Recently, we were shocked to learn that funny man, Matthew Perry, took his own life. The man that spent most of his energy making others laugh finally succumbed to his own sadness and depression. Death by suicide is never the answer to our fears, our depression or anxiety. In the process of taking one’s own life, it is not only ending one life. It also is a crushing blow to those left behind. We often become aware of the mental trials a person has endured when it becomes too late to do anything about it.
There are a number of reasons why people take their own lives. For example, extreme depression, brought on by feelings of low self-worth – money issues – the fact that your life isn’t going the way you want. It can be the result of impulsive behavior – a cry for help – an actual psychotic disorder, like schizophrenia or PTSD. The increase in the number of suicide deaths is on the rise. We see it touching the lives of the young, middle aged as well as our senior community. I was surprised to read that 85% of those committing suicide are 85+, yet as I get closer to that age bracket, I suppose one might feel the world would be better without them. I also can understand why, when life becomes so overwhelming – so hopeless – so dark – that we forget who has the final say about our lives and our deaths. He has a plan for each life that exists on this planet. He has even given us the faith to trust in Him for direction in our lives.
Jeremiah 29:11-12 – “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you.”
There is hope for everyone. When we realize that God’s plan is so much better than ours, we can lessen the pain of depression and anxiety. We can guide anyone who is thinking about ending their lives in this way by giving them the counseling they need through the resources available at the Suicide Intervention Hotline at 988. This number will allow you to text or chat.
There is so much confusion today in our world. There are senseless wars – relationship problems – questions about our own identity – fear of disease – countless other things that gnaw away at our existence. Still there is hope. God is available all the time. He is with each one of us in our misery. He knows how to calm, comfort, treat our illnesses and He’s given us the hope of life here and in eternity. lIFE
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I lost a classmate to suicide and someone that I worked with. My wife had a friend come to visit in Mississippi less than a week before she committed suicide. It takes a long time to get over it, having someone you know kill themselves. In ways, you never get over it. God tests us because He wants us strong enough to handle what is ahead. Beyond that, it is glory and no more pain, but I can wait. See! I am learning patience, sorta.
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So true, Mark. Every trial we face is part of Gods plan for us. He is the potter and we are his masterpieces.
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Or you might be like me, a cracked pot! Sorry, couldn’t resist.
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I have been 20 years sober from alcohol by the grace of God and by choice. Sone people did not think I drank much but I always gave my life to God. The problem I have with Matthew Perry is now people think that a trip to rehab is not going to do it. That was just written in a newspaper. No….a trip to rehab can do it. Even though it is a disease, that does not mean you can’t say no and take responsibility.
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Amen and I am so happy that you have your life to God and have remained sober for so long. He is our only refuge and strength. May he continue to live in you!❤️❤️
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We live in a society that is more godless and hopeless. Mainstream media and popular culture glorifies the spirit of death. Clothes that people wear and put on babies are full of skulls. Many have tattoos with skulls. Halloween just passed where death and evil was celebrated. light casts out darkness, love conquers hate. As believers in Jesus we must be light and love bearers, pointing others to the Hope of the world, Jesus. Everything is temporary except death . We can go from despair to joy when we depend on God who is our Light! ❤️
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Amen. And that light will never go away. Thanks for your thoughts❤️
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