When I first met the man I would someday marry, I had a pretty good idea that he was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.  He had a great sense of humor, confidence, he knew what he wanted out of life, he had a strong faith in God, he wasn’t afraid of hard work amd a sense of humor (oh, did I mention that?) A sense of humor is vital, in my opinion, if you are going to share a lifetime with someone.  When you’re blessed with children, it is imperative.

My husband was the fellow in our neighborhood who enjoyed having kids around.  He made them laugh, showed them how to play catch, to run bases, to handle disagreements, to whittle something amazing out of a piece of wood.  When we had children of our own I knew he was going to be a great dad and I was right.

He was always first on the scene when there was an injury.  He knew exactly how to stop the bleeding, make a tourniquet, soothe bruised muscles.  He had a calming influence on our children in all their panicky moments.  I on the other hand was worthless in those circumstances.

He was a great example of what a husband should be as well.  I think it is really important for our children to know that their parents are a team and that they hold each other in great esteem and respect.  This man set some high standards for our children.  He never forgot an anniversary or birthday and flowers were always involved.  Our children also learned about struggle as their dad showed them how to handle defeat, failure, illness and sadness.  He gave them the gift of a wonderful work ethic through his own example.  They could see his faith in action throughout their childhood and even more now as he continues to turn to the Lord for all his needs.

I love this man.  He has made so many sacrifices for us through these many years.  He always places his God and his family before anything else.

I could go on and on about what a wonderful man I married, but the fact is I’ve been blessed with a real gem.  God knew he would be good for me.  We have built a family together, shared our successes and sorrows, grown old together and become closer to our Lord and Savior together.  I thank God for this amazing treasure He has given me and my children.


“In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.”  Ephesians 5:28



As I reach the end of my years, I find I have a lot of good information stored up in this old decrepit mind of mine. If I don't write it all down, it may vanish and no one will have the advantage of my thoughts. This is why this blog exists. I love the Lord, Jesus with all my heart and soul. I know I'm undeserving of all He's done for me, but I also know that His love is beyond my comprehension. I've always wanted to write. I never kept diaries, but tucked my thoughts in my head for future reference. I use them now in creating stories, plays, poetry and my blog. I continue to learn every day. I believe the compilation of our time spent with God will have huge affect on the way we live. I know I'm a sinner and I need a Savior. I have One through Jesus, Christ. My book, "Stages - a memoir," is about the seven stages of life from the perspective of a woman. It addresses all the things girls and women go through in life as they travel it with Jesus, and it is available on
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  1. oneta hayes says:

    I wish some of us older folks could “cookie” cut some young men like the ones we married. Happy days to you and your good husband.

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