




ART & INSPIRATION BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER
(Examples of Paul’s free standing and relief carving of fish.)
“Do not tell fish stories where the people know you; but particularly, don’t tell them where they know the fish.” Mark Twain
His dad was the first to teach Paul how to fish. It was a wonderful bonding experience for them in the rather mundane life they shared in the city – in the hustle and bustle – within the funeral business 24/7. The retreat of the lake led to beautiful moments just sitting in a boat waiting. His dad told him to keep his bait warm, by placing it in his mouth – advice he never actually did, but I’m sure it got him thinking for a second or two.
Sitting on a clear, glasslike surface, with only the sound of frogs croaking and crickets making noise, they would spend hours, sitting quietly, waiting and waiting for that one big one that everyone else talks about. As with most things Paul ever did as a boy, he studied up on it fervently. He wanted to know everything about it. He learned which bait worked the best, how to cast with a fly rod, how to fish with a cane pole. Most of all he learned to listen – not only to the sounds outside the boat, but the words from his dad from inside. His dad was a rather quiet man, with a somber side, but he also had a great sense of humor and shared that with his son. Together they spent much quality time on the lake.
He’d often venture out on his own, when dad couldn’t be there with him. During those times, his catches often consisted of seaweed, an old boot, another fishing lure, a snake and even a fish within a fish. He had a fish on his line that looked pretty good, but not only to Paul, but another larger fish was interested in having him for dinner too. As the small fish neared the boat, the larger fish swallowed up the smaller one. Paul was sure he’d lost it for good, but to his surprise, both fish made it into his fishing net.
There was another incident when he started to reel one in. As he pulled it from the water, there was nothing but a thin pink, snake like thing, which seemed to grow and stretch as it came closer. It turned out to be the tongue of a giant bull frog. Imagine the length and elasticity of that thing. When Paul let him go, I have visions of a fat bullfrog with his tongue dragging behind him.
Paul did a lot of fishing in his lifetime, but it was his goal to do as His Savior commanded to His disciples, “Be fishers of men.” He never wasted an opportunity to share his love for Jesus and encourage others to join in that joy. He set a wonderful example while he lived and I’m sure Jesus is calling him a good and faithful servant.

Well Done!! Another Wonderful ‘Paul’ Story..keep ‘em coming😉
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Thank you. I hope I’m not boring everyone with the story of the life of Paul. I loved him from 1957 to 2025 and will continue on through eternity. He was an adventurous soul who loved the LORD, I’m proud to share our life together.
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Wow! Almost 70 years…Amazing!!
I love your stories, Kathy…and your writing, as well!!
I was sitting here w/my husband, asking him if he knew that he could keep his fish bait warm in his mouth🤢🤣🤪
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Thank you so much . Affirmation is always welcome. I know that has to be one of the funniest things I ever heard about keeping your bait warm.🥸
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Reminded me immediately of my son and I – our bonding experience at the weekends when we would go fishing together in different parts of N. and S. Ireland. (Haven’t fished recently – he has two wee boys to impart his bonding to)
That’s how he/we forged his title as my best mate! 😎
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Great truth in your words.my oldest daughter and only son loved fishing with their dad. Our youngest daughter preferred shopping with her mom😊
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