DIETING WOES

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In my lifetime I must have tried at least a couple hundred different kinds of diets.  I started to notice that I wasn’t the cute little Shirley Temple look alike I thought I was when I turned nine or ten.  I’ve been fighting the battle of the bulge ever since.

I’ve tried starving myself – counting calories – Weight Watchers – Jenny Craig and others like her – Atkins – Low carb/high fat – vegetable soup diet – Keto and so many more.  They all had one thing in common.  I’d lose a few pounds right away and gain it all back with an additional five within a month.

My stretch marks were getting stretch marks.  I was entering high school large enough to play center on the football team.  Unfortunately, girls in football were not a thing at that time.  When I started dating my high school sweetheart and lifetime partner, I outweighed him by fifty pounds.  Come to think of it I still do.

Years passed and the yo-yo dieting continued.  I was one of those eaters that ate because she liked food.  Depression – mood swings – hormones – metabolism had nothing to do with it.  That is until I got pregnant and added another forty pounds to my already chubby self.

Now I’m at a point in life when I know that losing several pounds would take some of the extra load from what I carry on my aging legs.  However, I was told by the doctor last week that my knees are really in good shape for my age.  Walking is an option, but there are all the respiratory issues.  See – I have an excuse for everything.

So as life continues to put up with me, I’ve decided to forget about dieting and start enjoying life.  Excuse me, while I go slice another piece of cake.

 

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IS IT GOOD TO GET ANGRY?

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From a very early age, I was taught that we shouldn’t succumb to anger.  Not only was it a negative way to behave, but it had serious consequences.  As my life progresses, I keep hearing that voice in the back of my head telling me not to get angry – to keep my temper under control – don’t over react.  Yesterday I got angry.

I had no particular reason for being angry.  It was a culmination of negatives that had been building up for some time.  It was the state of our world – the fake and real news (who knows what is and isn’t anymore?) – getting rid of this stupid cough that keeps me up at night – my feelings of inadequacy for not being able to contribute to the daily stuff that continues to require attention.  I was lonely for my children and grandchildren.  I was angry that I couldn’t get in my garden.  I was crabby because my first time driving my stick shift car put extra strain on my sprained knee.  The voice returned.  “Chill – don’t over react – count to ten!”  The more I heard this voice in my head, the angrier I became.

Why shouldn’t I get angry?  Why have I spent the past 77 years being the calm one?  Don’t my feelings matter?  Guilt again crept deep into my brain.  I seem to have these conscience battles from time to time – like when Sylvester the cat had the little devil and little angel sitting on each shoulder trying to run his life for him.  “Don’t blow up,” says the angel while the devil roars, “Do it!  Go for the gusto.  Blow up!”

Finally my brain was becoming a little teapot ready to explode, so I went to the one person I knew would understand – my one and only sibling.  My sister and I didn’t like each other very much when we were children.  Our teen years were spent in constant competition.  Once we both left the nest that changed and we’ve been very close ever since.

She lives in Nashville, TN and I live in Minneapolis, MN.  Many miles separate us, but there is a connection that transcends time and space.  I bore my soul in the form of a text message.  She responded with an email.  She’s much more tech savvy than I am.  We rarely talk  on the phone because of my hearing loss. Since the phone doesn’t have subtitles or closed captioning we communicate electronically.

She gave me some very good advice.  She said sometimes we just have to let off steam, especially when we feel overwhelmed.  We can’t be expected to hold all that garbage in our head and not have a negative reaction.  Anger can relieve some of the tension that’s trying to escape.

I then remembered how my grandmother would go out to the woods when things got tough.  I don’t know what she did out there, but whatever it was, it seemed to soothe the savage beast.  I imagined she would go there to scream at something or to blame someone or to simply cry.  We need to release the steam that’s causing our anger from time to time.

This world is in a state of craziness.  Anger and hatred seem to be working at a fever pitch and people aren’t very happy anymore.  Maybe we all need to go to the woods and have a good holler.

