DAY AFTER THANKSGIVING FUNNIES

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THANKSGIVING FUNNIES

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HAPPY THANKSGIVING TO ALL MY BLOGGING FRIENDS!

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VALUE OF ALL THINGS LIVING

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When our first grandson was a child of three, he had a complete grasp on the value of life.  As I stomped on a pesky little ant as it scurried underfoot, he immediately called me out for taking the insect’s life.  Of course I felt terrible, but in that instant I knew he understood how important life is, and how we need to be aware of even the smallest in God’s creation.   In that same year, he wrote and illustrated a book on ants and how they work together and how industrious they are.  Not to brag, but my firstborn grandchild is a genius.

Life is precious.  Beginning at conception, a life starts.  It safely rests and grows in its mother’s womb and after a period of gestation pushes its way into the world – a world filled with danger, hatred, anger, lust, greed and sins of every sort.  Each one of those sins is equal in God’s eyes.  Even that newborn has been born with sin in its soul.  Our original sin is a result of what happened in the Garden of Eden.

In spite of that, our God has promised to overlook our sin through the sacrifice of His only begotten Son.  Because we have been made clean, we’ve been promised eternity in paradise – a life without any sin and perfect in every way.  While we walk this earth, we are still sinful.  When we die our redemption is sealed and we will never die again.

Yesterday I posted about the importance of teaching our children to respect each other.  Everything we do as parents in the raising of our children is going to affect their future behavior.  Those who live in abusive situations, don’t have the advantage of learning what correct behavior is.  They become victims trapped in a web of lies and deception and eventually are made to feel guilty themselves.

A dear fellow blogger pointed this out to me in her comment on my post yesterday.  She felt that my post might send the wrong message to those who’ve been abused and not heard when they speak of their abuse.  This wasn’t my intention at all, but I certainly understand where she’s coming from.

When allegations of the abused come out ‘en masse, as they have recently, it serves as an opening for  those whose voices have been silenced because of fear.  Yet there are those who are lying about their abuse in order to receive compensation or notoriety.  Those implications can and do cause lost reputations, but more.  They’re making it more difficult for the real victims to be heard.  Crying wolf serves no purpose in the solution to this problem.  It simply allows the perpetrators to continue their abuse.

I am deeply sorry if I offended anyone with my words yesterday, especially those who feel there is no way out for them.  I would not want to be a stumbling block for anyone.  It is imperative that victims of any kind know there’s a place of refuge for them.  If you struggle with abuse, a loss of dignity or innocence or any other assault  on your life, you have a champion who will listen and defend you.  Jesus is there for every one of us.  He died for everyone – even the abusers,  the most horrendous of humanity, and you and me.  All we need to do is believe in Him.

Life is precious.  Don’t let it be snuffed out by those who would harm you!

 

 

 

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PROMISE

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ORIGINAL ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

A light streams through resistant clouds.  It brings a glimpse of heaven.

As once in darkness bathed in shrouds, it’s filled with hope once given.

The light came forth in darkness, so many years ago.

And shone upon the Son of God, in humble manger low.

He could have come in glory, with angels at His side,

but humility is what He chose, when with us He’d abide.

Oh, sweet and loving Jesus.  You came to give us life.

You promised to be with us in all our earthly strife.

You walked alone to Calvary and hung upon a tree –

You suffered pain and shed your blood.  You did it all for me.

How can I thank you, Jesus, for bringing me Your light?

Use me and let me praise you, through all Your holy might!

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THE DAY BEFORE

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It was a wonderful time to be alive.  Americans were living in a self-proclaimed “Camelot” with a charismatic leader and his lovely wife.  All was well with the world.

On this day in history the President of the United States and his First Lady, left Washington, D.C. bound for Houston, Texas to begin a series of campaign appearances  for Governor John Connelly.

That evening JFK and Jackie attended a dinner held by the League of United Latin America Citizens.  This was probably one of the first times  that a president officially acknowledged Latinos as an important voting block.  The crowd zealously chanted, “Jacqueline, Jacqueline, Jaqueline.  The First Lady addressed the gathering in Spanish.

