SUPER MOM

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The role of mother has changed over time.  The book of Proverbs describes what a mother should be – a virtuous woman who loves, teaches, guides, disciplines and gives her children the tools to get through life.  She should be an example to her children.

In Victorian times, mothers were the epitome of virtue.  Queen Victoria was the mother of nine children. In truth she didn’t like being pregnant, but felt it was something she must endure as a woman.  She also had a whole staff to take care of her and her nine rascals.

In the 1920s there was a shift in thinking.  Women felt trapped in their way of life.  The suffragette movement was underway.  Women’s rights were at the forefront. The confines of the home became a prison to many and they wanted their freedom.  That meant finding jobs outside the home and trying to maintain the house as well.

In the 1950s the stay at home mom was often revered as a saint.  The ideal mother of that time would rise at 5:00 AM, put on her makeup, fix her hair, and don a sweet little frock called a housedress.  She would bake, clean, scrub toilets, do the laundry, make lunches for her children to take to school.  She baked cookies and had a plate of them waiting along with a glass of milk when they arrived home from school. She volunteered at all her children’s events.  She was the one  everyone looked up to, because being a mother in itself was enough.  June Cleaver and Mrs. Father Knows Best were the examples of the day.

Today, mothers are expected to do all of the above.  The battles for equality continue, but today women are given the right to choose when and if they have children.  They can opt out of a pregnancy if they wish.  They can work in jobs alongside men and are equally qualified, but not equally paid, but they’re working on that too.  They can hire people to care for their children – teach them manners – teach them how to dance, speak, perform, do sports and anything else that will occupy their time.  In some cases women are becoming totally independent of men.  In some cases we don’t even know who the women are anymore – but I digress.

The stay at home mother is making a comeback as children are being home schooled, but gender roles are also changing, so often the job of staying at home is relegated to the father.  Still, the working mother has many more tasks than moms of old.  Not only do they fill the requirements of their employment, but they also do the work of a virtuous woman at home.  The work load is twice as hard because of the need for two incomes to support a family.

In any time period, moms are often under rated, over worked, often exhausted, under appreciated and many times taken for granted.  She will be called upon to don the cape every day for the rest of her life.  She will be able to leap tall buildings in a single bound, do the laundry, help pay the bills, have a little time to spend on herself (usually at sleep)and smile through adversity.

The point is, moms are super.  They love, they endure, they don’t give up, they search endlessly for the missing socks.  They cook, clean, prepare meals, hug and love their children.  They pray for them, worry about them, trust that God will direct them and swell with pride over their accomplishments.  They feel guilty when the sink is full of dirty dishes or if they treat themselves to  Starbucks occasionally.  They cry at the end of a busy day.  Often they just cry at the end of every day and wonder how they will get through the next.  They put on the cape.  They lace up the boots.  They wear the spandex.  They are Super Moms.

 

 

 

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About atimetoshare.me

As I reach the end of my years, I find I have a lot of good information stored up in this old decrepit mind of mine. If I don't write it all down, it may vanish and no one will have the advantage of my thoughts. This is why this blog exists. I love the Lord, Jesus with all my heart and soul. I know I'm undeserving of all He's done for me, but I also know that His love is beyond my comprehension. I've always wanted to write. I never kept diaries, but tucked my thoughts in my head for future reference. I use them now in creating stories, plays, poetry and my blog. I continue to learn every day. I believe the compilation of our time spent with God will have huge affect on the way we live. I know I'm a sinner and I need a Savior. I have One through Jesus, Christ. My book, "Stages - a memoir," is about the seven stages of life from the perspective of a woman. It addresses all the things girls and women go through in life as they travel it with Jesus, and it is available on Amazon.com.
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6 Responses to SUPER MOM

  1. hatrack4 says:

    A couple of things: My older daughter-in-law calls my wife, Super Mom, more as an insult than a compliment, but admitting that my wife does everything. Early on, my son’s wife refused to be Super Mom, and with the youngest graduating high school this week, she has been very successful at not being Super Mom. But our son, her husband, has become Super Dad. After the Air Force and then a little government contracting, he stays at home to write novels, poems, etc. and design board games – and of course, do everything the stay at home Moms used to do.

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    • atimetoshare.me says:

      I’m sure your son Is doing a super job being Super Mom. I know this happens a lot today. I think successful parenting is best when done as a partnership. It doesn’t always work out that way unfortunately. Prayers for your son and his family.🙏

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  2. I love being a mom…still do. Even with the heartaches that come with that job it is worth it. Our job may be underrated but God knows the worth of a good woman and I am grateful for that fact. I sometimes wonder if women strive so hard to be equal that we devalue ourselves. We try so hard to be like men that we lose what we are as women.

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  3. lynnabbott says:

    What a beautiful reflection on what motherhood is and how, even though expectations change, moms are always known by one important thing: their great love for their children! You, dear Kathy, are a wonderful example to all of us of what makes a super mom! ❤ ❤

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    • atimetoshare.me says:

      My cape is faded and worn and it doesn’t fit well anymore. But thanks for saying so. Once a mom always a mom.

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