 

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WALLY’S FRIDAY FRYDADDY FUNNY

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNY

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MORNING RAPTURE

 

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ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

Ask any outdoor painter when it’s the best time to create art and they will undoubtedly say – in the morning or at twilight.  During these brief moments, God has taken every color out of His paintbox to capture the perfection of light and shadows.  Across the towering peaks, beside each tree branch or within a mountain lake, there is a rainbow – a brilliance – a masterpiece, just waiting to be transferred to a canvas.  The camouflaged wildlife take on a shimmering, golden glow. Even the best artist can’t match God’s splendor, but they can try.

 

 

 

 

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THROW BACK THURSDAY

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This is a re-run which has been reblogged once before.  I feel it has merit and since it’s throw back Thursday, I’m running it again.  Originally written on August 15, 2015.

There’s been division of races, ethnicity, social class, political views and even in our religious beliefs throughout history.  Looking back before our founding, the Native American was looked upon as a savage by the early explorers.  These foreigners may have said they were there to convert them to Christianity, but more likely their greed overtook them and they plundered and ravaged this noble race until they had nothing.

The slave trade was well underway in the 1400s and we all know the horrors of the abuse and humiliation this race suffered. Slavery wasn’t new.  It had been around during Biblical times as well.  They helped build a strong industrial nation for their white counterparts and fought alongside them in war after war to preserve the rights of our nation’s constitution.

After Pearl Harbor, nearly 120,000 Japanese Americans were sent to internment camps simply because of their race and heritage.  Nearly 60% were already United States citizens who had built thriving businesses .

These are all ugly reminders of the disgrace faced by every American.  The sins of the fathers seem to continue well beyond the third and fourth generations.  Wouldn’t it be great if we could just wash away all that prejudice and hate? Our consciences could finally feel free from blame – even though we were not personally responsible for the injustice.  Or would they?  Those times in history keep rearing their ugly heads.  Today the selling of children as sex slaves is the slavery of the day.

God doesn’t look at individuals in this way.  Each life that He creates is important – whether they are black, red, yellow, white – He made us and knew what we would be long before we were a glint in our father’s eye.  He loves each one of us the same.

When we become part of His family, through Jesus, we are set free from the bondage of this world.  Those ugly sins of the past have been washed away and we’re forgiven.  Therefore we have become a new creation.  We are united not only in our beliefs, but in our love for one another.

Addendum:  As we are faced with division again about what we should do with the explosion of immigrants pouring to our border, let’s try to remember that there is a legal way to become citizens of our country.  It takes longer, costs money and insures the benefits of being a U.S. citizen.  These masses matter too.  The unborn children and near birth babies that are eliminated through abortion matter too.  Us old folks matter also.  In God’s eyes, we all matter. We are His creation and He loves each one of us with unconditional love.

And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good. And there was evening and there was morning, the sixth day.”

Genesis 1:31 (ESV)
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MY WRITING JOURNEY

“By now I thought I’d be sitting by glorious, turquoise waters on some Mediterranean beach, drinking something exotic and have money pouring out of my ears,” said no real author ever.  We start with such passion and fervor.  As a painter crafts a masterpiece and thinks he’s done, than takes a closer look, noticing something wrong or feeling the need to add more – so it is with a writer.  First draft is like pouring your life into something and feeling you’ve said it all. Then you re-read and find flaws or things don’t flow as they should.  You beat yourself up for a while and then go back for more.  My day in the sun has not yet arrived, but it will.

I must admit, my journey has taken a brief detour. Something got in the way. Just as in life, we run through times of being put through obstacles, we might experience writer’s block – our muse is out to lunch or we simply need to separate ourselves from our masterpiece for a time.

In my case, the re-routing of the past few weeks started about a week after completing a performance in a play. In all my years of performing it never seems to fail. I fall victim to something similar to postpartum depression, accompanied by laryngitis, coughing and what seems to be an eternal recovery period.

