WHAT A WEEKEND!

Posted on June 19, 2023 by atimetoshare.me

My family means everything to me. This past weekend was filled with high emotions, tears, love and family – which can be overwhelming – but through it, I saw strength, faith, love, respect, honor and so much more. It was Father’s Day, so we celebrated dad in a whole new way. Our daughter from S. Carolina flew in to surprise us. Our son and his fiancee’ drove from S. Minneapolis. Our other daughter, her husband and daughter were also on hand to celebrate dad. It happens to be my birthday today as well, so there was that.

Last week was filled with fear, anxiety, lots of prayers and a continued connection to our God. Paul was admitted to the hospital on Wednesday, after a slight blackout at his plein air painting class. He had been experiencing fatigue for a few weeks, but thought it was caused by the hot weather and air quality. It turned out he had a stroke. It was a small one, but nonetheless a stroke. He also had low hemoglobin – in a dangerous range – and needed three units of blood. During his stay, it was discovered that he has a lot more issues than he thought he did. They tested him in many ways – cat cans, MRI, endoscopy, etc., etc. They also discovered a mass in his chest x-ray, near his lungs, and a faulty heart valve. Lots of things to absorb and process. They will be doing a biopsy as an outpatient sometime this week.

On Saturday, as I was trying to keep my thoughts busy, I decided to tackle some spring cleaning that had gone undone. I was surprised when my two daughters showed up at my door. My oldest had flown in the night before, knowing all the details of our week so far. Our children are such a gift from God. Even though they are on loan to us for the time we raise them, they are bonded with us for life. So, Father’s Day was more than a blessing. We were all together. We were able to talk honestly about the future. Tears flowed, hugs ensued, and Kleenex ran out. As I look at the pictures above, I can’t help but thank God for my family. They know that heaven is waiting for all of us, and that the One thing needful in this life is our relationship with God and each other.

Psalm 127:3-5 – “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth.  Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.”

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About atimetoshare.me

As I reach the end of my years, I find I have a lot of good information stored up in this old decrepit mind of mine. If I don't write it all down, it may vanish and no one will have the advantage of my thoughts. This is why this blog exists. I love the Lord, Jesus with all my heart and soul. I know I'm undeserving of all He's done for me, but I also know that His love is beyond my comprehension. I've always wanted to write. I never kept diaries, but tucked my thoughts in my head for future reference. I use them now in creating stories, plays, poetry and my blog. I continue to learn every day. I believe the compilation of our time spent with God will have huge affect on the way we live. I know I'm a sinner and I need a Savior. I have One through Jesus, Christ. My book, "Stages - a memoir," is about the seven stages of life from the perspective of a woman. It addresses all the things girls and women go through in life as they travel it with Jesus, and it is available on Amazon.com.
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17 Responses to WHAT A WEEKEND!

  1. Godsmanforever's avatar Godsmanforever says:
    June 19, 2023 at 8:03 am

    Happy Birthday !! Hope the Lord filled your day, and every day with His richest blessings !! 🙂

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  2. oldandblessed's avatar oldandblessed says:
    June 19, 2023 at 8:24 am

    WOW! I’m convinced that it takes a few years added to the mix to experience (qualitatively) what you did that past weekend. With an inventory of joys, disappointments, failures and just life itself, we’re able to enjoy every one of the remaining moments we have before us. Blessings to you and your family!

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    • atimetoshare.me's avatar atimetoshare.me says:
      June 19, 2023 at 8:29 am

      You are so right. The quality of life at the end of it is so important. I feel so blessed that we were all together to make these tough decisions.

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  3. insanitybytes22's avatar insanitybytes22 says:
    June 19, 2023 at 9:33 am

    My goodness, you’ve had your hands full! So pleased to hear the whole family showed up for Father’s Day and y’all got to gather together. You are truly blessed.

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  4. Lifetime Chicago's avatar Lifetime Chicago says:
    June 19, 2023 at 9:52 am

    Happy Birthday and prayers for you and your family. There are so many I know that do not have family that want to be involved and that is wonderful that they are helping. Through it all, never give up your writing.

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  5. davidkitz's avatar davidkitz says:
    June 19, 2023 at 3:02 pm

    I’m blessed to know you had this precious family time together. I am praying for you and Paul as you walk the road ahead with your Savior.

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    • atimetoshare.me's avatar atimetoshare.me says:
      June 19, 2023 at 3:49 pm

      Thank you David. God continues to walk with us in every event of life – to good, bad and the ugly. I’m so thankful for Him. Even though I don’t deserve his grace.

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  6. Linda Lee @LadyQuixote's avatar Linda Lee @LadyQuixote says:
    June 19, 2023 at 9:43 pm

    Kathy, you are so beautiful in this picture! You and your husband look like the perfect couple, and your grown up kids are wonderful. I’m praying now for Paul and for you. Sending ((HUGS)) for your birthday.

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  7. Pure Glory's avatar Pure Glory says:
    June 20, 2023 at 2:14 am

    Happy Birthday! In the midst of all the health crisis, God knew your children needed to be with you and Paul to celebrate Father’s Day and family! Coming together for hugs and being there for each other is awesome. ❤️🙏😍

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  8. Rebecca's avatar Rebecca says:
    June 22, 2023 at 9:42 pm

    What a beautiful family you have been blessed with. Family means everything at times like this. Prayers for you all.

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