The actual retirement process is here – as in applying for Social Security benefits.  It’s funny how this has been slowly re-labeled over time.  It used to be referred to as a retirement plan – a required amount of money taken out of your paycheck each week and matched by your employer.  If the plan had been well managed, this would’ve lasted well into the twenty third century and then some.  Now it’s called an entitlement program – right alongside welfare.  Actually if you live to retirement age and depend entirely on Social Security, you could well be considered at poverty level, but I digress.

There are some steps you can take before you get to that point.  Either start when you’re in your forties to set up a plan for those retirement years.  A savings account or some type of investment is a great idea.  Even if you save a few dollars a week, it will add up to a nice nest egg when the time comes.  You can also find a job that you love, which will carry you beyond the retirement years.  As long as you’re healthy and fit, you can work right up to the day you die.

Notice I said find a job that you love.  If you aren’t happy with your current occupation, you never will be.  Think of the things that you do like about your job and try to come up with something that fits.  Work is called work for a reason.  It isn’t always easy, but it can be enjoyable.  If you have to work for the rest of your life, you might as well get some satisfaction from it.

Decide what you need and what you can let go of.  Having collected two households from both sets of parents and accumulating our own clutter, made it quite a chore to downsize.  Don’t count on your children having the same feelings about your things as you do.  Chances are they won’t want grandma’s China or Grandpa’s old set of handmade tools.  Plan to donate these things, sell them to antique dealers or pickers.  Having garage sales is hard work at this age, so opt for an estate sale.  Before you do, choose the things that you simply can’t part with, but remember that none of it is going with you when you die – so how much value does it really have?  This can be a cathartic process.  By letting go, you’re making room for a much easier life.  Plus your kids won’t have to have that to deal with.

Plan on getting to know your spouse again.  You’ll be seeing a lot of each other.  At first you’ll get on each other’s nerves – bump into each other’s space – notice all their faults and mention them.  You’ll soon discover you don’t have the energy to have an all out argument anymore, so your disagreements aren’t as frequent.  Find time for yourself.  Don’t give up the things you like to do.  Learn to enjoy life together as you did when you first fell in love.  These years don’t have to be filled with the passion of youth, but there can still be romance.

Don’t compare yourself to others.  Your friends may be going through health issues or  dying, but you are still the same vibrant person you always were.  Don’t let their problems get you down, but also remember to be compassionate, because you may someday walk in their shoes.

During this decade it’s imperative to stay positive and turn to God in prayer.  Our voices may crack a bit.  Our bodies don’t have the bounce they once did, but God still hears our voice.  He tells us to depend on Him.  Now more than ever, we need that confidence.




As I reach the end of my years, I find I have a lot of good information stored up in this old decrepit mind of mine. If I don't write it all down, it may vanish and no one will have the advantage of my thoughts. This is why this blog exists. I love the Lord, Jesus with all my heart and soul. I know I'm undeserving of all He's done for me, but I also know that His love is beyond my comprehension. I've always wanted to write. I never kept diaries, but tucked my thoughts in my head for future reference. I use them now in creating stories, plays, poetry and my blog. I continue to learn every day. I believe the compilation of our time spent with God will have huge affect on the way we live. I know I'm a sinner and I need a Savior. I have One through Jesus, Christ. My book, "Stages - a memoir," is about the seven stages of life from the perspective of a woman. It addresses all the things girls and women go through in life as they travel it with Jesus, and it is available on
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  1. Salvageable says:

    Much good advice. Keeping out of debt (or keeping debt as small as possible) is also important. Those credit card debts grow a lot faster than even the best savings or retirement fund. J.


  2. I was on the phone just the other day with Medicare discussing Gregory’s hearing aids etc…
    but I will say the woman I spoke with was in Salt Lake City and as nice as she could be…
    but there are just so many hoops these days and God forbid you forget one hoop!


    • says:

      I will try to avoid hearing aids until I can’t hear a thing. Too expensive for our budget even with Medicare. Besides I have some pretty funny stories to share. Ow that Paul is losing his too.

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      • they are a pain in the asterisk –and this coming from the one not wearing them.
        He’s lost one agian…this time it seems for good…so he’d gone without them now for a couple of weeks…he can’t hear a word I say—and gets what I am saying totally upside down.
        We went to a new place last week and they will have the new ones this Friday…I can only pray he can hear, keep them in his ears (that’s how the other one kept getting lost, it would just fall out and he wouldn’t know it) and can be happy and feel a part of the conversation… and then the TV can go back to a normal level of sound!!!
        Oh and medicare only covers 5oo bucks per ear…not worth it when you’re talking hearing aids as those things are an arm and a leg and probably the other arm and leg as well!

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  3. Thank you, Kathy! This is filled with so much wisdom and excellent advice! ❤ ❤

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