By the end of the evening of social events and speeches, Jackie was exhausted, but still able to lay out her clothes for the next day – the stunning pink suit with matching pillbox hat; a navy blue blouse and handbag; short white gloves.  The outfit would be stained with her husband’s blood the following day.

The events following this dinner overshadowed it because the following day the President was assassinated.   Not only did the world lose a great man that day, but our nation became bruised as it grieved over its lost leader.

In the next few days we’ll hear many words spoken about JFK and his presidency.  Those of us who experienced that day will never forget it.  It’s engraved in our minds as deeply as 9/11.  Tragedy has come to our country many times before, but we as a nation will survive as long as we let God take the reins.

I know that many would like to have us believe that we are no longer a Christian nation, but I think there are still enough of us to make a difference.

Lord, protect our country and all of her leaders this day and every day.  You have promised to be faithful to those who put their trust in you and I know that you are still in the hearts of many in our land.  Hear our cry and heal our nation!  Amen.

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THANKSGIVING FUNNIES

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CONVOLUTED CHAOS

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WOOD SCULPTURE & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

When fears and worries are so real,
We sometimes wonder why we feel,
The pangs of deep depression.

The weight’s extreme – we lose all hope,
Our hearts grow sad – for strength we grope,
To lighten this progression.

We look within and try to cope
There are no answers in our scope
It now becomes oppression.

We try so hard to rise above,
We search in vain for any love.
To deal with this obsession.

We cannot do it on our own,
We need one advocate alone,
To bring our full confession.

God takes our hand and leads us out,
Relieves our pain – our fear – our doubt.
He is our best possession.

His love is great – it sees us through
When there is nothing we can do.
Our words hold no expression.

He lifts us from the pit of death.
He died for us to give us breath.
To wipe out our transgression.

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THANKSGIVING II & III

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Last Sunday we shared a sumptuous Thanksgiving meal with family   I just arrived home from church where we celebrated Thanksgiving with another huge meal and delicious desserts  On Thursday, I’ll be spending time with my daughter’s extended family and undoubtedly fill my fat, aging body with everything I shouldn’t be eating – AGAIN!

I’ve so much to be thankful for  My life has been a series of ups and downs, but never outs, because God has been my partner.  There were times when I had such a low opinion of my worth, that I was convinced I’d never amount to anything.

As I grew into a young woman, I faced possible death while be held up at gunpoint.  I wondered why would God would allow my life to end before it even began.  After I got married, I tried to make a dollar stretch into ten unsuccessfully.  Money always seemed to be a source of stress, but God provided just enough at exactly the right moment.  I watched helplessly as my husband went through some serious health issues, as I was also burdened with some of my own.

After several years, my husband was able to get a successful business off the ground and build it over twelve years.  We didn’t have to worry about money – for a while – but when the economy took a dive, we were forced into bankruptcy and had to foreclose on our home.  We both took jobs to keep food on the table, doing whatever we could to make that happen.

That was one of the lowest, humiliating points in our marriage and yet a wonderful time of blessing for both of us   Even though we had recently celebrated our 50th birthdays, we could continue to thank God for strengthening our resolve.  There were times when I thought we’d become homeless and standing on the corner with signs asking for help, but God didn’t let that happen.

This year I have three opportunities to thank God for His constant care and provision.  The point is, every day should be Thanksgiving.  I thank Him for dear friends who are now enjoying the promised gift of paradise.  I praise Him for His consistency in a world of chaos and confusion.  I lift up my arms, with a thankful heart, because He alone has shown me that I have a purpose yet to fulfill.  I have an opportunity to share His love for others and He will be there to bless it.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours  May God fill your heart with gratitude every single day!

 

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THANKSGIVING FUNNIES

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HOLIDAY ROAD TRIPS

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When our family moved from Wisconsin to Minnesota, I had no idea what a project it would be to make those holiday trips back home.  We had a small car packed with a playpen for our toddler; our meager homemade gifts, diaper bag, pillows, snacks for the long journey, three kids, our dog and us.  The trip was a little over 300 miles.   Camp songs became boring after 50 miles.  Much of the time was spent sleeping or hearing, “Are we there yet?

