“While I thought that I was learning how to live, I have been learning how to die.” Leonardo da Vinci

Those in this age bracket now represent 4.7 percent of the 65-and-older US population, compared to 2.8 percent in 1980.  The U.S. Census Bureau has estimated that by 2050, the number of those living beyond 90 years will quadruple. By the time we reach that age, we may have lost our spouse, other family members and most of our friends.  We’ll have some disability which takes away much of our freedom.  Driving a car is usually out of the question, although I know several folks who continue to drive at this age.  They are less likely to be texting or drinking while driving, but their reflexes aren’t what they used to be.

When you live until 90 and beyond, the body no longer produces new cells to replace the old ones, so at this age you are slowly dying.  There are options for those with need of memory care.  Many facilities are now offering activities that challenge the memory and often those who love music will be stimulated by the sound of a piano playing.  Those who have forgotten members of their family can be reminded through old photographs, stories from the past and more contact with family members.  Anything that keeps the mind active is critical at this point in life.  Our bodies may be falling apart, but if our minds are sound, we can live for a long time.

When we’re without a spouse or friends to rely on, many in this age bracket realize the need for moving out of the supposed comfort of their homes into a community of people with similar needs.  I believe that most people thrive on other people.  When we isolate ourselves, we lose interest in life.  If we were socially active in our younger years, chances are we’ll want that in our aging years. Activity directors are constantly looking for new things for their residents to be involved in.  There are those who simply think this is the end of their lives and give up.  You will see them lined up in their wheel chairs with no desire to go on.

Since we’re living longer in the United States, we need to make the most of those years.  God still can use us, no matter what our age.  It’s up to us to find a way to continue sharing our talents and wisdom for His glory, until we take our last breath. Whatever we did in our growing up years, will be helpful to future generations. Don’t underestimate the things that you’ve experienced in your many years. Even the low spots can encourage someone who is going through similar situations. Your ability to share how you endured, will give others hope.

During this span of time, we’re looking with great anticipation to what lies ahead. For those of us who have faith in God’s promises, we can look forward to an eternity in paradise. Our shriveled bodies will gain new life. Memories of the ugly parts of existence will disappear. No tears, no worry, no pain, no sorrow, no memory of the evil world we leave behind. Life goes on in perfection.

THANK YOU, JESUS FOR ANOTHER DAY.