Yesterday I had the entire afternoon with my fourteen year old granddaughter.  I know the day will soon approach, when being with Grandma is no longer cool, so I will relish these moments before she moves onto that chapter in life.

Our afternoon began with lunch at McDonalds – not my first choice, but it was hers and today it was about her so I gorged myself with a quarter pounder and wondered what tricks it would play with my digestive system.  She had no qualms about her fish sandwich.  Oh to be young again and not have to worry about such things.  We talked about which movie to see  and after much back and forth – “Grandma,  let’s see this one” and Grandma responding, “I don’t know.  What’s the rating?” – we finally decided on the one she wanted to see in the first place.  I don’t recall the title, but it did have a few good lessons in it, which I immediately  pointed out.

I remember when my own teenagers started watch “PG13” movies some 35 years ago and the only reason for that rating was the language.  I knew then that it was the beginning of the end for my children. They thought I was a prude and way too old fashioned, but that experience showed me how things can start out simply, but blossom into all out trouble – but they survived and so did I.  I still believe that the dark side of life is slow and subtle in making its way into our culture.  It doesn’t happen overnight.

Being a parent today is so much harder, because kids are exposed to so much before they even become teenagers.  Much of it comes from the 5 o’clock news in my city.  They’re hearing about sex offenders, child molesters and all other sorts of deviant crimes.  The television shows are loaded with immorality and our kids have become numbed to any consequences for bad behavior.

I began to think, as we walked out of the theater, how times change, but if your children are grounded in the truth of God (the One who never changes) you have a much better chance of surviving this season in life.

We joked, laughed and hugged to say goodbye.  The afternoon was over.  Two girls, separated only by sixty years, enjoying each others’ company. Time has taken its toll on this old woman, but I still feel like a kid when I’m with this special girl.  I hope she never gets tired of girly days with Grandma.  I know I won’t.






As I reach the end of my years, I find I have a lot of good information stored up in this old decrepit mind of mine. If I don't write it all down, it may vanish and no one will have the advantage of my thoughts. This is why this blog exists. I love the Lord, Jesus with all my heart and soul. I know I'm undeserving of all He's done for me, but I also know that His love is beyond my comprehension. I've always wanted to write. I never kept diaries, but tucked my thoughts in my head for future reference. I use them now in creating stories, plays, poetry and my blog. I continue to learn every day. I believe the compilation of our time spent with God will have huge affect on the way we live. I know I'm a sinner and I need a Savior. I have One through Jesus, Christ. My book, "Stages - a memoir," is about the seven stages of life from the perspective of a woman. It addresses all the things girls and women go through in life as they travel it with Jesus, and it is available on
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3 Responses to GIRLY DAY

  1. Celestial says:

    This post completely warmed my heart and made me feel guilty. I need to spend more time with my grandma. I totally agree with your sentiments regarding how immoral behavior slowly creeps into our society and by the time we realize it, it’s already stuck. But the relief is in knowing that if, “we train a child up in the way he should go…” He won’t depart from that. I’m so grateful that my parents instilled the love of God in me at a young age. Now, I’m much more cognizant of what goes on around me and how are society is becoming more and more lackadaisical in our morals.
    Thanks for such a sweet post. It really made me smile 🙂

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    • says:

      Aww that’s so sweet. Thank you. Call your grandma. I know she’ll be happy to hear from you. You are so right about the importance of instilling God’s Word in young minds. It’s the foun

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    • says:

      It’s the foundation of a lifetimr💕


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