Some suggest that diving into another project will keep the creative process moving on. Some will tell you that you need a break before moving on. Others suggest that God is telling you to relax for a while. I agree with all those things. As I get older, I’m doing so more often,

Usually a driven person with a strong work ethic finds it difficult to take a break. We feel compelled to work even when we age. Probably then even more so, because the time we have allotted to us is quickly waning.  Still we must take time to heal and since writing isn’t a physical activity we can still use our old noggin, which I’ve been keeping engaged with. Of course after a while, unless you put those thoughts on the keyboard, they quickly fade into oblivion.

In the meantime, muddling through seems like a good option

So as my body gets ready for the next step to finishing my novel, I will wait sort of patiently, and pray that I get it done before God chooses to take me home, it’s just another lesson in perseverance and endurance.

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GIVING IN TO CLOSED CAPTIONING

 

I am slowly losing my hearing.  With the high cost of hearing aids, I’ve been struggling along.  This disability can be a disadvantage to a happy marriage.  Having the television turned up so high forces the other partner into another room.  It can also add to the difficulties of the hearing impaired because they grow to depend on that extra volume.

A while back I discovered the closed captioning option on our remote and put it into use. It was quite helpful at first.  I was actually able to read what was happening by seeing the dialogue right on the screen. Of course it isn’t always in sync with the action, but you get used to it after a while.  I have visions of an army of little court reporter types, banging away on their keyboards as the listen through headphones – an army of chocolate covered ants perhaps, but I digress.  Of course that isn’t what happens.  Everything is computerized today.

I’ve often complained about “spell check” and even used it as an excuse for my poor typing skills, but I had no idea what was involved in closed captioning for television – particularly in providing live news broadcasts.  There is very little time to revise anything.  Most of the words are on the screen before that can happen.  In a way, it’s become a form of entertainment in itself.  For example – last night there was a story about a politician who had been on the job for six weeks resigning.  The caption read, “She had been on the John for six weeks,” which left no doubt as to why she was resigning.

My husband has gotten into watching the captions with me.  You never know what they might say – and often are humorously off track.  Like I said, it has become a sort of entertainment.  It doesn’t take much to amuse us.  That isn’t because of our age, it’s because of who we are.  It’s why I married my husband in the first place and one of the reasons our marriage has stood the test of time.  When you can find humor in the ordinary, you are sure to have a life of fun.

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GET OUT OF THE BLACK CLOUDS

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Today I went to the doctor to have my knee X-rayed.  I should be delighted that it is nothing more than a sprain.  The doc mentioned that my knee was practically arthritis free, there were no breaks and it was much healthier than knees of those much younger than me.  I should’ve be elated by that – but much like Eeyore – I felt that dark cloud hanging over my head.

When we aren’t feeling well, our emotions seem to take on a life of their own and everything becomes intensified.  Little things become huge.  Our minds play tricks on us.  We imagine things that simply aren’t so.  When we get a good report, we think something else is wrong with us.  We feel like hypochondriacs.  At least this is the case for this Eeyore.

I feel guilty for putting others out.  I feel like a burden. All the lies that Satan would have us believe come at us like a Brinks truck – crushing us, pushing us over the edge and into a pit of despair.  This sort of thinking shouldn’t be a mindset for one who is considered an encourager.  However, it seems to me, there are times when an encourager needs encouragement as well.  Sadness, depression, anxiety are emotions that affect every one of us.

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.”  John 14:27

Such beautiful words of comfort – straight from the mouth of Jesus.  He was prophesying His own death at this time, but gave His disciples the assurance that His peace would remain.  Our world is filled with sickness, death, desperation, depression, sadness and all the other junk that Jesus carried to the cross and died for.  There is no longer a reason for us to suffer, because He has done it for us.

