Apparently, putting a foot in our mouth isn’t anything new. We’ve just come off an intense political battle – one filled with promises and sometimes vicious words. What a relief to have all those ads deleted from our TV screens. Words hurt. Words lessen a person’s self-image. Words can also encourage and inspire.

Someone once said, “Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time. You won’t have a leg to stand on.” I’ve found myself saying things I don’t mean or using words that hurt. I sometimes speak without thinking of the consequences of my words. My tongue doesn’t always follow the directions of my brain and seems to take on a life of its own. Life would be so much easier if we had a script to follow wouldn’t it?

James 1:26 says, “ If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person’s religion is worthless.”

When we’re disappointed, angry, or depressed, we tend to use hurtful words as well. We might even feel better to simply get our thoughts out there. Venting can be good for the soul, but in the process, we may offend someone or tear them down without meaning to. Being careful and mindful, we need to think before we speak. Lots of times I find myself struggling to find the right words. My husband commends my writing ability, but chuckles when I can’t verbalize with the right words. I guess that’s true. As we age, our thought processing slows down. We don’t always say what we mean or think of the right way to express ourselves. That just shows me how much I need help in every area of my life. So, I go to God and ask for His help. His promises are always kept. His Word is always true. He love is greater than anything the world has to offer. I know I can trust His wisdom.

Lord, I am sinful. My words are not always the right ones. When I am tempted to say or think things that would hurt another person, remind me that I cannot even speak without your guidance. Teach me to control the words that come from my mouth. Help me communicate in my writing what I mean without hurting anyone. Make me an instrument for your glory alone. Amen!