My husband is a master packer and filled every empty space. It was  like filling a jar with stones, then adding pebbles, sand and water to make use of each inch.  We made the rounds in order to see everyone.  We visited places our children had never been to.  They had endured pats on the head and the usual – “My how you’ve grown” or “how old are you now?” – from complete strangers.

Family reunions are like that. When you’ve been apart for a while, you can’t wait to see each others and after a few days, you can’t wait to leave.  Too much food; too much getting in and out of the car; too much catching up; and too little sleep makes for a cranky family.

Our road trip included going through snow, sleet, icy road conditions and numerous potty stops.  My husband secretly thought we wouldn’t make it, but he never let the rest of us know.  As with every thing we did in our lives, we flew by the seat of our pants.

Life itself is a journey.  We’re always excited to reach our destination and often disappointed when we arrive.  We run into obstacles along the way, which create tension and stress.  When we get there, we encounter more road blocks.  We argue over the small stuff and soon it becomes big stuff.  We strive for perfection and often set impossible goals for ourselves.  The trip becomes more of a grind than we’d hoped for.

As our children grew, our family travels changed drastically.  My father passed away, my mother in law moved to Minneapolis and my mother to Florida, so those road trips turned into airline tickets, making it financially  impossible to travel.

When life changes our situations, it’s always so good to know that God remains the same every day.  He’s with us on this expedition of life.  He carries us through the tough spots and pushes detours out of the way, making it possible for us to reach our final home.  There will always be challenges in life, but we can be confident that God is in control.  He makes the voyage bearable.  More important, He  gives us eternal life at the end of it.  We can count on it.

 

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THANKSGIVING FUNNIES

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Since we’re nearing Thanksgiving, I thought I’d add some holiday humor rather than my usual writers’ funnies.

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IT ALL STARTS TOMORROW

 

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A closer look at this painting of Paul’s, reveals the vastness of the surroundings dwarfing the beauty of these magnificent animals.  Its been almost 50 years since this annual tradition of hunting deer in Wisconsin has stirred the excitement of my husband and son.  The group they hunt with has the same energy going on right now. They await tomorrow morning with wild anticipation.  They will don their Thinsulate, bring hand warmers and other things to keep them nice and cozy in their tree stands.  Many a nap takes place in those tree stand too.

Over this near century of time, Paul hunted with the original land owner and his sons.  We watched their boys grow into young men and shared many good family times together.  The original owner has since passed away.  His memory lives on in the children and grandchildren he left behind.  Time and life situations change as time goes by, but these relationships have lasted almost a lifetime.

Now the group has grown up and have children of their own, who also hunt.  The memories of building an actual hunting shack over the years, has been fun to watch and hear about.  Each year, something new would be added.  It now houses an indoor outhouse.  It is heated by a huge stone fireplace, constructed by one of the hunters.  It also has electricity and TV, but no running water. I’ve only been there a couple times, but you’d never catch me spending the night.  The shack resembles the original home of the real McCoys.

More than  hunting or killing deer, this group has become a close knit family in their own right.  When they aren’t trying to stay warm in those tree stands, they play cards, tell stories, share their adventures of the day and continue to bond in the shack.

Paul had second thoughts about making the trip this year.  It’s hard to be the grandpa of the group.  No longer can he chop wood.  He can’t do some of the heavy lifting required if they actually shoot something.  He isn’t able to keep up with the younger hunters.  Yet he is a good cook.  Chances are, they’d starve if he didn’t go along.  So in order to preserve the hunters, he agreed to tag along again.

I’ve often wondered why Wisconsin only hunts during the week of Thanksgiving, so I did a little research on that. It seems that deer mate during the early weeks of November.  In order to keep populating the herd,  Breeding has taken place so Wisconsin waits until Thanksgiving to take those daddy deer out of the picture.  Sounds like a good way to preserve the herd for future generations.  A whole lot of preservation going on.