Still, we are human beings, living in that sin sick world.  We are imperfect.  We’re subject to things that bring us down – worry us – cause us to falter.  The simple answer is to follow His lead and let our hearts not be troubled nor afraid.  Seems so easy, doesn’t it?

We’ve not been promised a life of perfection here on earth.  That is the life we’ll enjoy after our death.  In the meantime we are to be in the world, but not of it. Do not be affected by the things of the world.  Do not succumb to the lies.  Do not give up.  Throw away the black clouds and walk in the light.  Our day is coming soon.

 

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WOULDN’T IT BE NICE – PART TWO

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Well here I am again.  The second Sunday of missing church.  The virus has created my nasty cough, which can be quite a nuisance in church, which is reason enough to stay home.  Right after finishing my blog yesterday, I got out of my chair and something snapped in my knee.  This is the knee that was giving me trouble before I got this stupid virus.  Somehow when we get sick, one malady takes away from the others.  I guess that’s a good thing.  God allows us to focus on one thing at a time.

My attention quickly changed from my cough to my knee, which now had me writhing in pain and unable to put weight on it.  So it was back to the couch for the rest of the day, ice packs and Bio Freeze were on the menu.  Having spent the past 48 hours in my pajamas, with hair in need of shampooing and hoping to make it from the couch to the bathroom without falling down, I was definitely ready to get ready for divine intervention.

When I did venture from the couch to the bathroom, I must’ve been quite a sight.  Picture Gabby Hayes or Ma Kettle hobbling along on one foot, coughing like a barking dog, with no teeth.  Good thing I had no visitors.

I’ve spent the greater part of my Sunday watching old musicals and westerns once more, I’m becoming quite an expert on melodramatic acting.   Again my mind turned to silly random thoughts:

  • Wouldn’t it be nice if all the fat on our bodies could be brushed off and magically turned into cash?
  • Wouldn’t it be nice to be pain free
  • Wouldn’t it be nice to be a teenager again and know everything, thereby being able to solve all the problems of the world?
  • Better yet, wouldn’t it be nice to be 3 again – no cares, no depression or anxiety, just a longing to have fun?
  • Wouldn’t it be nice to create a musical western (I think it’s already been done) where Matt Dillon and Festus carried nothing but pea shooters and sling shots in their holsters and Miss Kitty served energy drinks instead of whiskey?  Instead of a show down in the street they could take it to the stage and instead of shooting each other, they’d break into song spontaneously.

Next week I intend to go to church.  Last week my pastor graciously gave me the Lord’s Supper in our dining room.   I know God understands why I haven’t been at worship.  I know the people there are also praying for me and I know that I will get well.  There’s great power in prayer.  Even for the small things.  Sunday seems like just another day when you don’t attend.  It’s as if something is missing.  Next week I’ll be in church.   I’m sure to be up to my ears with Bonanza, Big Valley, Gun smoke, etc.  I may even be ready to write that musical western.

 

 

 

 

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WOULDN’T IT BE NICE?

 

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Something happens to a person’s mind when they acquire a virus.  I’m not talking about being hacked, although it seems I may have been.  I am talking about the kind of virus that gets passed from person to person and hits you like a ton of bricks.  I’ve learned that it’s probably something you have to wait out for the duration of seven to ten days.  I’m on day eight and it doesn’t look like any relief is in sight.

When you’re confined to home with nothing to do but watch old westerns on TV – when you try to sleep but the constant dripping in the back of your throat continually tickles and stirs up a violent sounding cough which makes people think you’re dying – when your body aches so much that you feel you’ve been working out at the gym for 48 hours – something happens to your mind in the process.  You start thinking – which could be considered disastrous for some, unusual for others and just plain weird for a few.

