We ‘ve known each other now for 57 years – more than a life time – a gift from God.  When you pledge your life to another it should be taken seriously, but there needs to be tons of laughter in this partnership or you will soon find plenty of reasons to walk away from it.

There are times when it’s really hard to find the humor – especially in the tough times.  When a thriving business fails with the economy – when you face difficult health issues – when you wonder if you will have enough money to eat – when you can’t find a job that suits you – when things are so upside down that you find very little to laugh about – how do you face these things?

Fortunately I have a husband who still likes to “dance” from his place on the couch to the kitchen to dish up some ice cream.  He beeps when he comes down the steps, because he has to do so backwayrds. He tells jokes that take a while to figure out because they have so many layers to them.  He sings like Donald Duck from time to time and that really cracks me up.  He has a great laugh and his face lights up when  he smiles. I’m not nearly as quick witted as he, but occasionally I can get a good laugh out of him too. I think a sense of humor is really an important part of a good marriage.  I also believe that having God as the head of our house has been the glue which binds us together.  He is the most important element of our life together.

There have been many books written on what it takes to have a good marriage.  There really is not one good answer for that.  We still have spats from time to time, but they usually end pretty fast, since we don’t have the physical energy that we used to have. Spats don’t usually result in anything good either, so we just cut to the apologies.



As I reach the end of my years, I find I have a lot of good information stored up in this old decrepit mind of mine. If I don't write it all down, it may vanish and no one will have the advantage of my thoughts. This is why this blog exists. I love the Lord, Jesus with all my heart and soul. I know I'm undeserving of all He's done for me, but I also know that His love is beyond my comprehension. I've always wanted to write. I never kept diaries, but tucked my thoughts in my head for future reference. I use them now in creating stories, plays, poetry and my blog. I continue to learn every day. I believe the compilation of our time spent with God will have huge affect on the way we live. I know I'm a sinner and I need a Savior. I have One through Jesus, Christ. My book, "Stages - a memoir," is about the seven stages of life from the perspective of a woman. It addresses all the things girls and women go through in life as they travel it with Jesus, and it is available on
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  1. tamweary says:

    I love it Kathy! This is Great and Timely…today is my 27th Wedding Anniversary and I hope and I pray that my husband and I will share the rest of our lives in love like you and yours. 💕💕💕

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  2. ken riddles says:

    Great Post. Hilarious too. Merry heart does good like a medicine. Sing on, laugh on, pray on….

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  3. Salvageable says:

    What a sweet tribute to a special man (who is blessed with a special wife). J.

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