
I started out bald. I looked pretty much like a billiard ball until the age of one. It was then that hair actually appeared on my little noggin. Eventually it grew long enough for mom to curl it into rags and make beautiful, golden locks from it. Shirley Temple was all the rage when I was a little girl, so I fit the mold perfectly. As time went by, my hair turned a little darker until finally when I entered high school it was referred to as dishwater blond. Who wants to be stuck with a color like that? So, I found a bottle of hydrogen peroxide in the medicine cabinet and thought I’d give it a try. The change was gradual, which is precisely what I wanted. My mom never understood why she had to keep replacing the peroxide. Maybe she thought I was using it on my teeth.
Those high school years led to various rinses that would enhance the color of my hair. Nothing too damaging and certainly not as bad as pouring peroxide on my head every day. By the time I graduated, I had platinum blond hair. Years passed. I got tired of the Marilyn Monroe look and opted for a different color. By then I was married, and my husband had married a blond. I proceeded to experiment with different shades of blond. I even tried darker colors – dirty blond, ash blond, strawberry blond, honey blond. Who knew there were so many shades of one color?
After the birth of three children, I started to branch out even further. One week, in fact, I turned from blond to redhead to brunette and finally green hair. My husband told his friends he had gone to bed with a blond, redhead and brunette all in one week. When it turned green, he said nothing.
When my youngest daughter went to cosmetology school, I was lured into trying a plethora of new hair colors. I finally decided on the highlighted look and stuck with it for many years. It was a good choice. The colors blended well with the new natural gray tones beginning to appear.
Then I retired at age 75 I decided it was time to let nature take its course. It was getting expensive. It was one way to cut down on unnecessary costs. Within months, I still had highlights running through my crown of glory. Here I am, eight years later and I still have highlights. Maybe I should’ve saved myself a lot of money and lived with what I had. Maybe I should’ve done that with all the mistakes I made along the way.
It is funny that after years of coloring our hair, we women don’t really know what we’ve got. I colored my hair for a few years because it was fun and everyone said you need to cover your gray. I stopped because it was expensive and a bother and waited for gray to take over. I was 40. It took until I turned 60 to start seeing gray hairs! Lol You obviously made the right choice!
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LOL! Love this post, Kathy. I’ve always had a tangled mess of hair. I hated it as a child because it would get painful tangles, but now that I’m older I really appreciate it. There are many things in life like that. What we once thought was a curse turns out to be a huge blessing.
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That’s for sure🥸
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Thanks for the enjoyable post, Kathy!
RE: From the male perspective
I’m glad I was born male because my hair was barely ever on the radar. I was born bald too and I’m halfway back to the that starting point. Our two sons are very thin on top so they completely shave their heads, a “style” that has gained great acceptance and has put many toupee makers out of business. I just run the electric hair clipper over my noggin at setting #2 every two weeks and call it a day.
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My hair is still very thick even though I find handfuls of it in the drain when I wash it. I’m grateful I still have mine after all the abuse I gave it over the years.🥸
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