“Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.”   Victor Hugo

When I was teaching drama to children, one of them came to me and asked, “Mrs. Boecher, why do you have so many lines on your face?”  I replied, “From working with darling, little children like you.”  It seemed to satisfy her.  The truth is, I started wrinkling at a very young age. As with many comedians, humor is really a mask used to cover the feelings going on within, but it can also prove to be a safety net to put you back in service. Actually humor can also let you forget about those ugly things in your life for a little while. It won’t eliminate them, but it will take away some of the sting.  I learned early on that laughter was very good medicine.

I come from a long line of laughers.  No, they weren’t hyenas! My mom was the queen of the chortle and guffaw.  She laughed in almost every situation.  She laughed at things that weren’t even funny.  I find myself doing the same these days.  She taught me, that even in the tough times, we can find something to laugh about if we look for it. When you look for joy, you will find it, but sometimes you have to look very hard.

Life isn’t a joke, however, and there will be times of negativity.  There will be days when the kids have defaced the living room walls with graffiti; when your kitchen sink is up to the ceiling with dishes; when bills are mounting; when you lose a job; face death – all times when you are so overcome, you simply cannot laugh.  Tears can also be great medicine for healing.

“In the process of looking for comedy, you have to be deeply honest. And in doing that, you’ll find out here’s the other side. You’ll be looking under the rock occasionally for the laughter.” Robin Williams


About atimetoshare.me

As I reach the end of my years, I find I have a lot of good information stored up in this old decrepit mind of mine. If I don't write it all down, it may vanish and no one will have the advantage of my thoughts. This is why this blog exists. I love the Lord, Jesus with all my heart and soul. I know I'm undeserving of all He's done for me, but I also know that His love is beyond my comprehension. I've always wanted to write. I never kept diaries, but tucked my thoughts in my head for future reference. I use them now in creating stories, plays, poetry and my blog. I continue to learn every day. I believe the compilation of our time spent with God will have huge affect on the way we live. I know I'm a sinner and I need a Savior. I have One through Jesus, Christ. My book, "Stages - a memoir," is about the seven stages of life from the perspective of a woman. It addresses all the things girls and women go through in life as they travel it with Jesus, and it is available on Amazon.com.
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  1. ken riddles says:

    Great advice. Thanks

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  2. I am so glad I found you. I am enjoying your posts!

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  3. DeniseBalog says:

    Enjoying reading your post. I work at school with young children too, and I could easily see one asking you a point, “up in your face” question! Lol All one can do is laugh! Thank you sharing. I look forward to reading more of your memories.

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  4. Kathy, when I found this post, I finally figured out why I was up so early this morning. I needed some laughter to enhance my coffee. Well done!

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