You think of how you could change the world:

  • What if you could stop all violence just by holding up your hand and saying STOP?
  • What if you voted and actually believed that your vote counted?  What if it did?
  • What if every politician was given a couple hundred dollars to spend on their campaign and if they went over the cap, they would be fined a couple hundred dollars which would then be divided up amongst the other candidates?
  • What if people stopped looking at the negative side of things and started to care about each other again?
  • What if we didn’t have to lock our doors?
  • What if we didn’t have to fear for our lives when we shop at Walmart?
  • What if someone invented something to eliminate viruses and the common cold?
  • What if chocolate covered everything?
  • What if ants covered the chocolate?
  • What if you were devoured by chocolate covered ants?

As you see, I’m beginning to lose it again.  Most of the things I’m asking for in my “what ifs” have to do with things that affect me personally.  Maybe it would be better to turn that around a bit and see what would happen.

  • What if there was no violence?
  • What if all our elected officials had to pass a complete background check, sign an affidavit saying they had never done anything wrong and run for office based on their contribution to society?
  • What if the internet had never been invented?
  • What if people communicated face to face and learned to work their differences out together?
  • What if someone invented a cure for viruses and it contained chocolate and ants?

Maybe I’m onto something.

Instead, I will stop trying to solve all the problems of our times by going to the couch and watching another episode of “How the West Was Won.”  I wonder what would’ve happened had the west not been won.

Disclaimer:  These ramblings are from a mind which has been sick for eight days and wants out.  Any attempt at truth or sanity is beyond the capability of the author.

 

 

 

 

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LOVE YOUR ENEMIES

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One of the most difficult commandments from Jesus during His time on this planet is for us to love our enemies.  Of course it’s easy to love those who love us in return, but those who hate us and hurt us?

If your child comes home one day, crushed by the cruel bullying of another –

If you lose your job, because your integrity has been called into question –

If you hear false words being said, gossip filling the air, abuse, hatred and the ugliness of our world currently –

If you or a loved one is being persecuted for what you believe –

If you’re fearful of going to work or school because there might be another mass shooting –

How can we possibly be accepting of those who perpetrate these crimes against us?  How can we LOVE them?  How can we possibly look them in the eye and truly forgive them for their evil acts against us?

Jesus also told His followers (and us) that we should love one another as we would want to be loved.  Both of those commands stand harshly in the face of our natural feelings.  Our instincts tell us to fight back.  Retaliation is mentioned throughout the Old Testament.  Even King David cried out against his enemies.

As Christians we’re set to higher standard, not because we are any better than our enemies, but because we are to be imitators of Christ.  He withstood the sting of the scourge.  He winced in pain as the nails pierced his flesh.  He withstood humiliation, being spat upon and falsely called a blasphemer.  In spite of all that, He willingly gave His life for every human being – past, present and future.  He washed away the sins of Charles Manson, Judas Iscariot and Adolph Hitler right along with mine and yours.  Unfortunately, those guys never asked for God’s forgiveness.

When He overcame death and rose again to life, He was sealing His legacy with us.  He demonstrated what we have to look forward at our own death – life everlasting.

When we believe in Jesus as Son of God- Savior of the world – God with us – God in the flesh – we must also believe that His grace is sufficient for us.  What a splendid gift we receive every time we confess our sins and are forgiven by Him.  We then owe it to those who hurt us – those who bully or challenge our worth – those who lie about us – to let them know that you, like Christ, are willing to forgive as well.

Dear, Heavenly, Father,

It’s so hard to forgive those who have done us wrong, yet you found it in your heart to take on my sin, along with the sin of all, so that we could become heirs of your eternal kingdom.   Your gift is beyond my comprehension.  Teach me to forgive my enemies as your have forgiven them.  Help me to show compassion to those who hurt me.  I know I will not be perfect until I am joined with you in heaven.  While I live, let my walk be upright and a reflection of what you’ve done for me and all of humanity.  May the example of your humility, servant attitude, compassion and forgiveness spur me on to act in the same way.  In Jesus name I pray.  Amen!

 

 

 

 

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WALLY’S FRYDADDY FRIDAY FUNNY

 

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TIS THE SEASON TO BE WALLY!