I’ve grown accustomed to being alone during that week.  In the past, it would allow me to take on some project, like redecorating a room – reupholstering a piece of furniture – or making costumes for an upcoming production.  Now my time, energy and body are not up for those things, I plan to enjoy some quiet time.

Let’s think about what we have and how we can use it to benefit others in our remaining years.  With hearts full of gratitude, let’s thank God for family and friends and moments shared together.  Let’s send our prayers of Thanksgiving to God for providing us with more than we need and amazing opportunities to enjoy life.

 

 

 

 

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THE HUNT BEGINS

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ORIGINAL ART & INSPIRATION FROM PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

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Within the glorious display of autumn,

Brilliant yet dusky colors of gold and mauve,

The untouched country side,

Filled with still green valleys,

Beside the waters blue they lay,

The grand antlered beasts,

Docile yet free to roam at will,

Filling their bellies with forage,

Carefree and searching for a mate,

Their fate is sealed,

The days have come,

When emboldened hunters trek,

Through swamps, muck and cat tails,

When the stillness of nature is broken,

With the sound of a gun,

Death comes quickly,

Or maybe not,

The adrenaline pumps,

Telling the brain that this is the hunt,

A time of extreme excitement,

Maybe a deer will die today,

Or maybe not,

The hunt isn’t all about death,

It’s a time for hunters to bond,

In the glorious abundance of God’s creation,

A time to escape from the every day,

A time to renew old friendships,

A time for life.

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JULIE’S FRIDAY FUNNY

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WRITERS’ FUNNIES

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DAYS OF YORE

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PHOTO OF ME CIRCA 1944We all like to remember the pleasant things from our past.

I think every generation believes that the “good old days” were the times they were growing up and young adults.  George Washington undoubtedly preferred remembering the days when he was cutting down cherry trees more than his time leading a fledgling country out of a revolution and building what is now America.  On the other hand, he would probably be rolling over in his grave if he knew what’s happened to this country since it’s beginnings.

The older we get, the more we seem to dwell on the past.  We reminisce about how much better things were when we were kids.  We believe that particular juncture in time was perfect, but not so.  For example when I was growing up in the 40s and 50s, we had no clue about global warming or the internet.  Our lives were simpler then.  Kids played in the street – we didn’t lock our doors – we ate dirt – we recycled before it was popular.

On the other hand, it was a time right after a world war and during the Korean War .  The atomic bomb was a real threat.  Air raid drills were held in our schools.  Many were building bomb shelters in their backyards.  The economy was still in a state of recovery.  We wore second hand clothes and shoes.  Our food was home made and consisted of starchy things like pasta to fill us up. We never knew about the ill effects of gluten. We never thought of paying $50 bucks for a pair of old, torn blue jeans and we were lucky if we got a pair of new shoes when school started –  but, I digress.

Every decade has its good and bad memories.  One of the blessings God has given me is the ability to forget the bad memories in my life.  I’ve been able to tuck the icky stuff into the back of my brain.  Maybe that’s why I have such weird dreams, but I digress again.

What I’m trying to say is this – Looking back  is a good thing, but looking forward is even better.  We, as Christians, have been promised a perfect life in eternity after our death.  How great is that?  We will someday be in the paradise that God originally planned for us.  We will have all our teeth – healthy bodies – no sorrows or tears – our joy will be overflowing.  So without hesitation we can say “Throw every day forward!”

Hebrews 10:17 “I will remember their sins and their lawless deeds no more.”

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AUTUMNAL GLORY

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ORIGINAL ART & POETRY BY PAUL & KATHY BOECHER©

The once brilliant crimson and gilded leaves have all fallen,

Only a few persistent “hanger-onners” cling to empty branches,

The ominously, heavy, grey clouds fill with crystals of ice,

And in no time the desolation will be covered,

With a blanket of glistening snow,

A bath of purity will cleanse any remnant,

Of stubbornness from atrophied limbs.

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WRITERS’ FUNNIES

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