“Winsome” is one of those words we don’t use in daily conversation anymore, but it’s a lovely word. It’s an adjective which means – sweetly or innocently charming. Maybe that’s why we don’t use it much. Our world has become less innocent, more bitter and less charming. What happened to those days of innocence – when thoughts were on simple things that would amuse or entertain? Oh, well, that isn’t the reason for this post really. I’ve done my share of complaining about the state of our emotions lately. It’s time to be winsome. At least a little winsome.
Yesterday, we had a meeting with Paul’s primary doctor. Another trip to ER required a follow-up. The day before I received a knee injection and was feeling a little sorry for myself. We all have days like that. Where things don’t always go as planned. We’re traveling through life with a feeling of being on track and something happens to disrupt that. It seems to happen a lot as we get older. However, if I’m honest with myself, life has always put detours in our way, but with God’s help, we’ve managed to get through them. Life tests can be difficult. There’s no getting around that fact. No matter what we do, or how hard we try, things happen that disrupt your daily living. Some days, you just wait for the axe to fall, because you know it will.
So how do we get back on track? I guess the best way to do that is to return to the Bible for advice. God has a plan for each one of us. He has control over that plan and will direct it for our benefit. He has paid a great price to redeem us. He will never leave us. His love is indescribable. The example His Son lived during His time on earth can serve us well. We can never live up to it, but He has shown us how to treat others. We learn so much about our Heavenly Father through Jesus. When we trust in His direction, His will, His consistency, His presence, His kindness, His empathy, His love, we will be able to get through the tough times. Life is not going to be perfect in this world. The rulers of planet earth are not winsome. The politicians may be charming, but they don’t truly have our best interests in mind. Many people have lost their ability to smile, to laugh at themselves, to have fun. Confusion and dissension are all around us, but GOD is still in control. Trust in His complete love for you.
atimetoshare.me 
I love words like winsome, wholesome, and the world the use of those words and the ideas behind them created. Now we’re living in the age of rude and crude and the most popular word starts with F. I agree that it’s time to start changing our words…
LikeLiked by 1 person
I took Latin when I was in high school for two years. I find it interesting that so many words are derived from those ancient languages. When you look at the original meaning, it enlightens the use of the words too.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes, it does even though I never took Latin…english is made up of so many languages. I helped my grandson with his spelling by looking at what language certain words were derived from and it made the spelling make more sense.
LikeLiked by 1 person
As always, Mama K, you give us wisdom and I love your winsome personality! I love that word! I read what you wrote twice. It’s so true that we forget to laugh, smile at ourselves and others, and dwell on the fact that no matter what, God’s will reigns. A friend of mine lost her oldest son (my eldest son’s age) and yesterday she said she needed to see me to lift her spirits. That touched my heart so much. We truly don’t know the impact we have on others. In our egocentric humanness, we think each day, “What can I do to make my life more comfortable or better?” and forget this one, “What can I do to help someone else?” Our world seems closed off and a friend and pastor said that 50 of them went out among the community to invite others to church and not one of them came. It’s easy to isolate. I do it. It’s hard for me because I don’t like going alone. And you’re right–the politicians and many out there want to be winsome and in many ways, create more division. May we all keep God the focus–his promise, his hope, and his love. Let’s keep spreading. You do that every day. And I’m so thankful for you and your wisdom. God IS in control and I’ll do as you and trust him. I’ve been praying for you and Paul. I’m praying your knee does super with the injection and Paul’s continued health journey, too. I love you dearly. Thank you for being here! ❤️💚💛🙏
LikeLiked by 1 person
Amen. Indeed, God is in control, and we must wake up every morning with our own spirit trusting in Him. I’m writing down “winsome” because the world needs to experience such moments so much more often.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Pingback: “WINSOME WEDNESDAY” 2/07/2024 Written by Kathy Boecher for “atimetoshare” | God's group