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNY

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COCKEYED OPTIMIST

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When the skies are brighter canary yellow
I forget ev’ry cloud I’ve ever seen,
So they called me a cockeyed optimist
Immature and incurably green.

I hear the human race
Is fallin’ on its face
And hasn’t very far to go,
But ev’ry whippoorwill
Is sellin’ me a bill,
And tellin’ me it just ain’t so.

I could say life is just a bowl of Jello
And appear more intelligent and smart,
But I’m stuck like a dope
With a thing called hope,
And I can’t get it out of my heart!
Not this heart.

I seem to be on a musical track this week.  Unfortunately, the tunes of our times are anything but lovely.  In coming upon the above song from “South Pacific” it has me thinking in a different direction.

Every time there is an act of violence in our land, it seems we need to find someone to blame.  There are a million reasons why these things happen, many of which we will never become privy to.  There is often a call to arms (poor choice of words) to get rid of the guns – to make tougher laws – to call our congressmen.  All of which are pointless.

My friend, Julie has written a post about our call to stand up and speak our minds, or the stones themselves will shout out.  I know she’s right, but I’m not one to rant.  I don’t like to stir up controversy.  I’m not confident in my ability to change minds, but I do know that no matter what happens in this world there is always hope.  I know this because God has assured me of it through His Holy Word.

Last week was one filled with hope in my little world.  I watched as my granddaughter participated in a program called The Penguin Project.  For four months a group of special needs kids worked together with a group of mentors, a musical staff, choreographer, director, costumer and staff of dedicated parents and volunteers to produce the musical, “Aladdin, Jr.”   This project is designed to give those with special needs the same opportunity other children have to be part of a theatrical performance.  The final result was astounding.  It accomplished its goal, because of something that seems to be missing in our world today.

That element is hope.

I refuse to let the events of this weekend get in the way of the joy I experienced by seeing the culmination of dedication and hard work of a wonderful group of outstanding people.

The ugliness of our world seems to be growing like a ravaging weed – weaving its way into every aspect of our lives.  Yet there are still the stones that Julie spoke of.  The silent ones, filled with a cockeyed optimistic view of what might be.  We all have the ability to hope, just as we have the intelligence to love, to persevere, to care.  The One who can open those silent voices is available to all who call on His name.

The weeds need to be expelled by the goodness of people.  When evil happens, we need to look for the good.  We need to take on that cockeyed optimistic view of life, rather than give in to the forces that destroy.

We are in this world for a span of years, but it is not our final home.  We have a much better place to look forward to, but while we live here, we must continue to have hope.  God will prevail.

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A SURE FOUNDATION

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Atop a hill, within the mist, a sturdy city stands,

It has withstood the sands of time, by folding of the hands,

The prayers are not all answered, but certainly are heard,

In God’s own time and by His plan, He listens to each word.

 

When we are firmly grounded in the Word of God’s own voice,

Our faith in Him will carry us, for it is by His choice,

That we should someday share His home, that He will take us there,

Because of His great love for us, He has so much to share.

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WHERE IS LOVE?

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As most of you know, I have always loved musical theatre.  Telling a story through music is much like the operas of old, but a dramatic telling of a favorite tale always seems to bring them to life for me.

In 1960, a British musical appeared for the first time on the West End, based upon the story of “Oliver Twist,” written by Charles Dickens.  I remember trying to muddle my way through the book before the musical came out.  I struggled with mainly with the language of the book.  Lionel Bart wrote the music and lyrics for “Oliver,” which continued to enjoy a long run on Broadway and is performed today by many community theatres and local high schools.

The story is one we’ve grown accustomed to in musical theatre.  The hero has fallen on hard times.  His life never seems to get better until someone rescues him and loves him beyond measure.  What starts as a tragedy almost always has a happy ending.  In this musical there is a beautiful ballad, sung by Oliver in hopes of finding parental love.

