remembrance of a young president and his lovely wife – the first Catholic to hold the office – the first to be born in the 20th Century – the youngest ever to be elected.  His tenure lasted for a brief 1036 days, but his imprint upon our nation has continued on through history.  The rumors, gossip, stories of womanizing, mafia connections, pain killers, nepotism and extreme wealth – all fodder for the tabloids. The family business was finally being realized in the person of John F. Kennedy.  Add to that the fact that the first lady was setting fashion trends, restoring the White House and bearing children.  She soon became an icon sharing the spotlight with her husband.

At the time of his election, I had just graduated from high school.  Within his short time in office, I began to plan for my wedding.  Life seemed almost perfect.  This president, in spite of the back stories, truly loved our country and the principles of freedom and liberty.  Somehow, November holds a spot in my memory, which saw a radical change in how we viewed those things.

We saw a beloved president lose his life at the hand of an assassin.  Shortly thereafter, the assassin would be killed by a nightclub owner, with possible mafia ties.  Everything was instantly in our face.  How could this happen?  We were stunned and amazed as these events unfolded on our televisions each day.  Later on we were witness to the assassinations of Martin Luther King, Jr. and Bobby Kennedy.  The violence had been unleashed.

The tube became a source of opinions, rather than facts, and gave way to a different style of reporting the news.  Times have changed in the past 50 years.  We now have access to everything at the tap of a finger.  The Walter Conkrites and David Brinkleys no longer exist.  The news media has become a venue for fake news and we no longer trust what they have to say.

The days of the Kennedy presidency were filled with glamor, charisma, paparazzi, a royal atmosphere which Americans adored.  We wept as the flag draped casket made its way down the street, followed by walking family members, political officials and heads of state.  Tears flowed as the little soldier, John John saluted his father.  Too young, too sad, too soon.  I often wonder how things would’ve played out had JFK continued with a second term.  I will never know, but one thing is for sure.

 “Don’t let it be forgot.  That once there was a spot, for one brief shining moment that was known as Camelot! ”  King Arthur

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LIBERATED

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ORIGINAL ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

What is the price of liberty? Where lies the victor’s prize?
Is it in bodies laying still, beneath the cold, dark skies?
The cost to win our freedom cannot be seen in life,
But in the brave hearts smitten to take away our strife.

Each soldier brave and willing, goes bravely unto death,

And lays his life upon the line to give his dying breath.

We cannot put a price tag upon that bloody cost,

It’s love that’s given freely so freedom won’t be lost

Our Savior did this willingly when tortured on the tree.
He gave His life and rose again to set our spirits free.
No human life could do this. It had to be from God.
So we could see His love for us both here and far abroad.

His word He gave to teach us the things we need to know,
His life He gave to save us from the pain that lies below.
So lift your voice to Jesus. His love will never die.
He gives to us His paradise. He’ll care for us on high.

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I’M BACK!

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For the past couple weeks, I’ve been suffering with severe back pain.  I’ve a history of kidney stones and this  was similar.  I had a Cat scan, was given liquids and pain killers intravenously and covered in nice warm blankets.  As I lay there thinking about all the possible things that could be wrong with me, I began to feel comfortable with whatever the outcome would be.

The Cat found something it wasn’t looking for.  No kidney stones, but there was a nodule on my lung and a small cyst on my liver and kidney.  This was all on the opposite side of my pain, so it didn’t make sense.  I was sent home with a strong antibiotic and pain meds and told to contact my primary doc the same week.  So for a few days, the thought of Cancer consumed my brain.  I’m truly not afraid to die, because I know what lies ahead, but the thought of turning my husband into a caregiver and becoming a burden wasn’t the least bit appealing.

During the entire week, we experienced difficult news from a family member who experienced chest pains and needed prayer.  I also discovered that she has a blood cancer which effects the thickness of the blood.  It is treatable and she’s confident in the outcome.

There are times when news like this comes at you from all sides. Our prayer warrior friends and church family began to pray.

The news from around the world continued to depress and cause anxiety, but now our focus seemed to be on family and health.  My primary doc ordered another Cat scan.  Those kitties were busy that week.  She said the spots were too small and insignificant to be cancerous and I should follow up in another year with another scan.  Phew!

In the meantime, she determined that my pain was coming from deteriorating sacral joint arthritis which may require steroid shots or other treatment.  Nothing compared to Cancer.  One family member got a clean report on the angiogram and was sent home and the other continues to be my hero.

We go through these aging years with great resistance.  It’s hard to admit we can’t leap tall buildings anymore.  We get tired by 9 PM and now that daylight savings time is changed, I’ll probably be ready for bed at  PM.  Our tempers sharpen easily, we become grumpy faster, we can’t keep up with the ways of the world and technology doesn’t help.  Maybe this is all part of God’s plan to get us ready to leave this place.

However, He continues to bless us while we’re here, by answering our prayers – by supplying wonderful new moments for us to be together and share – by holding us through difficulties and carrying us through the really tough times.  He’s also using us to bring others to His fold.  We have great news to share and God won’t be done with us until His work is.

As Thanksgiving approaches, I wish to thank Him for continuing to protect me and my family and shield us from danger.  I pray that our world will begin to rely on His loving arms and trust in His direction.  AMEN!

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