Where is love?
Does it fall from skies above?
Is it underneath the willow tree
That I’ve been dreaming of?
Where is she?
Must I close my eyes to see?
Will I ever know the sweet “hello”
That’s only meant for me?
Who can say where she may hide?
Must I travel far and wide?
‘Til I am beside the someone who
I can mean something to …
Where…?
Where is love?

Who can say where…she may hide?
Must I travel…far and wide?
‘Til I am beside…the someone who
I can mean…something to…
Where?  Where is love?

We’re all born with an innate desire to be loved, whether it be the love of a parent, one you will share with someone else and eventually grow old with.  Over time the desire for love has become jaded and corrupted.  In some cases, people go through life never experiencing the joy of loving someone or being loved.

Jesus spoke of the perfect love of God.  He made mention of that love several times in His ministry.  He told us to love each other as we would want to be loved.  He told us to have a servant attitude – giving rather than demanding.  He told us that the greatest love comes from God, the Father, because He is love.

Where is love?

Have we lost track of it?

Has it been replaced with hate?

As we look at the events occurring in our country today and during the past half a century, it may seem that love is dead – that love has been forgotten – that God is dead.

I refuse to believe that.

I believe that God is love and He is as alive today as He was in the beginning.  I also believe that there are many others who believe this way.  Before we start blaming others, before we condemn social issues or political views, we need to look inward.  The love of God was placed into every human life at his birth.  It’s our job to keep it alive.

 

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POLITICS HAS NO PLACE IN THIS

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Here we go again.  A series of mass shootings has set the political pundits into action.  The call for gun control – attention to mental illness – the evils of video games – has once more come to the headlines, almost overshadowing the resulting deaths, injuries and trauma connected to the incidents.

It seems the first call to action has become a political intervention rather than a God intervention.  There can be a million reasons someone decides to kill a multitude of people.  We try hard to put a logical solution to the problems, but let’s not forget the lives that were spent in the process nor those left behind to deal with their grief.

These happenings are occurring far too often.  Whatever the reason, we have definitely lost track of something in our country.  It has nothing to do with mental illness, video games, white supremacy, racism or guns.  It has everything to do with a lack of value placed on human life along with not taking responsibility for our own actions.

Over the years, the raising of children has been turned over to strangers who may not share your values.  We’ve given into legalizing abortion and probably soon will see euthanasia being an option for those who are tired of living.  We are legalizing illegal drugs.  We create more and more drugs to keep us alive, but when it seems death is imminent, we pull the plug.  Every day we are trying to run our lives, rather than letting God into them.

We’ve walked away from institutions of worship because of scandal in the church – too many rules – too much structure – too much fire and brimstone and not enough feeling good about ourselves.  We’ve given out medals and trophies to children who did nothing to deserve them.  We concern ourselves with raising children that are well rounded,  by enrolling them in a hundred different activities.  We even allow them to change their sex at an early age to prevent any problems down the road.

In spite of all of that, there is reason for hope.  God is still in charge.  He watches as we dig ourselves deeper into sin, but He never stops loving us.  As messed up as we get as a society, He is always there with open arms to welcome us back.  He never changes.  In fact He is the most consistent being you will ever encounter in this life and beyond.  Instead of blaming others, let’s start looking within.  Are we willing to ask God to intervene in our country?  Can we once again trust in Him as our forefathers did?  Will He hear our prayers?  Of course He will.  All we need is to turn back to Him.  Only He can heal our land.

 

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SHED BLOOD

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This past few days have been filled with needless blood shed and death which serves no purpose other than to shock us and continue to numb us.  Whatever the source of discontent – if it be mental illness, hatred, brainwashing, whatever – it is pointless.  Our first instinct is to blame the weapon, but is it not the one who uses the weapon who commits the crime?  It seems we have become so consumed with the instrument of death, that we are not addressing the reason for the rage.

I have no knowledge of the inner workings of the human brain, but it seems to me that over the past few decades, we’ve become a country that will blame anything but the perpetrator.  We pass the buck so it makes us believe that we’re not responsible for our own actions.  The actions themselves are blamed because of a deranged mind – a false ideology – confusion of what is right and wrong and lack of self control.

Somewhere along the line, we have morphed into a society which holds a lack of moral fiber.  We have no one to blame but ourselves for the condition of our world.  We’re a product of our sin.  No one can claim perfection before God, without the saving grace of Him alone.

We’ll be hearing all kinds of theories on why and how these acts occurred.  There will be an uproar over gun control again.  There will be anger and hate and blame, but there will be no solution to this problem as long as we remain indifferent.  The basic tenets of humanity – value of human life – loving others as ourselves – helping each other get through the difficulties of living – turning to God, the One who loved so much that He shed blood to save us from an eternity in hell – must return.  We are all responsible for each other and I fear we’ve fallen a lifetime away from that.

In 2016 I wrote this after the horrible terrorist attacks in Paris.  This time streets are different.  The location is within our own boundaries.  The lives taken are those of brothers, sister, sons, daughters, mothers and fathers who were part of someone else’s life.  They can never be replaced.

Pools of crimson stain the streets.

People running, hiding, covering themselves and those near them,

Fear ensues, then pain, followed by anger and rage,

Faces and heads shrouded in black,

Too cowardly to show themselves,

Thoughts of waging a righteous war against those who don’t believe as they do,

Brainwashed into thinking they are doing this for their god.

Misdirected, searching, groping for something to believe in – something to hang on to,

Do they find peace in causing others pain or in ending lives?

Where is the righteousness?

Blood flows from a beaten, smitten corpse,

Hanging on an instrument of torture,

This One not taking life, but giving it through His own precious blood.

That is righteousness, bought and paid for the ugliest of us.

Refreshing, cleansing rain falls softly on an eager earth,

Thirsting for relief and longing for renewal and rebirth.

The tears of God bring respite for the dying soul,

He gave His only Son to fill a gaping hole,

The hole that widens every day,

When we forget to turn to Him and pray,

As branches dance and lightening fills the air,

I think of Him who takes away each care.

We see the need for God’s power to inspire us once again,

To cleanse our hearts and wash souls in His refreshing rain.

 

 

 

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NO CHURCH TODAY

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Going to church for me has been a part of Sunday for as long as I can remember.  When I don’t go, I feel something is missing.  Today is one of those days.  For a couple days this week, the humidity has been low and I felt confident enough to tackle some work in the garden.  Even though I only spent an hour or two, my allergies flared up and eventually congestion wound up in my bronchial tubes.  That and the fact that my husband is just getting over a virus which set him coughing for two weeks, has me staying home from church today.  My cough could wake the dead and I really don’t want to pass this on to anyone else.

The act of church attendance isn’t what gets us to heaven, but it can be an exceptional habit.  When we reserve one special day a week to praise our God, thank and worship Him, we’re also making a connection with Him.  Of course we can do that any time or any day, but setting one day aside for Him reminds us of all He’s done for us.  Fortunately our church offers Wednesday night services for those who can’t make it on Sunday.  Hopefully I will feel better by then.

Attending church services gives us the confidence to face another week.  We can share concerns for our fellow Christians, partake in the sacraments, sing beautiful hymns of praise, repent of our sins, ask for forgiveness and gratefully receive it. Through corporate worship we can also lift each other’s spirits, know that God is in our midst and get motivated to share the good news of the Gospel with others.

Some folks say the church is full of hypocrites – people who act one way on Sundays and completely different the rest of the week.  The church is full of sinners who need to be forgiven and nourished.  God invites everyone to share in His blessings when He calls us to His house.

PSALM 95:1-2  Oh come, let us sing to the Lord; let us make a joyful noise to the rock of our salvation!  Let us come into his presence with thanksgiving;  let us make a joyful noise to him with songs of praise!

 

 

 

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